Oh, you women hate it when we use your shit against you. You're essentially telling me off for being too agreeable and not going along with women's games.
No, I said the manipulation you described is childish.
I wasn't even directing that at you but women in general, lol, stop getting your panties in a twist.
Then be clear, number one. And number two, yeah I got that (see my comments about springboarding).
they didn't ask or care it was because the woman was crazy and would have stabbed me if I broke up myself, lol
You've referred more than once to bpd people you've dated. That you draw conclusions about women as a whole based on the mentally ill couple/handful of them you tangoed with (and iirc, you thought you had it covered entering into the second one, due to your experience with the first?) says more about your apparently short-circuited powers of logical connection on this topic than anything else.
The sum-total of your posts is that you chose poorly, more than once, got hurt or in some fucked-up situations, and have chosen to extrapolate your choices to pronouncements on "all women."
Sure, that's valid. Let me ignore all the decent men I've known and base my view of men of the twerps* I chose to include in my life.
*"twerps" is my being kind; I, owing to my own dumbness at the time - as already acknowledged - have made some dumbass choices. Some out of naivete and truly good spirit, and some when I should have known much better. Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me - right?
Accountability. It's a real thing, and as much as these halls echo with refrains of "woman have no/ take no/ are held to no" accountability, it's funny to see when it's made an anchor of a life-view.
People can be shitty, and I'll always say that the person causing harm is worse than the person being harmed,
even when the person harmed is in that position due to their own failings.
But extending that situation to one of general truth is is a retarded repudiation both of one's own agency and of basic rational thinking.
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It hurts, man!