I would agree with you 2 decades ago. Nowadays, we live in this hyper neocon/neolib world where human worth is solely dependant on the amount of wealth they can be extracted for the elite, let it be an assembly line or STEM. Both parents working, no time to look after the child, barely makes enough to sustain the household is common, then there's advertisement fuelling FOMO, buy the new gadget and consume some more!
So it's either hire a nanny or get parents to help a little. The richer ones might be able to afford to have one working person.
Sad and shit world we live in.