It's the classic Madonna-whore complex. Freud described this as psychic impotence: "Where such men love they have no desire, and where they desire they cannot love."
@Lidl Drip is spot on - men that think this way aren't interested in being ideologically coherent, they move the goalposts so they can maintain power over women's sexual autonomy. To think this way, you have to dehumanize women to such a degree it's no surprise they operate with only a reptilian brain. It is a cope when these men claim males are the logical sex.