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Girl, this is why you have to be independent. Learn how to drive a car, get a license, for fucks sake. Your independence is your power. She's essentially handicapped herself in life being dependent on some asshat who will hire a prostitute while she is at work.
I didn't watch the long video, but my guess is sex trafficking. They see someone they want to kidnap go in there, they lock them in until moves can be made to traffic them. I hope the cops or fire marshal put them on an FBI watch list.Love that we need to pay closer attention to public bathroom doors now too, not just rogue troons inside.
How do I (elegantly/not just saying FUCK OFF like I want) tell my long-time internet pen pal to cut this behavior out? If I don't reply to a bunch of posts about something he's talking about or even reply "enough" I start getting these.
Just ignore him or put him on mute. I definitely have had to reassess my boundaries with internet pals, especially when I felt like they were just using my attentions as to get their female validation rocks off and not as genuine friendship. I have let a lot of them go. Even the ones that are still there, I am wary of. If I feel they are becoming too much, I will just ignore their messages and go take a nap, play offline, or just play online and ignore their message. If I do want to preserve the friendship, I send them a "oops, sorry I didn't see". Trust me, if you were spamming him instead and he found it annoying, he'd probably drop you in a second. When I started reversing scenarios in my head, that's when I realized women always give way more, and accept way more shit, so it's completely fair to just not care about their feelings.
I unfriended a guy in my gaming group who was a literal brain-damaged retard and insufferable to talk to and game with, and always given passes by the group because he has brain damage. Once we ended up in a group voice chat together because we still have mutuals, and he was like "hey, do you hate me?" and I just said "no" and gave zero further explanation. He isn't owed it, and I actually don't hate him, because I legitimately do not think about him except to pat myself on the back for giving zero fucks about mens feelings.
If you want real advice, just tell him, hey, please don't spam me if I don't reply. You could say something to soften this like, oh, I have to do schoolwork/work and the dings are distracting, or whatever you want to come up with. If you want to be blunt, you can say it is annoying. If he doesn't respect that, I would seriously rethink your friendship, because that is the most basic boundary you can set, and anyone who ignores that very simple one will only ignore more serious ones in the future. If you don't want to be that confrontational, just ignore him for 48 hours, then come back and be like, oh sorry I was busy. Lie to them, especially when its about protecting your own peace. They lie to us all the time, so who gives a shit. Or you could pavlogs dog him, and don't reward him for bad behavior. Only reply if he is respectful. He likely keeps doing it because you gave in in the past.
I unfriended a guy in my gaming group who was a literal brain-damaged retard and insufferable to talk to and game with, and always given passes by the group because he has brain damage. Once we ended up in a group voice chat together because we still have mutuals, and he was like "hey, do you hate me?" and I just said "no" and gave zero further explanation. He isn't owed it, and I actually don't hate him, because I legitimately do not think about him except to pat myself on the back for giving zero fucks about mens feelings.
If you want real advice, just tell him, hey, please don't spam me if I don't reply. You could say something to soften this like, oh, I have to do schoolwork/work and the dings are distracting, or whatever you want to come up with. If you want to be blunt, you can say it is annoying. If he doesn't respect that, I would seriously rethink your friendship, because that is the most basic boundary you can set, and anyone who ignores that very simple one will only ignore more serious ones in the future. If you don't want to be that confrontational, just ignore him for 48 hours, then come back and be like, oh sorry I was busy. Lie to them, especially when its about protecting your own peace. They lie to us all the time, so who gives a shit. Or you could pavlogs dog him, and don't reward him for bad behavior. Only reply if he is respectful. He likely keeps doing it because you gave in in the past.
Decenter men, love your own life, focus on your own well-being and prosperity. If something is fucking with your peace, seriously evaluate if it needs to be in your life. Fuck the men and their feelings.
Nevermind what I said, just block him. Don't let men waste your time or brain power more than you have to. He is not using an ounce of his to be considerate of you, so fuck him.This is a great question. Nothing's GOOD.
I would like to sign a petition that we hang everyone who is on the sex offender registry.By the way, Reddit has an r/SexOffenderSupport board. Crazy how literal rapists and pedophiles are permitted to congregate, but we are not allowed to say that men cannot become women. Funny how that works.
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