Here is the analogy I like to use. You meet someone. You find them attractive. You are eager to get it on with them, and you *then* discover that one of their parents are black, and you no longer want to have sex with them. That's clearly racist. If you aren't attracted to people who look a particular way (hair color, physique, etc etc)... that's not something you can really help. But if finding something out about their history or DNA is the *sole* reason you are no longer attracted to them?
Yeah. You're a bigot."
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They always say things like this. They always include the disclaimer about preferences - because they know that if someone says 'I'm just attracted to redheads' or 'I'm an ass man' then to tell them they're wrong for that will get widespread pushback, and is right on the line of calling people homophobic for not having sex with someone of their own gender.
But if you're not attracted to people who look a particular way (genitals, wounds where genitals should be, etc etc)? Suddenly you're a genital fetishist and still transphobic (even though by their morality that's some kind of kink-shaming) and it's no longer enough to have a preference "that's not something you can really help". Almost as if, like these lesbians are saying, they
are getting pressured, even if they are theoretically willing until they find out the person is trans. And as we all know, they believe troons pass way better than they actually do, and they seem to have no compunction about being delusional and lying about how much people want to have sex with them.
Also, actual women are socialised differently growing up and are less likely to make a scene, especially with someone who has the height and weight advantage of a man and could cause them real physical, and now social, harm,
along with being proven to be delusional. So I somehow think it's more likely that a bunch of troons (more MtF than FtM, but the FtMs do give it a go sometimes) are basically chatting to women they find attractive, making a pass, and then ignoring all signs that the other person isn't interested through a combination of autism and wilfully ignoring the signs to try and pressure them into saying yes. And like with all things, when a troon gets told no it can
only be because of transphobia, not any other reason. And not wanting to have sex with someone because they're trans should be as valid reason as any to not want to have sex with them - but what the other person wants suddenly doesn't matter as much as what the troon wants, which is how they operate their whole lives.
Tl;dr: to troons and their handmaidens, no means no unless a troon wants to fuck you, in which case you have to or you're a Nazi alt-right TERF transphobic bigot who deserves to die. Doesn't matter if your orientation is superstraight or supergay or even just 'no crazies' - your choice only matters until a troon's feelings get involved.
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