If you desire to know The Truth

M'lady!
Most men (we talk normal men with multiple relationships that had sexually active lives from their adolescence, not bedroom-ridden virgin seething incels) have been infatuated quite a few times. And as it's obvious, it resulted in severe disappointments. Again, and again. If you have a son, you will have to lift his spirits up and help him through his intense suffering as he gets fucked by some blue eyed hussy. Mother-son relations are special and obviously an exception from what I said.
By the time you hit mid 20s and your hormones settle down, your finances get stable and you realize there is lots of pussy swimming in the pond, you will avoid the infatuation like the fucking plague.
One important step that infatuation happens through is men trusting women with their sensitive issues, sorrows or fears. Once you have shared that vulnerable side, you are fucked sonny, better prepare for the break up and betrayal.