Plagued Nice Guys

A question to the Nerdy Singles out there, if we're looking for that someone what type of person/s are you looking for?

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The Valeyard said:
A question to the Nerdy Singles out there, if we're looking for that someone what type of person/s are you looking for?

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I dunno, Stacy with glasses and a game controller in her hands?

Have any of these guys shown honest interest in their looksmatch?
 
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DrJonesHat said:
If you brag about how much money you make and all the shit you have, the only people you'll attract are as shallow as you.
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So how many poor people you know are good with women?
 
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Don't you just love how he admits that he was trying to take advantage of a woman who couldn't afford to buy groceries? And not for one moment does he seem to realize just how despicably slimy that was?
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Seriously, the girl's boyfriend (if she says he's her boyfriend then he's her boyfriend as far as you're concerned, Nice Guy nitwit) was sick enough that he ended up in the hospital, and because the boyfriend couldn't make a date because he was that sick, this Nice Guy says the boyfriend is 'ditching her'? I'm preeeeeetty sure that girl understands that health issues take priority over going out to dinner or some shit.

I hope that guy ended up making a scene the next day at work, the girl told her boss about all the sexual harassment he was giving her, and he got his ass fired. Would serve him right. No woman deserves to put up with that shit, especially with him being her co-worker.
 
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Eshettar said:
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Don't you just love how he admits that he was trying to take advantage of a woman who couldn't afford to buy groceries? And not for one moment does he seem to realize just how despicably slimy that was?
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If that's short and to the point, I'd hate to see long and rambling. And you can tell she was wary of him early on, when she said someone else was helping her with groceries. Gavin de Becker, in his book The Gift of Fear mentions loan sharking, or unsolicited acts of giving as means stalkers use to control their victim. He was clearly expecting to hold that over her head as social debt, but she was aware of his angle, and got help from elsewhere. And his line "he's not her boyfriend" is telling as well. That means he's trying to impose his beliefs on her. Like @Viridian said, if she say he's her bf, he's her bf. Discussion over. He hits the typical Nice Guy checklist items too: will never ditch her (so clingy) and will shower her with compliments (overbearing). I hope she complained about him. And the fact she hadn't blocked him makes sense actually. She obviously is uncomfortable with his behavior, so she may be gathering evidence if she needs to go to management or get a restraining order, or just to prove to her circle of friends he's a creepy SOB.
 
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DrJonesHat said:
If that's short and to the point, I'd hate to see long and rambling. And you can tell she was wary of him early on, when she said someone else was helping her with groceries. Gavin de Becker, in his book The Gift of Fear mentions loan sharking, or unsolicited acts of giving as means stalkers use to control their victim. He was clearly expecting to hold that over her head as social debt, but she was aware of his angle, and got help from elsewhere. And his line "he's not her boyfriend" is telling as well. That means he's trying to impose his beliefs on her. Like @Viridian said, if she say he's her bf, he's her bf. Discussion over. He hits the typical Nice Guy checklist items too: will never ditch her (so clingy) and will shower her with compliments (overbearing). I hope she complained about him. And the fact she hadn't blocked him makes sense actually. She obviously is uncomfortable with his behavior, so she may be gathering evidence if she needs to go to management or get a restraining order, or just to prove to her circle of friends he's a creepy SOB.
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I think the whole "your boyfriend is a jerk and you can do better" combined with a hug was her first tip off. He mentions she changes the subject quickly.

I wonder what the time period this all happened in. Like , in 6 months? A year? 3 months?

Having plans canceled on you sucks when you are looking forward to them, but canceling plans 3 times in 2 weeks is way different than canceling them 3 times in 6 months.

But honestly she did the smart thing here in 1. Not letting him do the groceries, and 2. Firmly saying "no is no". If this kinda behavior persists from him, she has a written account of her asking him to desist, and that could help if she needs to get her workplace involved for whatever reason
 
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An Ghost said:
Who knows if this is legit but the asterisk role play is top notch
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I want desperately to believe that is real.
Country Matters said:
I think the whole "your boyfriend is a jerk and you can do better" combined with a hug was her first tip off. He mentions she changes the subject quickly.

I wonder what the time period this all happened in. Like , in 6 months? A year? 3 months?

Having plans canceled on you sucks when you are looking forward to them, but canceling plans 3 times in 2 weeks is way different than canceling them 3 times in 6 months.

But honestly she did the smart thing here in 1. Not letting him do the groceries, and 2. Firmly saying "no is no". If this kinda behavior persists from him, she has a written account of her asking him to desist, and that could help if she needs to get her workplace involved for whatever reason
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Yeah, the whole "he doesn't deserve you" routine is insulting both to the boyfriend and the woman in question. First, you're insulting someone they have an emotional connection to, and people don't like that. Secondly, you're implying they're too stupid make good decisions. Neither will get you anything but the cold shoulder.
 
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