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That’s because we all know being a lesbian is about biological sex, not gender identity. Those are both females. I would venture most lesbians under 30 have dated an ‘enby’ at some point.
Megathread Non-binary genders / Enbies - When Male and Female Aren't Special Enough
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I doubt I’m contributing anything new by saying that enbies are just tomboys but retarded, but... enbies are just tomboys but more retarded.
It’s literally just a meaningless label of identity that’s about on par with something like “goth” or “scene”. It’s just that goths don’t wear around dumb pronouns as part of their aesthetic.
It’s literally just a meaningless label of identity that’s about on par with something like “goth” or “scene”. It’s just that goths don’t wear around dumb pronouns as part of their aesthetic.
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Fuck it, Colored Hair Dysphoria flag (top-right)
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"Bra Euphoria" and "Bra Dysphoria", tf? What teenage girl hasn't been worried about nipples or straps showing? Nipples showing is just embarrassing and straps on a off the shoulder shirt ruins the whole outfit. And if you got big boobs then of course taking a bra off feels nice because its literally a release of pressure.
Getting bras, especially your first bra, is exciting because it shows that you're growing up and maturing. They really dont need to medicalize and wave the wand of trans and enby over common teenage experiences.
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You really think this blogger sees trans as a medical issue? Nah. The entire reblog chain on this post is just trenders all the way down.
66andtwothirds
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so is a 45 year old WASP man part of their oppression totem pole because he thinks he should have brown hair but it's grey.
somehow i suspect no.
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THIS. I exist in a pretty woke liberal space and have largely existed in predominantly left leaning communities for most of my life online with some exceptions. I’ve known three whole people who I knew to be trans who didn’t advertise it. One who’s post transition and passes and just seems more comfortable being stealth, one who has had people be nasty over it enough that he doesn’t like to bring it up, and one who doesn’t like the way people treat him differently. Every other one I’ve known (and Christ there’s been a lot especially in recent years where suddenly everyone and their dog is some flavour of transgender) is loud about it.
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Yes, there is a lot to gain from announcing that they are trans. Its also very interesting that they just don't seem to understand why or believe that someone would pretend to be trans to get those benefits. I also cannot fathom any of them resisting the urge to say "as a trans person, I think that...." and follow up with whatever they want because its basically guaranteed that their word will be taken as law.
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Hit the nail on the head. I’ve seen people within my own social circle immediately soften to a person upon discovering they’re transgender purely because it means they aren’t an icky cishet. There absolutely are benefits in certain spaces.
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if you hadn't mentioned which one is non-binary, I would have just thought they were both women. The difference is, one of them wants to be special... lesbians probably aren't "oppressed enough" anymore
Also, Halsey recently 'came out' as a "she/they"... After being quoted saying her body is "made for pregnancy" (TOTALLY NOT A WOMAN THOUGH GUYS). And mad ups to every outlet covering this who chose the most feminine picture of her possible to use alongside the announcement. for example:
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When gendertards make shit like this they really do make it seem more like body dysmorphia rather than their gender euphoriawhateverthefuckdysphoria.
Their mood literally fucking depends on how appealing they look (either to themselves or others) and can't function if they don't look juuuust right and nitpick their bodies constantly to the point they'll get surgeries, surgeries that they know at the end of the day won't fix their bodies.
Kinda sad how they basically gaslit the medical world into forgetting that diagnosis since it already has a sane treatment plan.
Also the color palette is hideous.
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Nothin' like using the transgender flag for someone who's not gonna even transition into anything at all.if you hadn't mentioned which one is non-binary, I would have just thought they were both women. The difference is, one of them wants to be special... lesbians probably aren't "oppressed enough" anymore
Also, Halsey recently 'came out' as a "she/they"... After being quoted saying her body is "made for pregnancy" (TOTALLY NOT A WOMAN THOUGH GUYS). And mad ups to every outlet covering this who chose the most feminine picture of her possible to use alongside the announcement. for example:
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"Solidarity means unconditionally supporting the least coherent members of the community."
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Why don't they just criticize both extremes and call it a day? It's "everyone or no one" posts like these that polarizes people.
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Found a couple of these kids on TikTok while looking for unrelated things:
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Why does the first one under the spoiler remind me of Jersh?
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Anyone catch moe joking about curbstomping someone?
I dunno... scrawny white kid making weirdly violent jokes? Gives me school shooter vibes ngl lol
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The results for the 2021 Gender Census are in! And they've given us plenty of new data to pore through.
The survey went out to over 44k non-binary people (up from around 25k last year), with the largest single group of them finding it via Tumblr.
Respondants were asked (among other things), which words they used to describe their gender (they could select more than one option). Nonbinary, queer, enby, trans and gender-nonconforming were the top 5, in that order.
Edit: And I've just noticed 'boy' is more popular than 'girl' among enbies, even though 'woman' is more popular than 'man'. Yet at the same time, 'demigirl' is more popular than 'demiboy', although the differences between all of these are really very slight (10-20% at most). The same however cannot be said of 'transmasculine' (a non-binary way of saying FtM), which is one of the more popular options, despite the fact that 'transfeminine' is nowhere to be seen on this graph.
There was also a write-in option, for which 7994 unique identities were entered. The top 5 write-ins all had the word 'void' in them, which was weird.
Even though one of the options for the question was “none/I do not describe my gender”, that didn't stop people from writing variations of "myself", "I'm just me" etc as write-ins.
Respondants were also asked for their ages. As you can see, the group skews disproportionately under 30, with the modal category being 16-20 inclusive.
It looks a lot like the population pyramid for an undeveloped country.
If you look closer, you'll see there are about as many people aged 56-60 as the number (37) who declined to mention their age. And an even smaller number (I'd say more than 10) were over 60.
Some of the survey answers were broken down into over-30s and 30-and-under, but there wasn't a huge difference between them.
Notice how when you start to find people with 4 or more distinct pronoun sets, the line tapers off, but takes at least that long again to reach zero.
Respondants were of course asked about their pronouns, but the results are actually kinda boring. For all the talk in the community about new and exciting pronouns, the most popular by far was singular they at nearly 80% (most people chose more than one option), followed by she and he in 2nd and 3rd place.
4th, 5th, 6th, and 8th are not pronouns at all but ways of not specifying a pronoun. No other pronoun has more than 10%, with the most popular non-standard pronoun being 'it', coming in at 7th place,
This result hasn't really changed much over the years:
Rescaling the axis for the less popular pronoun sets offers an insight into how fashions change.
Avoiding pronouns altogether was popular for a year but could be falling out of favour. Using 'it' as a pronoun is on the rise (driven mostly by the under-30s). Whereas 'a priori' pronoun sets that are complete new additions to the English language seem to be on the decline (perhaps because non-binary people realised how impractical they are to use).
There were also write-in options for pronouns, which some respondants misunderstood to the point where they wrote pronouns already available as one of the multiple choices.
Also, the person analysing the data makes the mistake of thinking singular they and plural they somehow conjugate differently. They don't.
Both singular and plural 'they's take 'themselves' and not 'themself'. Although the latter is allowed in some cases, grammarians still recommend the former, and most people still understand 'themselves' to mean a single person in the right context. But I love that this person's conclusion is that no, these people are deliberately using plural pronouns because they're more than one person or something?
Archive link.
The full reports for this year and every other year can be found at the Gender Census website, in addition to reports on other minutiae such as whether or not non-binary should be spelt with a hyphen.
The survey went out to over 44k non-binary people (up from around 25k last year), with the largest single group of them finding it via Tumblr.
Respondants were asked (among other things), which words they used to describe their gender (they could select more than one option). Nonbinary, queer, enby, trans and gender-nonconforming were the top 5, in that order.
Edit: And I've just noticed 'boy' is more popular than 'girl' among enbies, even though 'woman' is more popular than 'man'. Yet at the same time, 'demigirl' is more popular than 'demiboy', although the differences between all of these are really very slight (10-20% at most). The same however cannot be said of 'transmasculine' (a non-binary way of saying FtM), which is one of the more popular options, despite the fact that 'transfeminine' is nowhere to be seen on this graph.
There was also a write-in option, for which 7994 unique identities were entered. The top 5 write-ins all had the word 'void' in them, which was weird.
Even though one of the options for the question was “none/I do not describe my gender”, that didn't stop people from writing variations of "myself", "I'm just me" etc as write-ins.
Respondants were also asked for their ages. As you can see, the group skews disproportionately under 30, with the modal category being 16-20 inclusive.
It looks a lot like the population pyramid for an undeveloped country.
If you look closer, you'll see there are about as many people aged 56-60 as the number (37) who declined to mention their age. And an even smaller number (I'd say more than 10) were over 60.
Some of the survey answers were broken down into over-30s and 30-and-under, but there wasn't a huge difference between them.
Notice how when you start to find people with 4 or more distinct pronoun sets, the line tapers off, but takes at least that long again to reach zero.
Respondants were of course asked about their pronouns, but the results are actually kinda boring. For all the talk in the community about new and exciting pronouns, the most popular by far was singular they at nearly 80% (most people chose more than one option), followed by she and he in 2nd and 3rd place.
4th, 5th, 6th, and 8th are not pronouns at all but ways of not specifying a pronoun. No other pronoun has more than 10%, with the most popular non-standard pronoun being 'it', coming in at 7th place,
This result hasn't really changed much over the years:
Rescaling the axis for the less popular pronoun sets offers an insight into how fashions change.
Avoiding pronouns altogether was popular for a year but could be falling out of favour. Using 'it' as a pronoun is on the rise (driven mostly by the under-30s). Whereas 'a priori' pronoun sets that are complete new additions to the English language seem to be on the decline (perhaps because non-binary people realised how impractical they are to use).
There were also write-in options for pronouns, which some respondants misunderstood to the point where they wrote pronouns already available as one of the multiple choices.
Also, the person analysing the data makes the mistake of thinking singular they and plural they somehow conjugate differently. They don't.
Both singular and plural 'they's take 'themselves' and not 'themself'. Although the latter is allowed in some cases, grammarians still recommend the former, and most people still understand 'themselves' to mean a single person in the right context. But I love that this person's conclusion is that no, these people are deliberately using plural pronouns because they're more than one person or something?
Archive link.
The full reports for this year and every other year can be found at the Gender Census website, in addition to reports on other minutiae such as whether or not non-binary should be spelt with a hyphen.
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