Dead on. Conservativism lets moids get away with a lot. Look at how common the useless alcoholic dad trope is in Eastern Europe and how women are burdened with inhumane amounts of labor despite them supposedly being the most "trad" white countries. In religious communities, women tend to be more religious than men. That's because there are more strict rules women have to follow to be considered as virtuous, there are more serious consequences for their failures while moids can do absolutely anything, repent and still go to heaven.
The greatest irony religious women who are being dictated by either their religious spheres or totally "trad" moids online to be demure and generous to their often deadbeat husbands that don't do their lot in marriage and child raising is the fact that not even Jesus, the Son of God wouldn't want them to date or be with these deadbeat scrotes period. He would want these women to be happy even if it means they wouldn't be with somebody else. There's literally a proverb from the Bible talking about this!
Of course if you say this, you instantly get accused by tradscrotes of using Jesus Christ and God as a cudgel for your politics, even though Jesus was a man that hung out with prostitutes, lepers and other pariahs from all walks of life and the "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone" quote that trad scrotes love to use when their fellow butt buddy gets outed as a sex pest or degenerate in there spheres is a from story where Jesus defends a prostitute from an angry mob that wanted to kill her without any hesitation.
It's amazing how much Jesus as a figure is such an antithesis to most of modern "trad" moids who claim they look up to him and his words. Think about it, he was:
- A child born through unconventional means and another man who wasn't his father raised him, many trad scrotes would describe this as cuckold behavior because they view children who are of other men as those men's fuck trophies, instead seeing them as human beings
- Somebody that represented change, stood against system that was considered the norm and had beliefs that were outrageous during that time and to those that wanted to preserve this system and its values. Most of tradscrotes hate change unless it benefits them personally and want to preserve a system that harms more people than anything while getting outraged at the idea of something new standing against them.
- He not only deeply revered and loved his mother that gave everything to support his cause, but he also loved and respected other mothers. Meanwhile tradscrotes treat mothers, especially single mothers with contempt and refuse to even acknowledge how much mothers sacrifice themselves for their children.
- He preached love, empathy and forgiveness. Sentiments and values most tradmoids considered "soy", "beta", "pussywhipped"
and "effeminate", even though there were many moments in Bible where Jesus drew the line
- As mentioned he hung out with prostitutes and those less fortunate, meanwhile tradscrotes shit on prostitutes because they think every prostitute who entered this profession is some 1st world libfem chick, despite the fact these are a minority compared to vulnerable woman that got trafficked into doing it. They also cry about how they can't shit on and make fun of those those less fortunate such as disabled because "MUH WOKE CANCEL MOB!!"
- Someone that absolutely loathed grifters. Tradscrotes love using that one story of him thrashing merchants' stands in front of the church as example of him being based because they imagine their political enemies in that situation, but they fail to realize that they would be also on the receiving end of Jesus's wrath in that case because they would be considered the worst types of grifters in Jesus's eyes, aka the false prophets who use his words and words of his Father as a tool for their benefits and profits.
- He was a Middle Eastern man, a part of the group that tradscrotes call savage but then under the same breath simp for because "At least the keep their women in line!!" by treating them like subhumans and impregnating girls that didn't even went through their whole puberty.
I could go on really, but you get my point.
The way society defends religion as a whole is exhausting. I'm sure even those who believe in a God can realise that the Bible, Torah, Qu'ran, etc all tell extremely demeaning stories about women and have senseless restrictions on them. They're products of their time--a time when controlling women was even more overt and accepted than it is today--but because it's "le holy book" people refuse to accept these biases. Hijab is disgusting. Period tents are horrifying. Veiling is lame. The list goes on.
Your point about how all the religious books and texts just conviently have a pattern of being demeaning to women reminded of this post I stumbled upon.
Warning: Tumblr jumpscare
Honestly, my two biggest takes regarding moids and religion is that the decline of Christianity in the western world wouldn't have happened if the Vatican Church wasn't trying to actively sweep up the child molestation epidemic and unironically trying to defend the molesters and groomers from public's scrutiny. Like how do you expect people not to turn their backs after that and have faith in you? It would be less terrible if they were shagging each other or just screwing with adult men, but they targeted children, a group that's vulnerable and cannot defend for itself. Moids will say the same thing when leftists cry about adults becoming more hostile to the idea of troons hanging around children and concepts of "trans children", but get mad when you literally say the same thing about the Church. Obviously Vatican incident isn't the only thing that played a part in public's view on the Church, because in USA it was different as people for the first time in a good while during 2000s got to see the insanity of fundamentalist churches such as Westboro Baptist Church and FLDS, who were most of the time ran by men. The decline of Christianity in the west was brought upon by moids themselves, but they don't want to admit that that's why the have to cope by blaming progressivism and women (because ofc) for the Church's decline or bring up that one statistic how umm akshually children in public schools get molested more than children in the Church, never mind the fact that Churches aren't exactly accessible as public schools are.
The second take is that all of the so called "trad and Christian" men online would've been or were the edgy fedora tipping atheists 15-20 years ago that viewed marriage as either a cockblock, as there were many men of this type that would lament about religious young women who were saving themselves for marriage or as a ball and chain to trap and indoctrinate them into the Church that would restrict them from pursuing things they wanted to pursue and force them to fit in a mold they carefully structured for its followers.