Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

[JambledUpWords]

I have seen some comments saying that maybe he just fucked off cause she heavily implied it's time to get married, they are both 28 and have been together 2.5 years, that's a pretty normal time to propose and she was hinting that it's time he does and he doesn't want to commit so he dumped her. Ofc online men chose to interpret this all in the worst way possible because they are autistic.

I think the moids that actually would take offense to a woman saying they want to marry them are terminally online and likely poisoned by porn. A lot of porn involving a husband figure is used for cuckholdry, as in that genre specifically, the husband is seen as lacking and less desirable, so the woman needs to hookup with a new guy while the husband watches. This is far from actual reality, and men in marriage are more likely to get regular sex than if they were a manwhore, as a manwhore can’t keep a woman for long and has to take extra time wooing more women just for the chance of sex.

Of course, another interpretation is that it’s all just projection and that they don’t want to have to “settle” for a woman they don’t see as ideal. A lot of these moids want the young, pretty, barely 21 tradwife, but very few of them are capable of attracting that. Even if those moids did, it won’t stop some from cheating once their ideal starts showing signs of aging or “ruins” her body by having kids they wanted.

Tl;dr never marry a moid, and if he’s afraid of commitment after a year of dating, dump him

 

[crazedaze]

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Love and commitment is only for BETAS apparently.

being a provider, aka trad husband is actually not something they are interested in

I think the meme is "Chad fucks beta bucks". Someone ITT said that they resent reciprocity, that's just it. They resent not just being irresistible to women for no real investment. Basically they are fags who like pussy lol
They're delusional as fuck because women need more than sex but they see us wanting a real man who has anything but pump and dumps to give as "golddigging". Imo it's porn sickness; women only loving men for their dick is how porn works, that's not real life. Scrotes like this one aren't marriage material anyway and it's too bad she has any emotional investment in this loser, but that's the vast majority of scrotes

 

[Lidl Drip]

I think the meme is "Chad fucks beta bucks". Someone ITT said that they resent reciprocity, that's just it. They resent not just being irresistible to women for no real investment. Basically they are fags who like pussy lol
They're delusional as fuck because women need more than sex but they see us wanting a real man who has anything but pump and dumps to give as "golddigging". Imo it's porn sickness; women only loving men for their dick is how porn works, that's not real life. Scrotes like this one aren't marriage material anyway and it's too bad she has any emotional investment in this loser, but that's the vast majority of scrotes

It's clear that this man and the men upset about this post are good for neither sex nor marriage nor exploiting for their resources because they are all broke ass losers. Keep on holding out for that woman who finds your gunt and bald spot "irresistible". lmfao

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

y"? Apparently being a provider, aka trad husband is actually not something they are interested in, they want to be manwhores instead. So why whine that no woman wants marriage with you if that's an insult anyway? Make it make sense.

the cat men in woman hate had the same take about her wanting to marry the guy . You know the fuckless chidless middle aged men that no woman goes near them that they have to go on the internet and "troll" women for a crumb of their attention. The ones who are going to die alone while screaming at women they are going to die alone. The ones who still cope that "you can still be a father at 50" .

Literally how to figure out who is bitter leftover men that busted through the wall and then hit another wall and blame women for not bending over backwards for their saggy balls , limp dick and broke ass. Like notice who is going to die alone take.

 

[JambledUpWords]

I think quite a few moids are delusional and think they’ll look like this once they hit 40:

Yeah, a guy that takes care of himself will likely be able to attract plenty of women regularly. A lot of men just don’t and have tried to convince women that “dad bods” are peak masculinity. Sorry moids, but very few of you will age as well as Richard Gere.

 

[TNF]

You left out my favourite reply. Some guy made a fucking venn diagaram.


Honestly I don't think that those men realise that in a womens mind a guy that is considered fwb material is easily replaceable. And that there is no intersection, because he will be upgraded to husband material if her feelings about the guy changes.

 

[Friend of Dorothy Parker]

Apparently men don't like being told that you want long term commitment with them and that you love him so much you want to marry him and not just fuck once but every day for the rest of your life? They want to be sexually objectified the way women are and told they are only good for their dicks and nothing more. Remind your bf/husband today that you're only with him for the sex and nothing else and that you will dump him of his dick ever stops working, he will probably be happy (no guarantees).

They really do. Everything is literally about the penis with some men. I once asked a guy who was particularly like this, so, you'd want me to lie, even if you knew I was lying, and that would make you feel good? "Yes." "Okay, fine, your cock is huge and the biggest and best I've ever had." He GLOWED. Weirdo.

 

[Lady Bizness]

Men's concept of women is so bizarre and unhinged. They also refuse to actually understand women and instead just ask questions about women of themselves and then armchair about it. It's like asking an AI program a question, but it's been fed data mostly of it's own answers and a dash of the worst TikToks made by obese blue haired women in HR, also porn.
Sorry, I went into A&N this morning. The boys are still worried about birthrates, but have they got a solution for you!

 

[soft breathing]

I'd say homegirl dodged a bullet on that one.

For one, this dude's not capable to sit down with her and talk to her about the misunderstanding and why he's hurt by her comment. Instead he runs away, crying about needing space. Absolute garbage.

For another, if he's so scared of commitment, but she knows she wants to marry (him or someone else later in life) - better get rid of him sooner than later. Men with commitment issues like that rarely if ever change their mind.

 

[Accidental Protege]

How do you even begin to fix a scrote who thinks anti-semitism and transphobia are the most pressing issues in the world? I know it sounds so retarded you want to believe they are a tiny minority but this is the average "progressive" western male in 2024.

It's because they all get their news from Reddit. A man admitting Reddit use has literally turned into one of my red flags.

 

[Haloperidol]

I‘m tired today. If a man wants to stop hearing sperging about his sex all he has to do is avoid spaces carved out for women to do so. I’ll have to wait until the day I fucking die.

Been reading too much A&N I guess. I just want to shitpost about politics, man.

 

[celona]

Time to bring back my favorite Marilyn Frye quote.

To say that straight men are heterosexual is only to say that they engage in sex (fucking exclusively with the other sex, i.e., women). All or almost all of that which pertains to love, most straight men reserve exclusively for other men. The people whom they admire, respect, adore, revere, honor, whom they imitate, idolize, and form profound attachments to, whom they are willing to teach and from whom they are willing to learn, and whose respect, admiration, recognition, honor, reverence and love they desire… those are, overwhelmingly, other men. In their relations with women, what passes for respect is kindness, generosity or paternalism; what passes for honor is removal to the pedestal. From women they want devotion, service and sex.

Heterosexual male culture is homoerotic; it is man-loving.

 

[Steam Deck Verified]

Apparently men don't like being told that you want long term commitment with them and that you love him so much you want to marry him and not just fuck once but every day for the rest of your life? They want to be sexually objectified the way women are and told they are only good for their dicks and nothing more. Remind your bf/husband today that you're only with him for the sex and nothing else and that you will dump him of his dick ever stops working, he will probably be happy (no guarantees).

lol, men are so fucking clueless about what they want. They'll sabotage women by insisting they lower their standards, stop being picky, aim lower and go for the boring, pudgy, medium ugly man with poor hygiene and autistic lack of romantic appeal, because unlike fit and fun 6'3" CHAD with OPTIONS, he's not just looking for sex and validation and will stick around to be marriage material. Then they turn around and cry into their craft beers that the women they told to stop being shallow and stop chasing men they're actually attracted to, don't see them as hot pieces of ass they constantly want to blow; and the advice "attraction grows over time" only works if there was a spark to begin with, it doesn't come out of thin air after 6 months of heinous farting next to her while binge watching I Think You Should Leave, getting caught jacking it to centaur hentai and never planning a date that isn't a table for two at Applebee's.

See also: Shaming breadwinner women for "letting her eggs rot" because her pornsick husband refuses to do anything but the bare minimum at work and his $40k help desk salary won't singlehandedly cover the mortgage, then turn around and blame women for staying at home and forcing men to work 90 hours a week instead of spending time with the kids or having a work-life balance, and shaming women as being gold diggers and future divorce rapists for wanting a man they don't have to constantly financially support.

 

[Lidl Drip]

Another thing is all the men saying "She should have been more sensitive, she should have worded it differently, she should have known it would hurt him" like men don't CONSTANTLY say hurtful and insensitive things to women and then get angry when the woman is hurt and complain he was just "being honest" or "women can't take a joke"

"Am I the asshole for telling my girlfriend that her best friend is hotter than her?"
"Nah dude, you were just being honest and she needs to stop being so insecure."

But if it's the other way around suddenly it's okay for the man to act like a petulant crybaby and pout for days because he misunderstood something she said. Men claiming to be the logical and reasonable sex is such a fucking joke, they are completely ruled by their emotions and they can dish it out but they can't take it at all.

 

[Thé au lait]

Also another interesting statistics that's not really related is

Holy fucking shit the Saudi peninsula is that fucking bad? Whatever the opposite of mashallah is, that!
Also is the marriage rate dropping because moids are getting more pathetic, or is it the other way around?

I think quite a few moids are delusional and think they’ll look like this once they hit 40:
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Yeah, a guy that takes care of himself will likely be able to attract plenty of women regularly. A lot of men just don’t and have tried to convince women that “dad bods” are peak masculinity. Sorry moids, but very few of you will age as well as Richard Gere.

If that's considered ageing well, I don't want to see what ageing poorly looks like

You left out my favourite reply. Some guy made a fucking venn diagaram.
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Honestly I don't think that those men realise that in a womens mind a guy that is considered fwb material is easily replaceable. And that there is no intersection, because he will be upgraded to husband material if her feelings about the guy changes.

"What do you mean I'm a good husband? Well fuck you too!"
I sincerely feel bad for heterosexuals, God bless you all

divorce rapists

Another thing is all the men saying "She should have been more sensitive, she should have worded it differently, she should have known it would hurt him" like men don't CONSTANTLY say hurtful and insensitive things to women and then get angry when the woman is hurt and complain he was just "being honest" or "women can't take a joke"

I reject even the premise that either of these mean anything, you'd have to be a complete nigger to think that shared finances are both shared and only belong to the moid. Same goes for "she should've been more 'sensitive'/should've known it would hurt him". Sensitive about what? Why the fuck would anybody think that "you're a great husband" is an insult, unless you're a drooling nigger?

 

[CorvidFag]

So, if you flip it around, it means “wife-material, not hookup-material” is an insult, correct? Men really thought the madonna/whore complex afflicts us.

 

[Thé au lait]

So, if you flip it around, it means “wife-material, not hookup-material” is an insult, correct? Men really thought the madonna/whore complex afflicts us.

Holy shit maybe that really is why, they took the boomer "waaaah I hate my wife, she asked me to take out the garbage" shit and think that means marriage is only for someone you dislike

 

[Inside your walls]

Men are currently losing their minds over this reddit post:

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Apparently men don't like being told that you want long term commitment with them and that you love him so much you want to marry him and not just fuck once but every day for the rest of your life? They want to be sexually objectified the way women are and told they are only good for their dicks and nothing more. Remind your bf/husband today that you're only with him for the sex and nothing else and that you will dump him of his dick ever stops working, he will probably be happy (no guarantees).

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Love and commitment is only for BETAS apparently. I think this says a lot about how moids see marriage as "settling" and really all wish they could be manwhores forever, so they project this onto women.

Remind me again why men are crying about not getting their tradwife and "muh nuclear family"? Apparently being a provider, aka trad husband is actually not something they are interested in, they want to be manwhores instead. So why whine that no woman wants marriage with you if that's an insult anyway? Make it make sense.

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lmao

>Being told we're "marriage material" is being told "you're not hot, you're safe" which is the last thing
a man wants to be told. We hear just fine

Lol lmao, these terminally online jizz apes don't get to seethe about how women considering them a "safe option" when they were the ones crying not even 2 months ago about how women allegedly would rather date drug dealers and convicted felons with history of domestic abuse than "boring but safe" men like them. They even described themselves like that unironically! Like who are they trying to gaslight here? Fuck off with that shit.

Literally proving the point of "Men will say something about themselves with pride, but get mad when a woman
says the same thing"

I think the moids that actually would take offense to a woman saying they want to marry them are terminally online and likely poisoned by porn. A lot of porn involving a husband figure is used for cuckholdry, as in that genre specifically, the husband is seen as lacking and less desirable, so the woman needs to hookup with a new guy while the husband watches. This is far from actual reality, and men in marriage are more likely to get regular sex than if they were a manwhore, as a manwhore can’t keep a woman for long and has to take extra time wooing more women just for the chance of sex.

I'll never understand porn addicts and tryhards shitting on actual concept of husbands and especially the so called "wife guys". Most of "wife guys" I've met IRL were some of the most chill dudes that were pretty content with themselves and in a healthy relationship. Obviously I'm not talking about cases such as Idubbbz, I am talking about dudes who are like "Yeah, I work my job, I love and trust my wife, I see her as my equal and I'll support her endeavors whether its domestic or career ones and I am absolutely content with that".

Also is the marriage rate dropping because moids are getting more pathetic, or is it the other way around?

From what I read it's a mix of both, women feel like they're unable to find suitable partners for marriage and family, but if that's not really the case it's most because they are prioritizing and focusing on themselves.



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BTW isn't it funny how men are telling women how they're going to be crazy if they don't get married and have kids, but we're just seeing
more happier women while men are writing gay essays about how they can't breed? Isn't it funny how we constantly hear how men are
going totally opt-out from society, only to show up the next Tuesday for breadcrumbs because they can't put their money where
the mouth is?

 

[isalaide]

I guess nobody has ever shared with her the wise words "If he wanted to, he would". How humiliating for her

Hurtful Truth Level is about to be exceeded, sorry.

If a guy has acquired the oneitis/the hearteyes/however you wish to describe the affliction - and even moids are capable of this, it i merely a shallow transient attachment in their case, but they are also suseptible - it is not possible to stop them attempting to put a ring (and a lockdown) on it.

Guys are fucking obsessed with Their Claim on whatever they believe is the best lass they can get, especially if two important conditions are satisfied:
a - he believes she is substantially out of his league
b - she is desired by other males and therefore provides him with trophy status

When a dude is in this mode, he will do many mad things to convince the woman she should actually accept him as a life partner. The public proposals are only the tip of the iceberg.

 

[Totallyunknown]

I've had that scenario happen about a dozen times - it's not about marriage, it's about whether or not she finds him sexually attractive. For men, they will inevitably lose sexual attraction to their wife as she ages, gives birth etc. and thus will be undesirable. Wives are gross, unsexual things which nag you and take care of children and do the dishes. Wives are not sexy bang maids. To him, she is saying, I don't have a strong one track sexual attraction to you where I think about sucking your penis all day everyday and the ways which I can be sexually available to you, I would prefer a more nonsexual, scheduled relationship where I benefit from being your contractually obligated roommate that you can sometimes beg to suck your penis on holidays.

As someone else mentioned, mens primary desire is to be on the receiving end of the male gaze / sexual attraction. Since women know what that's like, they will never objectify men. But men do a lot of projecting through their objectification as they would LOVE to walk into a bar and have half a dozen women stare them down relentlessly, touch them, flirt with them, offer to head into a bathroom stall with them. They would absolutely love to be used only for sex. It is their singular dream that some woman friend of theirs will stop by for a quick bang and immediately leave with no chit chat. They would love to be raped and assaulted - by women, of course. Even if they say they don't, their peepees will tell them they do and they will be asking for it outright, begging even to feel unsafe around women at night.

I'd frequently mention to a guy I didn't really put a lot of weight in physical looks and that would immediately turn them off. They need you to fawn over them even though you will almost always be better looking than them. It is almost like taking pity and feeling sorry for them to tell them a compliment that is more than likely a lie as women are willing to look deeper to develop their relationships than a rock hard body or Chad jaw line. We know by like 25 that shit means very little, if we can snag a decent looking nice guy then it's like winning a scratcher ticket. But it's usually one or the other.

Reddit dude is mad she basically gave him the friends with benefits that fucking sucks because you actually would have to be friends for real and not a fucked up occasional free prostitute that is solely based on sexual satisfaction. Marriage is the ultimate version of friends with benefits that men absolutely do not want.