- Joined
- Apr 5, 2015
The daughter revelation is horrifyingly common, and if you suffer from being an ex-cool girl, your dude friends will happily tell you this in the exact same tones a new AA member will talk about sobriety.May the father, son, and holy spirit guide the lost souls who think this way. I thought it was just subtle dehumanization not full on "Guhh??? they're not NPCs??? Hrm..."
I just wish that there could be more friendships between the sexes that doesn't make people say "OMG ARE YOU DATING!!". It's socialized into children the moment kids start talking to the other sex and their parents say "ermagaursh is that your bf/gf?" It makes both sides think that the opposite sex is reserved only for sex and relationships, which ultimately devolves into the tardedness and dehumanization seen in these incel posts because they're afraid of cooties.
The “boys and girls cannot be friends” BS has annoyed me since I met my closest lifelong friend at five years old. It is decades later and people seem unwilling to accept or to be confused by the concept of maintaining a friendship without fucking each other. I am not sure at which point I was supposed to stop valuing this friendship and mutually toss decades of mutual support and trust in the bin. Perhaps someone can enlighten me