Plagued Nice Guys

vertexwindi said:
If women didn't enjoy sex, it'd sure be hard to keep on surviving as a species, I imagine.
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No no, all men enjoy rape tho so it works out.

DrJonesHat said:
And I did tell her to tell him to fuck off, but Nice Guy is convinced that her boyfriend is abusing her (he's not, in fact he's a saint) and keeps trying to "rescue" her from a non-existent abusive relationship. It would be funny if he wasn't telling everyone that the bf is abusive. I told her to threaten a slander lawsuit, and to get a restraining order. I'm worried he's going to assault the boyfriend. I told them both to get ROs. It remains to be seen how he takes that.
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Has your friend considered screaming "RAAAPE OH GOD SOMEONE HELP ME HE'S GOING TO RAPE ME" any time this guy gets within ten yards? That might light a fire under his ass to back off.
 
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a girl posted about being grabbed in a bar, the comments there
https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/5veofh/a_girl_posted_about_being_grabbed_in_a_bar_and_i/
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https://www.reddit.com/r/niceguys/comments/5v79sq/nice_guy_tries_sliding_right_in_there/
 
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Alec Benson Leary said:
No no, all men enjoy rape tho so it works out.


Has your friend considered screaming "RAAAPE OH GOD SOMEONE HELP ME HE'S GOING TO RAPE ME" any time this guy gets within ten yards? That might light a fire under his ass to back off.
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I suspect getting slapped with a TRO will make him go away. He won't risk arrest, he has too much to lose.
 
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Bombshell said:
Sigh yeah.

I'm a woman, I can't show you a picture of myself for obvious reasons but if I may say so myself. I am not bad looking.
I'm Danish, so I got that classic scandinavian look plus I eat healthy and I run, so I am at a decent physical condition.
To top that off I am a giant nerd, I don't like romcoms but watch all the marvel movies as they come up, go to cons, play games. The circles I walk in are mostly male dominated, so yeah. I don't lack attention.

Oh jesus. I have met guys, met these guys where I know with a hundred percent certainity. They would go to the end of the world for me. They would gone through fire and water if I let them.
I know I sound all self absorbed and narcisistic now, but it's true! If I had asked some of these guys to jump off a building for me... they might would have done it :/

And that is a MAJOR turn off for me, I just can't deal with that. I don't want a servant I want a partner in crime as I say.

Those guys, whom feel like I am the answer to their happiness and then rely everything on what I feel or do... And they would do anything I suggest... ufff. brrr.

And they are so sweet and innocent, their intentions are clearly very pure. I just have to turn them down, and not trying to be easy about it just, be straight and firm. "No. No buddie, not happening."

It always sucks because I know I am making these actually really nice people very upset, and I hate making people upset. But well, keeping them hanging and hoping wont do them any favours, at least I don't think so. So whenever one of those guys pop up, I make it very clear as fast as possible. "No, i'm not interested."

But yeah, I need a man with a mind of his own! I need a partner in crime to work with, I need someone whom also have his own life, I need someone whom can in fact challenge me.
I need a strong independent man...

Then of course I also tried to meet men whom got fucking furious with me because I didn't respond to their initial advances.
A guy found out I am a movie buff, started to talk about what he knew about movies clearly trying to hit on me, I corrected him in his statement and he got PISSED!

Of course this is only one guy, he is an individual and in no way reflect all men, 90 percent of all men I have ever met are the nicest people ever.
There are men whom sucks, there are men whom are great, there are women whom sucks and there are woman whom are great :)
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Are you sure your inability to find a partner doesn't have more to do with that massive wall of narcissism you posted? Literally the first thing that came to my mind after I read your post was "holy shit this person is really self absorbed and in love with them self."
 
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Ruin said:
Are you sure your inability to find a partner doesn't have more to do with that massive wall of narcissism you posted? Literally the first thing that came to my mind after I read your post was "holy shit this person is really self absorbed and in love with them self."
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You gotta love yourself before you can love others!
 
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Alec Benson Leary said:
Let me guess, he's on notice already from stalking someone previously?
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Far as I can tell, no. But he's from a wealthy family and they're very protective of their reputation and if he embarrasses them, they'll cut him off (he works for the family business, and would have a hard time getting an equivalent job at another company).
 
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