I don’t think you have to necessarily be a “Chad,” to not be a beta, there is middle ground. The first step towards not being a beta is to ignore women and improve upon yourself. The point was never to be a chad waist deep in poon, the point is to NOT get female attention. Women in our modern society are whiny, entitled leeches who have built a system to favour them with custody, alimony, affirmative action and all that shit.
If you have the misfortune of being divorced, you’re far from being a chad or man. Your manhood has been stripped from you. An ounce of prevention is worth more than a pound of cure. Disregard women, do not give them attention. Focus on yourself. Become overman.