Well, yeah. She’s fucked then.
Yet another man wanting a woman to raise his kids, just to fuck off with the new “fun” one later. Call me a bitch but I told my husband before we ever had a kid that the only way I’d be a single mom was if he died, if he ever fucks off I’m leaving him custody.
I’m just doing what most men would do. I recommend more women do the same,
My mother in law once told my husband that if we ever divorced, she was taking custody of me in the divorce. He laughed. My father in law added from the corner that they weren't joking: if he abandoned his family, he better not come around again.
This is not something anyone believes is likely to happen, but it's good to know that your spouse has had the basic values of not abandoning their children like a stray tomcat drilled into them.
I cannot fathom any situation in which I would walk away from my children, and I think most mothers feel the same. I don't understand fathers who are like "yes, well, every other weekend is fine, sayonara".
@Friend of Dorothy Parker this "no one has kids after thirty" is such basic retardation it is actually frightening that it is so widely believed. First, look the fuck around you at the age of people toting babies, toddlers, small kids behind them. These kids were not all born to 23 year olds.
I had my first child at 33 and my fifth at 37. A perfect little charming Nordic-looking stairstep. (Or as my husband once infamously put it looking at a family photoshoot, 'you look like a bloody white supremacist with all of them'.) Fertility does not magically vanish at 30. That is just not supported by reality.
(And I would have had them much younger, but, amazingly,
my husband also got to have a say, and he wanted to wait a long time for economic and career reasons. The idea that women alone are deciding when babby is form is equally retarded and divorced from reality.)
But of course, it's merely bullshit to fake-justify the incel lust for teenagers. Many of them are psychologically stuck at that phase of development and are still pining for the beautiful besotted teenage girlfriend they never attained because, well, they were gross and weird. She's not coming along now that you are still gross and weird but now old too. She is interested in her peer group, who are teenage males who are actually attractive to her.
They just cannot move on from their stunted state of entitlement. "I was the most basic tier of male, I SHOULD HAVE BEEN REWARDED WITH A WOMAN" well in fact it does not work that way.
(I am lying slightly butchered in a hospital bed whilst my two youngest have their last ever day at preschool, I have many painkillers and I am absolutely in no mood for moidery today.)