Funny how ~half of the moids I know are "autistic" but no girls/women are.
Makes me wonder if this comes down to A) girls being raised, as usual, to astronomically higher standards than boys, and thus being able to effectively mask from a young age, or B) boymoms handwaving their sons' retarded, inconsiderate and/or cruel behavior as "well, he can't do anything about it, so just deal with it, and it's your fault for complaining!"
Not long ago I was on a trip with some members of my extended family, and this one woman (barely related to me) had two sons that were being absolute menaces and ruining the experience for everyone. (There was also a 5 year old girl on this trip, who wasn't causing any problems.) One of the sons was "spoiled", but the other? "Well, he's just autistic." which sounds to me like, "I won't bother disciplining him at all, so get used to it."
I don't want to sound like those moids that go around telling women "Well, all men watch porn, so you should lower your expectations if you don't want to die alone!" but I feel like it might be true at this point. Even men who claim not to watch porn end up getting caught in their lie a few years into the relationship. And if a man really doesn't watch porn, it's no guarantee that he doesn't objectify and look down on women in a number of different ways.