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He literally looks like an Angela Anaconda character.
Back on topic:
"friend zoned or worse..."
The worse: "eeeeewwww, go fuck yourself you hideous mutant".
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The worse: "eeeeewwww, go fuck yourself you hideous mutant".
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He might a find a woman who's into female domination who'd take him up on that, but a lot of times, in a D/s relationship, there's no sex. There can be, but usually, that's negotiated at the beginning of the arrangement and someone that passive won't have the spine to state what he wants. So enjoy being a tool I guess and watching her fuck other guys.
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You need to add this into the OP and refer any wandering Nice Guys to it, something like, "If you're a Nice Guy, then please read this 1st".
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Plinkett said it best: "women don't mind an initial nervousness in a man, it's flattering to them. But it gets old real fast."
To a reasonable person all this means is that approaching someone you like takes a little courage, and being mature enough to not hide that behind a veneer of not caring at all is a quality a lot of girls like. But... the flip side of that is that you do have to act like a grown-up, keep presenting yourself honestly and state what you want.
These guys watch too many animes where the tsundere or whatever forcibly takes control of the guy and their relationship without his input, because he's too lazy to have a plan and too cowardly to take any stand and she's a cartoon fantasy who will do all the hard work for him anyway. No girl (or guy!) who is emotionally mature wants a relationship where they have to take responsibility for all of it all of the time. It's tiring.
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I love it because it's like, they get all mad about confident swaggering Chads stealing at the girls, so instead of RPing confidence and swagger, they just amplify the worst aspects of themselves all at once: "I'm a creepy jittery weirdo who loves RPing and anime! Wanna come over and look at my sword collection?"
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"They're not like other guys" because they're into non-mainstream stuff, and they hope that they're going to hit the jackpot finding a beautiful girlfriend who loves them for who they are. It makes me think of a first time lottery ticket buyer getting their hopes up on that first ticket, not understanding that the odds of them getting the outcome they want are so small.
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But really, it could be because they can't relate to others well, and they project that to others so they feel the need to make their feelings clear with the RP stuff. As for the nervousness, it could be they think that's endearing all the time.
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Another possible reason Nice guys use the whole roleplay thing is that they find roleplay to be cute. I.e, what they find to be cute must be what their m'ladies find cute, nevermind her actual opinions. As we know, Nice guys are very self centered.
Porker LeVance
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The reason they rage so hard at “Chads” is because that’s what they’re jealous of. They desperately want to be Chad, and presume that Chads are born perfect, which is unfair cuz they were born all flawed. If they had been born with chiseled good looks and athletic skill they’d have what they want and women would be eagerly anticipating getting picked for a date. Never mind that most guys are not born perfect and work to gain social value, some even spend decades on self improvement before some nice guy calls them a Chad. Nice guys think asking a girl out is the only effort they need to put in, and flip the fuck out when they’re not rewarded for doing the bare minimum.
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Even if a guy is good-looking, that's only useful on its own for meaningless hookups. No matter how hot you are or how good in bed you are, if you don't some other redeeming attributes, you're boring as fuck. Boredom will kill the mood faster than anything, short of macing her.
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Nice Guys: 1870s style.
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But confidence and swagger makes you sound like a Chad. It's a Catch-22.
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*chilling with my homies*
*flexes large muscles*
*puts on WOW! tank top*
*stare everybody in the eye, if don’t I literally die*
“Sup.”
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I get the impression that this guy is omitting some key details about the "brief conversation" he had.
"Give one of those guys a chance cause at least they know they like you"
"Im a loser that browses 4chan til 5 an"
"whatever fucking bitch"
"will u fuck me"
"I don't know if a nerdy gamer girl will love me"
"Give one of those guys a chance cause at least they know they like you"
"Im a loser that browses 4chan til 5 an"
"whatever fucking bitch"
"will u fuck me"
"I don't know if a nerdy gamer girl will love me"
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These days nerdy things (or what may have been classed as nerdy things in the past) are more popular than ever among The Females. You'd think that nowadays they'd much more easily find a Female that shares similar interests as they do. If only they would stop be so arrogant and only going for The Females that are out of their league.
Say they did manage to get a date with a girl who you'd normally assume was out of their league, what would they even talk about? They'd sit there silently and awkwardly staring at each other while he keeps telling her how beautiful she is. Sounds like a fun night out.
The thing is, its not like they arent nice people (Ill give them the benefit of the doubt), its just that they have nothing else to offer. And lets be honest, life is competition and most women have loads of options. Would you date a plain nice guy who seems alright or a nice handsome guy who is funny and can make you laugh?
Theres a good video somewhere on youtube about J Peterson lecturing his students about how men should offer more than just being nice. Being a decent human being is good, but it doesnt get you a job, it doesnt get your stability and it doesnt get you a girlfriend. You need more skills in life than that
Theres a good video somewhere on youtube about J Peterson lecturing his students about how men should offer more than just being nice. Being a decent human being is good, but it doesnt get you a job, it doesnt get your stability and it doesnt get you a girlfriend. You need more skills in life than that
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Pro tip: Any girl willing to date you solely because you're "nice" is not a girl you want to date anyway.
Well "nice guys" are so desperate they wont think this way anyway. Which is the problem. Desperation leads to no standards, no values and selling yourself short