In the moid mind, this is actually true, because moids have drastically lower levels of empathy towards women than women display towards men. (I think the post with the sources is somewhere back in this thread. If not I will go find it)
You have to remember that when they see some lassie getting raped for money (or for free, amateurs do exist), often in pain, almost always with a large side of humiliation, they literally do not see what we see. What we see provokes distress and horror in us: we see one of our own group being clearly and seriously harmed. Our reaction of fear, disgust, horror is instinctive. That adrenaline kicks in because images of harm to someone you relate automatically gives that response. Our disgust response is nothing to do with our personal politics, whatever that is. It's a fucking survival instinct, hardwired. A woman is being harmed and we are going to be next. Women who didn't display that instinctive response didn't survive.
They don't have that response. There is a recent study that showed they literally don't respond to any behavioural indicator by women anywhere nearly as strongly as they respond to another man, and that their response to us is more on the level on which they respond to behavioural indicators by animals.
We see a rape. They see a meat packing plant. And they really enjoy sausages. Sure, the pigs are squealing, but hey, don't be a fgt, it's just how the world is.
Violent pornography to them is no more emotionally troubling than when they pulled the wings off flies as little boys. They don't have any empathic connection to what's happening. It's not happening to someone like them, or someone they can even imagine being like them.
They are not capable as a group of reacting to our emotions, our needs, our outright distress, they way we relate to other people. We aren't quite full people to moids. you have to keep that in mind when you deal with them: very, very few women they ever meet achieve the remarkable feat of personhood in their eyes. (This is also why almost all of them write female characters so very badly.)
This is actually the root of the moid/"male feminist" trope that "suddenly I understood women's feelings about sexual violence/sexual harassment/sexual discrimination et cetera once I had a daughter". It's because the daughter is the first female human the moid has ever had a social relationship with that didn't exist in his mind as
purely an object to use to meet his needs. His mother exists purely from birth to meet his needs. Most moids never evolve the maternal relationship beyond that, and that's considered societally acceptable. Women-as-a-class are assessed purely by the interest of his penis. His partner is basically the same, except she's also expected to take on mommy's role of coddling the moid too. We have the word "fuckmommy" for a reason: it's what moids want.
Women are NPCs in the RPG of life: you interact with them to get something from them, and they are only supposed to give you what you want. They don't ask anything from you. Even a quest giver NPC gives a reward, right?
But the daughter? Most (non deviant) moids understand she is not a sexual outlet, and she's also incapable due to age of meeting his emotional and social needs. (This often reverses as she enters adulthood; do not let your father make a second wife out of you.) So he has to relate to this daughter as if she is an
actual person, with goals and thoughts and drives of her own. He has to understand and accept for the first time that she has a complete interior life, like him, and not like other women, who are the NPCs of MoidWorld.
Suddenly he starts to understand the words other women have used, and that he dismissed, because a
Real Person is saying them. Her tears when she is inevitably harassed on the train actually reach him and connect with him, because for the first time a Real Person has related this experience, and expressed distress, so for the first fucking time that experience and distress are understood by him to be
real. This is a real thing. It really happens. And for the first time ever, the moid actually has a glimpse at the effect of male violence and the constant threat of male violence, which has always until now operated solely to his benefit.
The cognitive dissonance blows their fucking minds, and for this basic acquisition of human empathy, we are supposed to give them praise and cookies. And they get very uppity when we don't.
male validation and will tell them what they want to hear).
