No, absolutely not.
Sid has seriously crippling issues with his own identity, sense of masculinity and self-worth, which he's clearly projecting onto the female gender. If he wants to make female friends or become romantically attached with a woman the very first thing he needs to do is stop obsessing over his twisted ideas of how women view him, and work on bettering himself as a person. That could mean therapy, it could mean drugs, it could simply mean finding his place in society with meaningful employment or centering himself with exercise or religion or anything else he can find that brings his life meaning in a healthier way than slowly rotting away in incel spaces and feeding off his own bitterness and resentment. Once that's accomplished, then he can think about reevaluating his views on women and whether or not he's ready to approach them as anything more than a hateful little gnome.
Turning on his "own people" in some kind of shamelessly pandering attempt to make women like him is disgusting and transparent. It's something nobody should ask anybody from any walk of life to do. It would make him no better than a nigger-lipped coon, shucking and jiving for approval he'll never get. It makes him no better than the woke bloke who slides up into your DMs to tell you "haha men are trash" and then puts his fingers inside you while you're passed out. It makes him no better than the not-like-the-other-girls redpilled tradthot who's happy to tell other women to get back to the kitchen but never learned to cook. It makes him a spineless self-abusing creep of no worth to anybody besides a soft target for abuse, amusement and pity. No woman wants a pet incel for anything more than an amusing toy to play with a while and then throw away, because a pet incel is something nobody can truly respect or care about. This is not the foundation any healthy relationship could ever start from.
Also, as an aside, making friends with female Kiwi Farmers isn't really a step up from being an incel. If anything, it's a lateral move.