How much crossover is there between nice guys and the manosphere? How about male feminists? Or are they like a distinct sub-species altogether that superficially look similar? Kinda like how dolphins and sharks "coevolved" but are not actually related, they just superficially look alike. In this case, their behavior seems similar even though their ideologies are different.
Sorry if this has been asked before, but I couldn't find the answer when I used the search function and a study I found on them didn't have the answers either, even though it was an interesting read.
This paper is about a forum called BlueSky and she discusses "nice guys." The author is a feminist who was gradually accepted by this online community.
I'd say they're close to the manosphere and many of them tend to move on to the Red Pill/PUA bullshit after they realize being a "nice guy" doesn't work.
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That response is way too polite. She should have gone off on him considering that he insinuated that she's a whore for not having more "decency." Also, how fucking creepy is it to message someone and tell them you're concerned about their clothing choices?
I personally like how he assumed that her failure to respond immediately was because she didn't understand such esoteric terms as "frigid", "provocative", and "bosoms". So not only is she a whore, she's a stupid whore.
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That response is way too polite. She should have gone off on him considering that he insinuated that she's a whore for not having more "decency." Also, how fucking creepy is it to message someone and tell them you're concerned about their clothing choices?
She probably responded nicely instead of blocking him and let him think he's getting somewhere so she can get more replies to mock with friends. You don't cut off a A++ source of entertainment like that.
I'd say they're close to the manosphere and many of them tend to move on to the Red Pill/PUA bullshit after they realize being a "nice guy" doesn't work.
I waz surprised to read PUA is dead a few pages back. But i supose it was always just a scam to sell to awarkmen work shops/bull shit rationizations for thier failings.
Whats weird is what happens when/if yoy sit them down and explain what the problem is they dont want to believe it. Its always someone elses fault.
I waz surprised to read PUA is dead a few pages back. But i supose it was always just a scam to sell to awarkmen work shops/bull shit rationizations for thier failings.
Whats weird is what happens when/if yoy sit them down and explain what the problem is they dont want to believe it. Its always someone elses fault.
Have you read Death to Normies? Got it on a whim the other day and have almost finished it. She got some things more right than others, still a good read though.
The author did get the "nice" guy thing down as well as their psyche. They have levels of red pills with the first being the red pill and the last is swearing women off altogether.
*Her biggest mistake was the assumption that 4chan & Tumblr have coherent philosophies across the site. They're both diverse although their radicals lean in different directions. Each board and tag has its own culture. For example, with 4chan /pol/ is not the same as /tg/ or /k/ which are both different from the lgbtq board. With Tumblr there were those who were pro-GG and you can even find conservative tags.
This HAS to be a joke. It hits every stereotype. From "I don't just think about naked sex, I also think about naked cuddling," to "I walk up to women and tell them they're beautiful as a conversation starter" to "worshiping is totally not fetishization" to "I get accused of mansplaining" to the fucking door opening thing (which is just a normal polite thing to do for anyone), it is a Nice Guy bingo card.
I am actually not surprised that there's so many guy hitting on women on LinkedIn that it required an article spelling out why that's not appropriate.
There's a woman on my team at work who's dealing with an unwanted suitor. She's black, and the Casanova sent her a message that said "you're pretty smart for a black girl". He is apparently mystified as to why she blocked him. I'll see if she's up to sharing some screenshots.