Null

[Anonymous]

If you were going to unban me later, why ban me in the first place, apart from the fact that you clearly can't handle any kind of criticism in your hugbox?

It's like you get off on banning people because it's the only way you actually manage to hold any sort of power over people.

I was nice to you, not because I wanted you to bow down to me (or whatever psychotic nonsense you were babbling about), but because I legitimately cared that you were upset.

However, when you start raging and insulting me, and treating me like I'm some piece of shit because I don't have 100% knowledge of your situation, that's when the niceties stop.

You treat people like shit, and then wonder why they get pissed off at you. Then you try take the moral high ground by saying "See!? You aren't nice at all!". Maybe if you stopped with your horrible self-entitled attitude, people would consistently be nice to you. Shit, maybe even that girl you don't shut up about might actually call you or something. I don't know. I don't want to give off the appearance of psycho-analyzing because you might break a wall.

I was right when I compared you to Chris. You're a whiny raging little cunt, whose only contribution to the world is that you happen to own a forum based around making fun of people. The difference between you and Chris is that Chris has legitimate mental problems - you're just a straight up dick. Oh, that and Chris actually has people here who will still give a shit about him once he's dead.

However, any sort of valid criticism aimed at you, and you suddenly go into full Chris mode. If that's the sort of environment you want, just hand the keys over to KatsuKitty and go make Hugbox Forums.

I'm not the only one on the board who thinks you're an absolute lolcow, and I regret even attempting to be nice to a miserable misanthropic drama queen like you.

Yours sincerely,
Fuckface.

 

[Himawari]

inb4 lock

 

[spaps]

Who the fuck are you?

 

[Some JERK]

You know this isn't the PM box, right?

 

[spaps]

How did you get permission to post in Lolcow General with no posts, anyway?

 

[HandBanana]

Well this is not what I was expecting.

 

[Saney]

Well,that was bizarre.

 

[Null]

I know I don't do a good job at keeping stuff to myself, but I try not to be too open about matters that can be used against me. Except this dude, potrzebie, comes up and sends me nice PMs about how he's a really swell guy and wants to be my friend!

Hey man, we've never really spoken in depth or anything, but I know what it's like to be in a situation where you think everything sucks, and you probably don't like getting too in depth about things on the shoutbox (or maybe you do, I dunno). All I'm saying is, if you need to vent to somebody, or you just need a friend, feel free to message me.

My name's Ivan, man.

Peace.

So then when I allow myself to discuss things with him, such as a friend who has a quirk akin to a friend of his own, he begins projecting his armchair psychology analysis onto her. I'm a big fan of armchair psychology, but I try not to do it when people that are cared about are involved. Check out this awesome conversation log where potrzebie demonstrates how he is truly a good friend and understands how to tread lightly on sensitive issues.

potrzebie	which means she probably isn't in a good decision to be making romantic decisions like this
potrzebie	Okay, so if you take that at face value, she's doubting her sanity
Null	Her mom died in a drunk driving accident with a man that wasn't her father.
potrzebie	Oh god.
Null	Look, please do not psychoanalyze the girl. I do not appreciate that.
potrzebie	Maybe she's just super confused.
potrzebie	I'm not, I apologise.
Null	You're telling me she's confused, not in a position to make decisions for herself
Null	These are analytics.
Null	You don't know her.
potrzebie	No
potrzebie	I said it was a possibility
potrzebie	I'm not presenting anything as fact
Null	Okay, you're still fucking doing it
Null	It may not be concrete
Null	But you're still fucking doing it
Null	Do you not understand?
potrzebie	I'm just offering alternative viewpoints that you're more than welcome to dismiss
Null	How does that not make sense?
potrzebie	without getting pissy
potrzebie	If I'm wrong, tell me I'm wrong
Null	See everyone thinks they understand the girl, they can summarize her or tell me what she's going through. She's the only person I've ever met that made me feel dumb.
Null	She's the only one I can honestly say is flat out smarter than I am.
potrzebie	I'm just trying to understand the situation, man. Not like I can have a full understanding in 5 minutes.
Null	Look, here's a tip for you. If you're going to offer yourself up as someone who can listen don't try to make assumptions.
potrzebie	I don't know what she's going through. I never even said that. All i meant to say was, give it time
potrzebie	things might work out
Null	It'll never earn you any friends.
potrzebie	that's what I was getting at
potrzebie	Then quit your fucking bitching you sperg
Null	See what I mean? You're a fucking douchebag.
Null	You try to offer yourself up as this NICE GUY BIG BROTHER FRIEND and then you start acting like a douche.
potrzebie	No, I try to understand the situation, you make stupid fucking assumptions about me
potrzebie	and what I meant
Null	Pick a fucking side you shit
Null	I'm not making assumptions about you retard, you're ACTUALLY SAYING THIS
Null	I can fucking QUOTE YOU trying to tell me what she's like
potrzebie	and it's like, if you aren't going to talk to me like a human being, I'm not gonna talk to you like one
Null	God you're insufferable. Goodbye
potrzebie	No, I didn't say that's what she was like, I offered it as a possibility based on limited knowledge of the situation
potrzebie	if I'm wrong, just say "Nah, that's not it"
potrzebie	not go on a big fucking rant
potrzebie	fuck you you loveshy fuck
Null	god what a prick

I realize I'm not being super friendly myself, but he understands that this person has meant a lot to me for the last 3 years of my life. She's been a monumental deciding factor in events leading up to where I am now, and regrettably she's no longer around. I decide to trust him and allow myself to talk about her, only to have him tell me what she's thinking about without knowing the least thing about her. When I tell him, very explicitly, I do not appreciate these projections he immediately becomes defensive and starts lashing out.

So I ban him. I very rarely ban people without consulting others first. I don't see myself as a community manager because I'm prone to becoming aggressive. So, very shortly after I decide that I'll unban this guy (who's been pretty swell around the Chris boards) in a few minutes or an hour or whatever. I just wanted the conversation to end. I wanted him not to be around and in my face. It's not a huge request, right? I pay for this place. It'd be like having someone in your home, talking about a falling out with a friend, and then him making brash and unwarranted statements about this person followed up by being offended when asked to stop. After getting this person to leave your house, they then try to sneak back onto the property within minutes to shit on your doorstep.

That's what this kid did. After banning him he made 3 accounts with the sole purpose of being offensive. He didn't email me, he didn't PM me, he didn't even PM another person to talk to me on his behalf. This fucking shitbag talks down a girl I care about, circumvents his ban with phony email addresses and proxies, and when that doesn't work goes into my fucking boards to start some huge drama fest against me.

This was supposed to be a time out. This was supposed to be a brief pause in conversation followed up with an email or just naturally being let back in as I go to bed. However instead of being mature and letting shit boil over this is what you do.

You're not welcome back anymore. Get the fuck out.


Edit: I'm going to lock this thread because it's not really a discussion. If you personally feel I am acting out of line, you may email myself or another admin if you fear reprisal. Brooklynbailiff, Champthom, and CompyRex are all active and trustworthy.