I was watching Pointless (a highly popular gameshow) the other day where one of the contestants said that their husband would probably demand their winnings go into a savings account while they'd want to go on a nice holiday somewhere.
It took me 30 seconds before it twigged the contestant was a dude. They'd simply casually used it in conversation while taking a joking pop at a loved one. This is the reality of modern britain and LGBT relationships. Nobody gives a fuck provided you're not running around trying to jam it down people's throats.
That is actually also the normal reaction to have in the States, even in the backwoods boondocks middle of fuckin' nowhere, with a couple of exceptional exceptions, of course. It's funny, isn't it, how just treating something like it's
totally normal in a casual way will in fact make it so, but having to
announce it at every available moment just annoys people. It's so weird!
Kind of like how I was going to post about how I just don't understand why Tyler wouldn't have just made a simple statement that said what happened had been a misunderstanding, a drunken miscommunication, that he had made a mistake and was wrong. He didn't even have to actually believe that he was wrong in any way, shape, or form, but even that kind of half assed apology would have taken the wind out of all sorts of righteous sails, and while some people might have continued to hold it over his head, most people would have just shrugged and gone on with their lives because who even actually cares, honestly.
But then I thought about it a bit more, and remembered that that is how things would go irl, in most of the world, but not how it would fly in a place that had been tailor made to not only jump on any and every opportunity to witch hunt, but to also hold grudge for forever and a day. If he'd made an actual apology, I'm pretty sure the rest of the internet would take that- still make merciless fun of him, of course, but the average person who knew about him and the circumstances would have had their innate need for the appearance of justice being served appeased. But not the nest of vipers that he made. But I suppose that's what you get, when you spend years and years crafting the net's version of the Spanish Inquisition.
Which nobody had expected.