These aren't mutually exclusive terms, but for what it's worth, the last two clearly define Vickers in my eyes.
Really ask yourself: if Vickers cared first and foremost about ensuring the dignity, privacy, and safety of his family, how does he get further toward those goals by posting about it on social media and talking about it on internet shows (first Kino Casino, and soon his own)? The obvious answer is that it doesn't help at all, and will likely make things worse. People pointing this out doesn't strike me as genuinely trying to persuade him off his course. If anyone from here really cared, I'm sure they'd probably be emailing him instead of posting here. To me it just seems like letting an idiot know they're about to make a mistake in order to get the satisfaction of telling them 'I told you so' when they fuck up in the exact way you told them would happen. Can't have a joke without a setup, after all.
I do see where you're coming from though. I used to be way more sympathetic to Vickers, but seeing the way he acts online and getting glimpses into him from how he talks to people, it seems to me like this whole incident was anything but 'unexpected'. If it wasn't Ralph who gunted Faith, it would've been someone else. Chris Kerr proves this, and the fact that Vickers once praised Ralph as a way to bash Chris should demonstrate the type of character that Vickers has.
Bottom line: Vickers is a shifty-eyed pig lizard, and he's undeniably a cow.