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- Jan 2, 2019
100% this. I feel like no matter what women chose we are looked down upon. Chose a career? Well it's your fault the west is dying, better have kids before you are 30 and eggless. Chose to be a SAHM? Well you are a tradthot bangmaid retard and should get a career instead. Society wants us to do it all. A woman has to be the perfect homemaker, devoted mother, but also have a career and not be "lazy at home" but your kids better all have homemade lunches and your house better be spotless, you gotta be cleaning that when you get home from work. You gotta contribute financially to the household as to not "burden" the man to be the sole breadwinner because that's too much pressure on him. Speaking of, you better be a perfect wife that always smiles and still has pornstar sex after a day of taking care of the kids, house and work. No starfishing. And you better work out during your lunch break lest you not "snap back" after birthing 4 children because no man wants a fat wife that "lets herself go". You don't want your husbands eyes to start wandering to his secretary. You better not ever nag him or expect anything from him at all ever. You gotta do it all with a smile and without a single complaint and not expect as much as a thanks. Isn't it just so fulfilling?I normally wouldn't post on this thread, but I really want to make this point to somebody because it's been on my mind for years, and this may be the only place I can say it freely.
No group of people get shit on more than stay-at-home wives and mothers, when really they deserve the most respect. Wives and mothers have the responsibility of taking care of an entire house and dealing with bratty kids all day long. They stay in one location for large amounts of time, and a lot of the work they do is thankless. Making a house run well is a large endeavor.
Society has a whole, regardless of political stances, tends to look down upon them. The more conservative, trads view it as a woman's natural place and thus that should be their standard. They don't deserve appreciation because that's what they should be doing, which I don't like. On the other side, more socially liberal-minded people tend to look down upon stay-at-home mothers and wives. They seem belittling, in my opinion -- "oh, you WANT to stay at home all day and do nothing. Okay... You're a real credit to your gender," and so on. Can't women be allowed to choose and be respected, because both sides require a lot of work?
That one sentence I replied triggered this whole diatribe, but it has literally been on my mind for years, and I've never had the opportunity to express it.
Even women who do all of this somehow and never complain still get dumped by their scrotes and cheated on.