Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

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Someone who I'm friends with called me while drunk, and asked if I would have dated him if he was skinnier...

He has a financee.

What the hell did I even do to deserve this? I'm so tired of this shit happening to me, maybe I should only make friends with women.
This shit happens all the time. Stop thinking it's a specific burden.

Would you rather date a guy who is 5’4 or 6’4 but in a wheelchair? Just wondering how over it really is for me
Would you rather date a woman who weighs 280 or a woman who is 120 and in a wheelchair?

My point is I think you're comparing apples to oranges. This isn't a good either-or.
 
What should I do?
Depending on your country/state, there may be no statute of limitations for civil claims related to childhood sexual abuse. But then again I'm a spiteful bitch. I can't imagine wanting to have a child molestor at your wedding but that's just me... I'm sorry you have to deal with that.

If you don't want to rock the boat, grey rock and stay in public sight, do not let yourself be caught alone with him. Also don't drink, so no one can accuse you of having been drunk if anything does occur, and make sure to mention to at least 2 or 3 people that you aren't drinking that night for whatever health reason you want to make up. People like to blame victims because the victim is the softer target, it's easier to punch down than up and people are lazy cowards. Hope for the best but prepare for the worst. Men have a way of creating drama at the worst times and dragging women into it even when women are trying to give them grace to not put their own foot in their mouth. Get a recording app on your phone and learn how to use it discreetly.

Also, let's be clear: you did not destroy the family, he did. You seem to hold guilt over that and you should speak with someone.
 
Just remember if you've been abused, your hauntings can be temporary and fleeting. You can understand you didn't do anything wrong, and it was the abuser who chose to because he's a shitstain scum. Human feces. For the perpetrator (men), it'll be on them forever in the end, regardless if there is an afterlife. Their fucked up choice and actions forever taint anything they could have had, and those men hate that. They'll expect more out of you. Like some fuckin toy they just broke.
 
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Would you rather date a guy who is 5’4 or 6’4 but in a wheelchair? Just wondering how over it really is for me
This is a bit of TMI but...

I am a very short, like... one or two inches above the cutoff for dwarfism, barely making 150cm. It is inconvenient to always need a stepping stool to get that folder on top of the shelve at work but whatever. This does, however, mean that I am like a wounded gazelle in the Serengeti for manlets because I am the ticket for them feeling tall. I really don't care about height, but men who are conscious about their own height and single me out because of that are more or less a no-go. It feels so desperate and that makes it very, very unattractive.
 
Hello, moid here but I come in good faith.

There is a phenomenon where men are 7 times more likely to divorce a woman who is seriously ill as opposed to when men are seriously ill.

This one is from Psychology today,
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Here is a study from 2009 that basically echoes the same thing. In fact, it’s higher today if I am reading this correctly, with the number being “<6”.


Any possible explanations for this? Only excuse I can think of would be to “divorce” in name only so you aren’t burdened by medical bills. It’s obviously very shitty, and I can’t fathom doing it or why so many do. Men should protect women, so a ratio of 1:7 is huge and terrible.
Cancer isn't sexy.

If you want a horrifying irl example look at newt Gingrich. This nigger divorced two women once they became seriously ill (first had cancer the second had MS) and literally was doing the Monica Lewinsky drama at the same time he was cheating on his second wife.
 
Good luck to you, sister in arms.
Thank you for sharing you story with me. I think it helps a lot to know that there are women, who went through similar things and understand all the feelings surrounding it.
I think I'm done feeling ashamed. Thank you!
Also, let's be clear: you did not destroy the family, he did. You seem to hold guilt over that and you should speak with someone.
Thank you for all of your advice. You're right about the guilt. I think I don't feel as much of it as I used to, but some of it obviously remains. I will try to speak someone IRL about it.
 
This is the Official man-hate thread, not the "Emotional support for moids in wheelchair" thread or the thread for moids who want female affirmation and appreciation. Moids, stop shitting up the thread, and women, start man-hating more.

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Hell yeah! We need to start living like they did in the 19th century and go back to the times when children were cheap labor, nobody except the rich got an education, 2-4 out of ten children died before their 5th birthday and 1 in 100 women died in childbirth so that moids get to spread their crusty seed.
 
While i agree with this I really believe some of it also just comes from men not wanting to be tied down to a terminally or chronically ill woman, especially if the woman isn't able to have sex or be attractive in that state. It's the same as when men get upset when the wife gets pregnant cause they're not in the mood to have sex (cause you know, they've got a dam baby inside of them) except in that regard there's an end in sight where the relationship can potentially resume where the woman can look attractive again, but in the case of illness, especially if it's a terminal illness that could potentially last years? Men just don't want to waste their time on women they can't use how they want, and instead of being there for the woman, who has lessened chances of finding a partner especially in the case of terminal illness, they just leave her for their own selfish needs. But yet somehow men are the providers.
I agreed to have dinner with a guy that only looked a little older than me in the pictures he sent, and when I arrived this guy was at minimum in his 60s. I should've just immediately left but I stuck it out anyway. He eventually confessed to me that he was married and she was terminally ill with cancer, and that he still "loved" her and would "care for her until the end" but that he missed "intimacy" like he was some sort of romantic when clearly all he missed was sex and was taking this opportunity to try to fuck around. I told him immediately this made me deeply uncomfortable and he still tried to kiss me after walking me to my car. Even the men who stick around will find a way to betray their wives.
 
I agreed to have dinner with a guy that only looked a little older than me in the pictures he sent, and when I arrived this guy was at minimum in his 60s. I should've just immediately left but I stuck it out anyway. He eventually confessed to me that he was married and she was terminally ill with cancer, and that he still "loved" her and would "care for her until the end" but that he missed "intimacy" like he was some sort of romantic when clearly all he missed was sex and was taking this opportunity to try to fuck around. I told him immediately this made me deeply uncomfortable and he still tried to kiss me after walking me to my car. Even the men who stick around will find a way to betray their wives.
Shit like this is so upsetting. Isn't it men who always go on and on and on about 'muh honor' and 'women don't get it!' when it comes to shit like that? At the same time when they don't have easy access to sex all of this goes out of the window because they are primarily married to their own dick.
 
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Once again, children want puppies more than their parents do. I very much doubt that this male has any intention on helping out with parental duties, and just wants a wife who will baby him.

As mentioned a few pages back, having a lot of kids is a great way to start unintentionally neglecting them.

These males not only want to baby trap their partners, but keep them financially trapped as well so that they can’t leave so easily. You just know that these same scrotes would quickly become family annihilators the second the wife decides to do anything to better herself… which is unfortunately a a lot more common than people realize.
 
At this point, when a man begins a sentence with "white women," we all know some insane moid degeneracy is sure to follow. The worst one by far, imo, is "white women fuck dogs," because it's just blatant projection in addition to the usual misogyny cloaked in "acceptable" racism.

Late but while the ‘white’ prefix is a little more modern due to being acceptable targets, men have always tried to insist to themselves and each other that we’re the more perverse gender. Even the Bible is steeped in the idea that women are lustful. It’s so they can justify to themselves what they (want to) do to us. It’s a lot easier to convince themselves that a group is deserving of abuse than it is to confront that people like them have historically brutalized us for no reason other than their own degeneracy and inadequacy.
 
Hi! I've been a lurker since this thread started. I must admit that I started as a 'moid apologist' but the things you shared with me resonated with me deeply.
I've spent a long time downplaying what happened to me when I was a child (because it's not like I was raped or something). I wanted to forget that my uncle spent a decade touching me in places that no one
should have when I was of that certain age.
When I became an adult, I tried my best to forget. I played nice with the creep, but when I was 28 and living on my own the creep wanted to visit me and I made it so he could visit me only when my mother was also present, so he couldn't do anything. It enraged him, he wrote me an insane screed that condenmed me, my actions, and anyone close to me. The positive relationship that my mother had with her sister (his wife) ended on that day. I spent years blaming myself for that.
Now, it's 9 years later and my little sister is getting married. She invited this estranged part of the family and my tormentor will be there - old and decrepit, a shadow of his past self. I would prefer to not attend, but I have to because I love my sister, who doesn't know anything of the things that happened to me. What should I do?
Warn your sister and relatives, if they still insist he attend, make sure there are no children left unattended near him. These assholes get vindictive once their victim gets away, they'll try and find another little life to ruin. Remember at the heart of pedophilia is sadism, power and control.
 
Or you could just....not select one at all.
Apologies, I didn't want to come across as if choosing a male was in any form a necessity, or even necessarily desirable.
It was merely meant as friendly advice for those who seek one, because they want to.

Thankfully we're indeed living in a time where we hold enough rights to choose if we want to have a partner in the first place, for which I am very thankful for.


And obviously, if he needs a constant reminder he's not the one. The post was meant more along the lines of making sure to set good, self-respecting boundaries from the start. I know some of us can struggle with that, because of millennia of garbage moids perpetually trying to gaslight us into thinking we're the "weaker", "emotional" sex who's not as "mature" and we're dependable on them. We need to counter that brainwashing.
In truth, scrotes desperately had to find a way to subdue us before we'd realize they're the expendable ones.

The brainwashing goes so far that they successfully managed to brainwash themselves. They just parrot all the bullshit they've been fed - like women being on a timer, and men not. Once I correct them, they're surprised to find out they're, in fact, the expendable ones who got the short stick - at least the more intelligent ones.
The dumber ones are frequently shared in this thread or come here and ask questions about their height.
 
Warn your sister and relatives, if they still insist he attend, make sure there are no children left unattended near him. These assholes get vindictive once their victim gets away, they'll try and find another little life to ruin. Remember at the heart of pedophilia is sadism, power and control.
There won't be any children. It will be an adults only wedding, so at least there's that.
 
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