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- Oct 27, 2021
Are you OK?[A lot.] The Witch Trials will happen again.
I...don't think this is the case. Most therapists are remarkably neutral, and if they have any experience, they've heard it all. At the same time, perhaps it's not a bad thing to consider refining one's perspective.I know if I went to someone about my thoughts, I would be told that I am some nasty misandrist or bigot… and I know that’s not the case. I refuse to pay to be gaslit into thinking I’m not seeing what I see with my own eyes.
If I sound dismissive or anything else negative, that's not my intention. But you seem a bit overwhelmed with thoughts and observations that trouble you.
It's OK to be angry or distressed. But it's also good to recognize that at certain times some added-up theories or fixations may not be quite so...grounded as the theorize might think.If I was a man bitching about women, NO man would be trying to tell me to seek therapy or “It’s not that bad! You need antidepressants!!” You see? THAT is why shit keeps going backwards for us. Instead of seeing what the problem actually is, and instead of calling it out for what it is, and instead of being like “yeah, I get it, I see the same pattern”, we tell ourselves that we need to fix ourselves as women and do the Pollyanna thing, “it’s not that bad, reeeeally! Just eat some chocolate and meditate and it’ll all feel better in the morning!“ Like some kind of battered wife who’s too scared to leave. Thats what men count on. That’s why they keep pushing the boundaries and WINNING. They pushed pills and lobotomies on our grandmothers to force them to “keep sweet!” Now they want to install fucking brain chips and gene edit us. Can’t anyone else see that the shit will hit the fan?
We’re afraid to be angry or feel sad, and so we refuse to see reality when it slaps us in the face. Then we tell the next woman to cover her eyes her ears and her mouth and “be a team player!” Like crabs in a bucket. If you don’t like my comments, just move on. Don't tell me ”Smile! Your comments make me scared and they hurt my feelings!“ Men wouldn’t do that to each other, why do we?
And if you don't like or can't tolerate feedback to your public comments, perhaps public commentary isn't the ideal mode for you. Maybe a blog with comments turned off?If you don’t like my comments, just move on.