Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

[Grimoire Canthari]

Why do men find him so hot? He's such boring looking dopey guy. He doesn't look like Ken at all. It's funny what kind of men women are attracted to vs what straight men are attracted to. Remember when Twilight came out and all men sperged out how ugly Robert Pattinson was? They were absolutely seething that teenage girls all over the world were swooning over him even tho he doesn't fit their ideal of rugged looking caveman with 200lb of pure muscle.

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The men were Team Jacob

 

[Lidl Drip]

The men were Team Jacob

Unironically every man I ever talked to was team Jacob. They just want to see a white woman with a dog.

 

[NoReturn]

It will sound incredibly silly but it wasn't until that training session that it hit me, at least in abstract principle, how utterly terrifying life must be for women and why so many of them so often have to feel unsafe in public. You're constantly surrounded by people who could legitimately kill you if they so desired and life will teach you that plenty of them are one bad day away from becoming an angry rape-ape.

I know so many versions of this story, and I'm glad you've had that opportunity. I feel like everyone should have an experience where they can learn the same in a safe environment.

Some examples from people I know irl who learned in a safe way:

• A young man who remembers the exact day when he was playing with his 5 years older sister and realized he had become stronger than her.
• A teenage girl who was saying how strong she was, and whose father simply held her by the wrist. No strength, no squeezing or hurt, he just held her wrist and she couldn't escape. It scared her but he wanted her to know so she would stay safe.
• A martial arts class that did a demonstration of how even a well-trained martial artist could fail against MMA tactics.
• Loving couples who learned it while roughhousing

 

[Lidl Drip]

I tried to get BingAI to create my ideal vision for the future of scrote-kind, but it kept denying my requests saying the images I was trying to create were "unsafe". Here are some that I managed to get anyways.



I couldn't get the AI to generate any women that looked less male-gazey. Sigh. Nevermind you just have to include that you don't want to see their butt in skintight pants.

 

[Slideshow Bill]

Why do men find him so hot? He's such boring looking dopey guy. He doesn't look like Ken at all. It's funny what kind of men women are attracted to vs what straight men are attracted to. Remember when Twilight came out and all men sperged out how ugly Robert Pattinson was? They were absolutely seething that teenage girls all over the world were swooning over him even tho he doesn't fit their ideal of rugged looking caveman with 200lb of pure muscle.

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I never understood why men seethe over the men that women/teen girls like. Men basically wanted to lynch Justin Bieber and parade his corpse through the street just because teen girls liked him. "Nooo why don't you bitches like the kind of masculinity that men like. Oiled up beefcake Chad! Muscles! Prime, uncut manhood!" "IDK man that sounds kind of gay. We like pretty boys who treat us nice and have interesting personalities" "Ugh women are so complicated!"

 

[Andrealphus Fag 2]

i'm gunna power level in the spoiler, so sorry for that in advance, but was hoping for advice.
My boyfriend of like 4 years brought up something last night while we talking. I'll paste the text directly
"I uh, still fantasize about being raepted, I'm a low-key masochist, I want to be tied up, the works
And like, I never want that to be abusive?
So like, abusive behaviour in terms of physical acts is attractive, not emotional abuse though"
This is a major red flag for me, which i think is reasonable. He's also said numerous times in our relationship that he's jealous that I was abused by my parents. I want to stay with him, but the mother fucker is flashing flags like he's directing air traffic.

 

[Lidl Drip]

i'm gunna power level in the spoiler, so sorry for that in advance, but was hoping for advice.
My boyfriend of like 4 years brought up something last night while we talking. I'll paste the text directly
"I uh, still fantasize about being raepted, I'm a low-key masochist, I want to be tied up, the works
And like, I never want that to be abusive?
So like, abusive behaviour in terms of physical acts is attractive, not emotional abuse though"
This is a major red flag for me, which i think is reasonable. He's also said numerous times in our relationship that he's jealous that I was abused by my parents. I want to stay with him, but the mother fucker is flashing flags like he's directing air traffic.

Yeah he sounds pornsick, sorry.

 

[glow]

Sounds like he wants to play with power exchange as part of a loving and respectful relationship until...

also said numerous times in our relationship that he's jealous that I was abused by my parents

nigga what

 

[Andrealphus Fag 2]

Yeah he sounds pornsick, sorry.

I fully agree. I don't think he's even been in a remotely challenging power dynamic beyond being bullied in school. I wanna knock some sense in him, but I also feel like I'd have to knock teeth out to do it.

 

[Big Miss Steak]

i'm gunna power level in the spoiler, so sorry for that in advance, but was hoping for advice.
My boyfriend of like 4 years brought up something last night while we talking. I'll paste the text directly
"I uh, still fantasize about being raepted, I'm a low-key masochist, I want to be tied up, the works
And like, I never want that to be abusive?
So like, abusive behaviour in terms of physical acts is attractive, not emotional abuse though"
This is a major red flag for me, which i think is reasonable. He's also said numerous times in our relationship that he's jealous that I was abused by my parents. I want to stay with him, but the mother fucker is flashing flags like he's directing air traffic.

Get out

 

[Gaussiana]

I love you kiwisisters please keep this thread going and the man hate alive

 

[Andrealphus Fag 2]

Sounds like he wants to play with power exchange as part of a loving and respectful relationship until...

nigga what

Yeah, fr.

Get out

I had before and he'd stalked me.

 

[Grimoire Canthari]

I had before and he'd stalked me.

What? Leave him and his warped bloodline to die

 

[Andrealphus Fag 2]

What? Leave him and his warped bloodline to die

I want to, I really do, but I'm afraid he would hurt me tbh.
It feels hopeless, and I feel helpless.

EDIT: typing to fast, mashed my last sentance into dumb shit/ spelling.

 

[glow]

I had before and he'd stalked me.

I'm afraid he would hurt me tbh.

The red flags continue to intensify. This is not a good reason to be in a relationship with someone.

 

[REGENDarySumanai]

i'm gunna power level in the spoiler, so sorry for that in advance, but was hoping for advice.
My boyfriend of like 4 years brought up something last night while we talking. I'll paste the text directly
"I uh, still fantasize about being raepted, I'm a low-key masochist, I want to be tied up, the works
And like, I never want that to be abusive?
So like, abusive behaviour in terms of physical acts is attractive, not emotional abuse though"
This is a major red flag for me, which i think is reasonable. He's also said numerous times in our relationship that he's jealous that I was abused by my parents. I want to stay with him, but the mother fucker is flashing flags like he's directing air traffic.

What the fuck? Dump him immediately.

 

[Andrealphus Fag 2]

The red flags continue to intensify. This is not a good reason to be in a relationship with someone.

I agree.

What the fuck? Dump him immediately.

I'm considering it heavily. It sits in my mind pretty often. He's younger than me, and I hold out hope that his brain will unfuck in a couple years now that he's in late college, but idk if I can tolerate this for much longer.

 

[Big Miss Steak]

I hold out hope that his brain will unfuck in a couple years now that he's in late college, but idk if I can tolerate this for much longer.

It will not. Formulate your escape plan and leave, now. It is a matter of when, not if, he begins abusing you more than he already is (stalking is abuse for any man lurking the thread).

 

[glow]

I'm considering it heavily. It sits in my mind pretty often. He's younger than me, and I hold out hope that his brain will unfuck in a couple years now that he's in late college, but idk if I can tolerate this for much longer.

I'm an optimist too, and It's my worst quality. I burn time trying to solve problems that I should probably just have never taken on in the first place.

His strange coombrain ideas could probably be worked around by banning porn from your relationship but "I'm afraid he would hurt me" and "He stalked me" show that the most important thing, mutual respect, is missing.

I do not see a future here. The only question is, how much more time will you spend on this problem when you could be spending this time with someone of far higher quality?

 

[Andrealphus Fag 2]

It will not. Formulate your escape plan and leave, now. It is a matter of when, not if, he begins abusing you more than he already is (stalking is abuse for any man lurking the thread).

I know that, and in part know I'm lying to myself to force myself into granting him grace and the benefit of the doubt.

I'm an optimist too, and It's my worst quality. I burn time trying to solve problems that I should probably just have never taken on in the first place.

His strange coombrain ideas could probably be worked around by banning porn from your relationship but "I'm afraid he would hurt me" and "He stalked me" show that the most important thing, mutual respect, is missing.

I do not see a future here. The only question is, how much more time will you spend on this problem when you could be spending this time with someone of far higher quality?

This is insightful and I agree, too. If anything, you guys have first given me the courage to doubt my intentions for overlooking bullshit, as well as pointed me in a better direction. I'm afraid, but I'll do it, because you're ultimately right and I'm disillusioned.