This is one of those posts that make me wish there was a sort of "50/50" or "eeehh" rating to indicate that I'm torn on it.
I was never much of a Soulsfag, so I won't have been aware much of this guy, and it's clear as day that there are no winners in this entire story. That said, I can't bring myself to wish outright ill on him when he was quite clearly just a deeply confused "fish out of water" hoping for a relationship with someone he originally looked up to to just... work out somehow. Far from it, the woman turned out to be the actively malicious one here, and probably did even less to try and seek help for her own brain damage than the Afro guy might have (marginally) done.
Sure, I hope he ditches the weird anime girl schtick even if he is confident he's not actually a troon. But I also do hope he makes it out of this situation somehow and is actually able to get the prerequisite help for the former.