It was Bibby's birthday the other day (32), but he didn't post anything about it. I did a quick scroll through his recent Reddit history to see what he's been up to lately. It looks like some posts on Reddit made him confused about how to wear a skirt and ultimately, gave him deep thoughts about how to live as a (trans) woman.
It started with this outfit picture with part of his belly hanging out. Some commenters told him to pull the skirt up, "up to your female waist".
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This made Bibby confused about how you are supposed to wear a skirt. His mom always adjusts his skirt to be on his bellybutton, but he does not enjoy that. And where is his waist supposed to be anyway?
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Some advice from a fellow fatty, who tells him his mom is just trying to shield him from hurtful interactions.
"WHY DOES BEING A WOMAN HAVE TO BE SO MUCH MORE UNCOMFORTABLE THAN BEING A MAN!!!!!!!!!
my feelings dont fit in text...... i just wann go and hide in my duvet blanky......"
Next, he posted about feeling traumatized from learning he had been wearing skirts the wrong way for 4 years.. There was another post indicating that he probably had a violent meltdown over this.
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Uncomfortable, but "This Is How Women Wear It". - users tell him it's not
Also, some other users in the thread told him off for posting on r/SpicyAutism because they don't want low functioning autists over there.
New outfit post with proper skirt wearing, tights and a collar
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On the collar:
He does mention a 'long distance girlfriend' with whom he talks about 'transformation kink' stuff.
Then he started reading a book on queer theory and it got him even more confused.
Tough question: how does "binaries = bad" apply to Street Fighter character moves?
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"mayb i was better off not knowing all these "how ciswomen Do The Thing" secrets?????????"
His most recent post on the topic with some of his most insightful musings.
Summary: He knows he doesn't pass, even if he's learning ciswoman stuff, such as sitting with his legs closed and wearing his skirt on his bellybutton. Queer theory tells him that assimilation of queer people into normal cis society is bad because the binary should be disrupted. Therefore, Bibby has decided that it should also be ok for him to remain at "Beginner-Level Womanhood", to take take pride in his current looks and the fact that other people can tell that he is trying to be a woman, instead of having to do more things he doesn't like in order to pass better.
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Glad to see Reddit didn't get him down and he can be more happy with himself now.
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