Megathread Non-binary genders / Enbies - When Male and Female Aren't Special Enough

[Trombonista]

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why won't they take splish's pronouns seriously?????

I'm surprised she's willing to use kiwi as a pronoun.

 

[Dr. Sexbot]

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why won't they take splish's pronouns seriously?????

It's like she's re-engineering Plurals from first principles. Be careful, it's adapting.

 

[Agent Abe Caprine]

a lot of enbies from what I've seen tend to fall into this category, can only hope some are able to grow out of it lest they become these bitter shells that occupy twitter

Majority will. Feeling confusion towards your entire identity is normal for teenagers. Once puberty ends, most will calm down and feel more comfortable in their skin. Remember emos? Most grew out of it.

 

[Monolith]

I'm surprised she's willing to use kiwi as a pronoun.

We're not that famous.

 

[A Kapo]

Have any of you guys actually met an enby IRL? If so, what were they like?

I go to an art school so I've met a lot of them, here are the highlights:

Spoiler: My Highlights

>Ace Demiboy, vegan, used a public instagram account as their diary, in which they acted as a stalker with a traumatic past, very attention seeking, I'm not sure where they are now.
>Truscum enby, they were extremely concerned with which enbies at our school were faking it, but they didn't make any effort in passing as androgynous.
>They/them feminist, vegan, said that we could use any pronouns on her but the moment people used she/her she started screaming, she was 17 and hung out around 13 year olds, extremely innapropiate and creepy, several students accused her of sexual abuse and she changed schools this year. Could go on and on about how much of an irl lolcow she was.

 

[Snusmumriken]

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why won't they take splish's pronouns seriously?????

Good God, I know right? Like ffs, all you have to remember is they she kiwi fairy Bambi pup fluff pixie doe lotus splish meow kitty doll and daisy and to use each one correctly in the right place! It’s not that damn hard smh some people are so dramatic

Anyways Kiwi is a whiny koreaboo and fairy is not as uwu as fluff thinks lotus is. Makes so much sense right?

I wouldn’t have a single problem if she said “call me literally anything except he,” especially considering (at least from her picture) I wouldn’t have thought to call her a “he” in the first place. But then she can’t drag others in her uwu fantasy, I guess. Like, damn. I think we are evolving as a society and most people are starting to respect the concept of conflicting gender identity, and imo that’s a great thing with many flaws just like any movement that came before it, but I don’t think anybody beyond her art student friend group is going to be willing to refer to her as a “splish” in her lifetime.

 

[neverendingmidi]

I've met two in real life.

Spoiler: My Encounters

The one I met in highschool is DFAB and your run of the mill tumblr user. I actually could not tell you whether or not she was offically nonbinary because she changed her name to a masculine one but she still wore makeup, dresses, etc,. Even her boyfriend called her by "they/them" instead of "he/him." She made a lot of furry art in highschool and she still does now I believe. I'm not sure if she ever creates furry porn but I do know she makes mostly furry art. I was friends with her all throughout highschool despite the gender change, they were quiet and somewhat pushy about their beliefs but a good friend otherwise. I remember one of my other friends asked about the fact she never acted like a dude (she wore make up but he was particularly confused about the fact she still wore dresses) and she shut him down immediately with a "We're not having this conversation." I'm not sure whether or not she struggled with gender dysphoria.

I met another one in university who is DMAB. You wouldn't tell immediately because the only sort of signal you could get from him was a gay vibe (he was flamboyantly bisexual and he admits this), but he admits that he geniunely struggles with gender dysphoria but can't transition due to his severely Christian household and the fact they will most likely pull him out of university if he came out about it. In fact, he desperately hides the fact that he is bisexual from his parents and it's really upsetting. Recently he started wearing makeup and painting his nails (as a girl myself I helped him) and he was geniunely very happy with being at least a bit more feminine. He is nonbinary but doesn't really care about what pronouns you would use for him. He is a very sweet and accepting friend and not too easily offended? He plays Smash Brothers Ultimate and Touhou a lot and sometimes I will play Smash with him. A cool mate.

The second doesn sound bi as much as "closeted gay" of the traditional type who marries a woman, has kids, then has a mid-life crisis and abandons the wife and kids to live their true self as a guy getting fucked in glory holes in shitty bars and wonders why the kids resent him.

 

[The Great Pancake]

The second doesn sound bi as much as "closeted gay" of the traditional type who marries a woman, has kids, then has a mid-life crisis and abandons the wife and kids to live their true self as a guy getting fucked in glory holes in shitty bars and wonders why the kids resent him.

Oh we all get the feeling he is a "closeted gay" rather than a bisexual but we don't really say anything. More recently he has picked up cross dressing and I'm curious to see if he's into drag or is actually trooning out.

 

[NoFeline]

Well I have finally met a batshit enbie in person.

My partner's younger sister has recently told me about a friend who has been "teaching" her things and as a result she now believes that, because she is not uncomfortable with they/them pronouns, that she is thus not fully female.

Tonight was her birthday and said enbie friend attended. She spent the entire time talking about some guy with self-DXed multiple personalities and a Jesus Alter, banging her wrists together, and, shitst thou not, FUCKING BARKING.

In the middle of a corner table of EIGHT PEOPLE

IN A PACKED PIZZA JOINT.

This would happen pretty much any time she was not the center of conversation or the active speaker, she would suddenly burst into YIP YIP YIPYIP!! violently shaking and smacking her wrists together. She also kept repeatedly adjusting her sweatshirt collar, kept skewing it all the way to one side to show off a binder strap.

Fellas, I need a drink.

 

[Jonah Hill poster]

Tonight was her birthday and said enbie friend attended. She spent the entire time talking about some guy with self-DXed multiple personalities and a Jesus Alter, banging her wrists together, and, shitst thou not, FUCKING BARKING.

In the middle of a corner table of EIGHT PEOPLE

IN A PACKED PIZZA JOINT.

I was just about to put this on random.txt thinking that this was not real, but after reading your story, I decided not to. Hopefully your partner’s younger sister doesn’t change for who she is just to please her friends.

 

[NoReturn]

Well I have finally met a batshit enbie in person.

My partner's younger sister has recently told me about a friend who has been "teaching" her things and as a result she now believes that, because she is not uncomfortable with they/them pronouns, that she is thus not fully female.

Tonight was her birthday and said enbie friend attended. She spent the entire time talking about some guy with self-DXed multiple personalities and a Jesus Alter, banging her wrists together, and, shitst thou not, FUCKING BARKING.

In the middle of a corner table of EIGHT PEOPLE

IN A PACKED PIZZA JOINT.

This would happen pretty much any time she was not the center of conversation or the active speaker, she would suddenly burst into YIP YIP YIPYIP!! violently shaking and smacking her wrists together. She also kept repeatedly adjusting her sweatshirt collar, kept skewing it all the way to one side to show off a binder strap.

Fellas, I need a drink.

Save your sister in law! Before it's too late!

 

[Snusmumriken]

Well I have finally met a batshit enbie in person.

My partner's younger sister has recently told me about a friend who has been "teaching" her things and as a result she now believes that, because she is not uncomfortable with they/them pronouns, that she is thus not fully female.

Tonight was her birthday and said enbie friend attended. She spent the entire time talking about some guy with self-DXed multiple personalities and a Jesus Alter, banging her wrists together, and, shitst thou not, FUCKING BARKING.

In the middle of a corner table of EIGHT PEOPLE

IN A PACKED PIZZA JOINT.

This would happen pretty much any time she was not the center of conversation or the active speaker, she would suddenly burst into YIP YIP YIPYIP!! violently shaking and smacking her wrists together. She also kept repeatedly adjusting her sweatshirt collar, kept skewing it all the way to one side to show off a binder strap.

Fellas, I need a drink.

Hopefully your partner can have a talk with their sister. Tell her she can be whoever she is, as long as it’s not a wristbanging yipping dog.

 

[mental illness innit luv]

An acquaintance of mine (biologically female) has recently started identifying as "he/they" and going by a unisex name, all while caking her face in heavy makeup and gleefully wearing skirts and fishnets. But, oh, mUh DySpHoRiA

 

[mindlessobserver]

I'm surprised she's willing to use kiwi as a pronoun.

I wonder what an actual kiwi gendered person would look like.

 

[Trombonista]

I wonder what an actual kiwi gendered person would look like.

Green hair with black streaks?

 

[The Melted One]

Long time kiwi lurker here. This thread, and a current event in my life, inspired me to finally weigh in. I have an encounter with a non-binary that some of you may find amusing, and, for most, affirming of your current beliefs.

I recently met a girl that I connected with on a deep level. We communicated very well, had a lot of the same interests, and held quite a few similar stances. Fast forward a few weeks and we meet up. She lives with 3 other people. One was a crazy bitch with an adderall addiction, who didn’t understand boundaries. Another is a faggot wetback studying English with a holier than thou complex. The final is our subject, a non-binary natal female that just so happened to be her best friend because they shared a room and common enemy in person #1. There are plenty of other characters in this story, but they can be colloquially referred to as ‘Rat King’. Now, this natal female threatened me with (laughably) physical violence if I were to do my now ex wrong, during one of our first encounters. Tranny doublespeak. If only I had taken this to mean “if you upset her at all, we’re depersoning you and withholding friendship from her if she talks to you”.

Enough about me. Our social work majoring friend here (let’s call it “K”) started their initiation into the rainbow people very early on in life. It began in her early teens, if I remember correctly. Her first wish was to become a man. The T hits the bloodstream and builds for a bit. Then reality started setting in. She became acutely aware that pregnancy would be complicated by testosterone and quickly set aside her penal pursuit so that she could have her cake and eat it too. Not to mention how fucked the kid would be without a natal mother figure. This leaves her quite pleased though, and she doesn’t seem to show signs of actually wanting to be a male. Almost all personality traits are feminine (beyond the girl I was seeing) and it appears to enjoy how special and interesting enbie is. Everyone in the group is made to respect pronouns because misgendering is violence. Self harm is frequently bragged about and the more subconscious form of unnatural hair dying is incredibly frequent. Multiple DXs of phychotic bipolar, other mental conditions, and at least one Cluster B (most likely BPD, along with the girl I was seeing. Both of which I am speculating upon many many symptoms and signs. ie Black and White thinking/self harm). This person also has “gay” shaved into a green undercut hairstyle.

Let us not forget the icing on the cake here, folks. This person self identifies as a sex worker. They sell nudes/companionship of their fridge shaped body, marred by competing hormones, to lonely old men. This is something they are incredibly proud of because it is the only attention that they can receive that brings them perceived value.

The lack of quarter shown for any deviation from their chosen reality is trademark tranny. I truly believe that there has to be a pattern of previous life experience/nurturing that can be addressed to quell this truly horrid epidemic.

tl;dr I met one. NBs are delusional fucking grifters that push their rainbow-hued worldview into everyone else’s lives, subsequently ruining them slowly from the inside out.

 

[NoReturn]

. This person also has “gay” shaved into a green undercut hairstyle

This is what you would do to bully someone, not something someone sane would choose to do to themselves.

 

[A Gay Retard]

Green hair with black streaks?

Billie Eilish confirmed kiwigender

 

[The Melted One]

This is what you would do to bully someone, not something someone sane would choose to do to themselves.

If it’s any consolation, the girl I was seeing was the one who suggested it and shaved it into her hair. IIRC both females thought it was something like “empowering”. Honestly, I just thought it was retarded.

 

[grandmakai]

honestly, i just get pissed when i tell someone "no im not going to use bun/bunself pronouns its mocking (actual) trans ppl" and they call me an ableist, 'neurotypical nazi'
im sorry, what does you having a psychological setback have to do with your tumblr gender?