Fair and I'm impressed by your dedication and thoroughness. I went through a Jew phase when I was dealing with a lot of doubt, and it seemed more straightforward to truck with a religion that believes in God, and in whom God seems to believe, and forget about prophets and messiahs for a little while. I left that, because I just wasn't going to fit into my shul of choice, and I missed that woke horseshit you're talking about.
I do feel if any institution should be hyper-woke, it would be the church, since they're (we're?) supposed to be doing God's will etc. And I think God is NOT racist, or sexist, or hates gays. God's love and forgiveness is extended to criminals, so why would he judge the people he created by the traits he imparted to them like race, gender, or even sexual orientation? I mean, if the blood is shed for you and for many, then it follows that Christ is an inclusive force seeking to reunite humanity, not a bouncer in front of the Heaven Club deciding who gets to go in and who doesn't.