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Yeah, I'd say my feelings used to get horribly out of control. They still sporadically make me do something stupid every now and then, but I've for the most part learned to control myself. I used to over analyze things all the time, and it really didn't get me anywhere. It does mean I like poetry more than I should, though. It's fun, it's like putting a puzzle together to try and find out what the author is saying (and being wrong about it 100% of the time, even when you're right). In the end, I really do sell myself short of a lot of things, and I really don't think I'm anything special at all, but literally everyone tells me I'm incredibly good at one thing or another. I think only one person in my entire life has ever made me feel shitty enough to confirm my suspicions about myself, but I have to move on from that and realize that what they say isn't right when compared to the hundreds of positive responses I get from other people.Burning Love said:Introverts tend to latch onto me for whatever reason... like, people tell me I've got one of those intimidating alpha vibes, but introverts get me in private and soon I'm like, the de facto protector from other E-types. lol. I also don't ignore them when other people are around, but don't try to bring them into a conversation that would be awkward for them... and I think that's pretty appreciated. Introverts are special, for sure. It's a balancing act to make them comfy and safe, but I like finding the balance.The Hunter said:Oh, other introverts on the other hand, I'm actually kind of bad with. I always want to talk specifically to them. I absolutely adore quiet people. They're the funniest, brightest people I know, and I always want to be with them, but they just want to be left alone. Then I get upset and extroverts try to cheer me up, and I tell them I want to be left alone. I like close, private relationships, and I'd rather be a duo than a group.
I really don't know much about INFJ, and I don't really feel a need to look into it. But I know it really hit the nail on the head when I read the results.
I'm like 98.9% sure the girl I've been on/off with this year is INFJ, and holy damn, they are intense. It's like talking to a complex emotional puzzle all the time every time. I don't know so much about emotions but I want to work my way through and find the person at her core, the one that is obscured by all the ridiculously complex feels. She can turn the most simple thoughts (about feelings, of course) into a poetic musing for the ages. INFJ are, imo, the most fascinating type because of things like that. I WANT TO SMOTHER THEM ALL IN WARMTH AND HUGS. :mrgreen:
ENFJs are boss too. My sister is one and so was my best friend in university, there's some natural (friendly) chemistry between ENFJ-ENTP. Very good in teams. You feelers, sheesh.![]()
See, now I'm gonna be here forever because I don't know how to politely end conversations, and because this is really starting to interest me.