Psychology used to be a way to help people overcome problems and improve their lives. Now it's just a way to brainwash people with pills like Prozac, Adderall, and Xanax.
I kind of agree and disagree. I dont want to powerlevel but know firsthand that if these pills are "brainwashing" people, they are brainwashing them into more normal, functioning people. I mean this forum was made to make fun of Christian Chandler, imagine if that dude took a pill that just mellowed him the fuck out, and brainwashed him into caring way less about Sonic or whatever. If he were a more normal dude he would have more of a chance at integrating into society which would solve the other half of his problems.
People abuse those pills, I had a girlfriend who was a pretty heavy (recreational) xanax user and would dissociate and send me texts that were literally "lhbfdsauhsdnej fdnsihje snfdj sisiild"--just jumbles of letter because it was the days of texting on flip phones-- so I know that it can be misused. But on the whole I think it's better to paint with a broad brush and take the good with the bad without the moral condescension and fake morality bullshit.
Are the diagnoses over-diagnosed? Maybe. But having a mental disorder, being weird, it's not something to strive for. Nobody WANTS that shit. Nobody should. The people who see psychiatrists, who take more than something like an anti-depressant, probably do have more mental issues going on. I think it's more likely that people just naturally skew towards being weird but everybody has to play the game to survive so more everyday people turn to these diagnoses to overcome their problems(cope) rather than fixing them. Like someone who is pre-diabetic just taking a bunch of medicine to "counteract" diabetes instead of changing their diet.
It's come a long way since the days of throwing "eccentric" people in a room and electrocuting them until they start to behave, although from a eugenics perspective you can argue it's not for the better but it does improve people's lives.
Not to mention just like OP's mention, said diagnoses are often used as an excuse for shitty behavior like "hey, if I'm upfront about having xyz, I can be absolved of all guilt for acting like a tool because I have xyz".
This, I dont know. In college I was in a dorm across from a girl who was LBGTQ way before it was cool, a literal tumblrina type of girl who would go on about her BPD issues--I didnt hang out with her enough to really know her, but she never brought it up in the context of "Hey if I act like a dick, you cant get mad at me because I have xyz" it was usually two separate notions like, "Hey I might act like a dick. I have xyz so that's why."
Its hypocritical of me to say it but it's a bit annoying that now, to a degree, it is more mainstream to be open about mental illness, because now everybody's a(n armchair) psychiatrist and the people who see them are all "pill poppers, junkies and addicts". Everybody is "fascinated" with it, but the reality is that most people are probably pretty fucking weird themselves, just not open about it. A lot of it stems from society's human nature, society was built for people to shit on each other and stuff like that; it's the "human condition" for a reason.
I pull a little bit from both sides of the argument--it seems like people want these guys to be normal, functioning and (ostensibly) happy but then get mad when these people abuse pills to change themselves to do it, I guess because it's like cheating? That's the condescension I don't get. On the other hand I do think that some "mental disturbances" are learned or acquired behavior, for better or worse in the context of the term--picked up either from hardship or picked up as a crutch, since people are basically the sum of their environments.