If I have to spell it out to begin with but I doubt you would ever get it but I’ll do it anyways:
Women are just more preferred by society than men, by both women and men. Women have more spending power, more education, they are “better” socialized, etc. Women thrive in collectivist, hyper social, sterilized environments that most men just simply can’t.
Men have to earn their value, women are born with it but can lose it later in life if they fail to start a family. This is how it’s been for all of human history and probably should be the way things are. However, the problem is that now the value that men earn is both unnaturally more difficult than it has been in the past and is actively scorned against, while women’s value has been made unconditional. Men are expected to behave more like women in every facet of their lives. This is the core tenant of modern feminism; that men and women are equal because they are functionally identical, which directly leads into transgenderism.
I’ve said this before on this site, but the reason a minority of young men see transgenderism as attractive is because they want to have intrinsic value. Even as a crude facsimile of a female, they reap the benefits of their dumb ass feelings being validated and even being coveted sexually. Sure, you can say these men are weak, which is true, but it’s hard to argue that there is little social incentive to even want to be a real man.