Plato compared it to appetite. You will eat eventually, but some people like to eat more than others, some meals are better than others.
You dear sweet summer child. You remind me a little of those people who refuse measles vaccine because they think measles is a government hoax to put nanobots in your bloodstream. Because they and their parents never had to deal with measles, because they were vaccinated[/spoiler] they think measles is fake news; likewise, men are (somewhat) more insulated from sexism and molestation, so when all the girls said #MeToo the men react with disbelief, doubt and defensiveness.
I am not trying to bully you though, you little fighting rat you. I'm glad you came around, I'm just trying to illustrate how society minimizes these incidents.