Please don't call user Agony a retard - or neg rate his posts!

[Monika H.]

I get it. No, I am not intellectually gifted. I am a midwit, if you are familiar with the term. However, I do feel like a lot of people here are on the gifted range, judging by the quality if sone discussions and the aesthetic of the site.

Ahahahah no.
We are a bunch of idiot autists. Why else would we be on this site?

 

[Pee Cola]

I get it. No, I am not intellectually gifted. I am a midwit

That explains all the bad faith arguments and strawmans you've put out there thus far.

Do you like friend chicken?

 

[Just A Butt]

@Agony what's happening man? You used to shit on everyone and be a pretentious cunt but now you're throwing a sad pity party

He’s had time to sleep it off a little and is probably regretting being a sperg.

He’s not a bad feller. Just misunderstood.

 

[Medical Hawaii]

edit--shit thought this was the pm lmfao srry

 

[Agony]

Opinions on women and relationships?

I have no great experience in relationships, so I can not say something relevant. About women? I do not harbor any resentment, at least nowadays, neither I wish to criticize or assume what they are attracted to. I guess there is a multitude of factors, and I am really not in the mood to keep ruminating about the "whys". As for froendships, I had/have female friends, and in general I have gone past the social anxiety stage years ago.

 

[Monika H.]

Any Marx Brothers fans in here?

https://kiwifarms.st/threads/marx-brothers.76004/#post-7289019

NOT IN MY CHRISTIAN THREAD

 

[Neko GF]

Just "incels are exceptional" and that's it? If you were to give them some useful advice, what would it be?

One piece of useful advice I can give is to stop identifying with the term incel.

 

[FitBitch]

Dudes, I just wrote a shitty introduction and almost everyone begun attacking me.
I am not here to exchange insults, but for whatever reason you kept spamming "retarded". Nevertheless, I stated I am an incel. I am not a misogynist, I am not as socially inept as the stereotypical incel, I do have friends and I am in grad school (to answer a user's question). I was ousted by incels.co because I did upset some users saying that I am not a truecel, which means that I had 1 relationship, and therefore am not a "khhv".
Troon Draugur, you referred to me as faux intellectual for what reason? The only thing I did was retalliating against waves upon waves of insults.

My good advice falls on deaf ears. It never paid me to be generous.

 

[Just A Butt]

One piece of useful advice I can give is to stop identifying with the term incel.

I can’t agree with this hard enough.

And maybe evaluate what it is about you that YOU can change for the better. Only you can get you laid.

 

[Monika H.]

Incel is synonymous with failure.
So calling yourself an incel is basically calling yourself a failure.

 

[Stilgar of Troon]

I have no great experience in relationships, so I can not say something relevant. About women? I do not harbor any resentment, at least nowadays, neither I wish to criticize or assume what they are attracted to. I guess there is a multitude of factors, and I am really not in the mood to keep ruminating about the "whys". As for froendships, I had/have female friends, and in general I have gone past the social anxiety stage years ago.

One piece of useful advice I can give is to stop identifying with the term incel.

Nailed it. "Incel" is a mindset and a lifestyle, not just a collective noun. There's a world of difference between being a guy who's not getting laid and a guy who calls himself an incel. If your quoted post is to be believed, then you're not per se an incel.

 

[Agony]

One piece of useful advice I can give is to stop identifying with the term incel.

At some point, I did cut off every tie to the community, but I got sucked in again. It is true though, that in moments of mental clarity I do realise that what I am bothered by is not the lack of romantic relationships, but my dissatisfaction with my life.

 

[Just A Butt]

Nailed it. "Incel" is a mindset and a lifestyle, not just a collective noun. There's a world of difference between being a guy who's not getting laid and a guy who calls himself an incel. If your quoted post is to be believed, then you're not per se an incel.

Totally off topic (lol) but I can’t read the phrase “per se” without wanting to slap the shit out of Russell. Carry on.

 

[Stilgar of Troon]

At some point, I did cut off every tie to the community, but I got sucked in again. It is true though, that in moments of mental clarity I do realise that what I am bothered by is not the lack of romantic relationships, but my dissatisfaction with my life.

What are you doing to remedy this dissatisfaction? What areas of your life are making you dissatisfied?

 

[JamusActimus]

At some point, I did cut off every tie to the community, but I got sucked in again. It is true though, that in moments of mental clarity I do realise that what I am bothered by is not the lack of romantic relationships, but my dissatisfaction with my life.

Both are most likely linked.
The best piece of advice I heard a out a relationship is : Having a good relationship is not all about choosing the right person rather how you approach it.

Life is 20 % bad things happening to you but 80% how you deal with it

 

[Agony]

What are you doing to remedy this dissatisfaction? What areas of your life are making you dissatisfied?

Hmmm, I think that I was/am (to a point) consumed by pride, that will/would not let me ask for support or help when I need it. On top of that, I've developed pretty unhealthy mechanisms to cope with bullying and ridicule when I was a kid, due to disability, one of which might have been OCD, which pretty much was going rampant during my teenage years. Thus, I might have lost too much valuable time in ruminating, rather than going out there and try to carve a place in society.

 

[Heckler1]

Hmmm, I think that I was/am (to a point) consumed by pride, that will/would not let me ask for support or help when I need it. On top of that, I've developed pretty unhealthy mechanisms to cope with bullying and ridicule when I was a kid, due to disability, one of which might have been OCD, which pretty much was going rampant during my teenage years. Thus, I might have lost too much valuable time in ruminating, rather than going out there and try to carve a place in society.

Here's a pamphlet you should read/ have your wrangler read to you

 

[Agony]

Both are most likely linked.
The best piece of advice I heard a out a relationship is : Having a good relationship is not all about choosing the right person rather how you approach it.

Life is 20 % bad things happening to you but 80% how you deal with it

They are indeed linked, but the whole inceldom thing is just a symptom after all.

 

[Just A Butt]

Hmmm, I think that I was/am (to a point) consumed by pride, that will/would not let me ask for support or help when I need it. On top of that, I've developed pretty unhealthy mechanisms to cope with bullying and ridicule when I was a kid, due to disability, one of which might have been OCD, which pretty much was going rampant during my teenage years. Thus, I might have lost too much valuable time in ruminating, rather than going out there and try to carve a place in society.

What are your opinions on “&/or”?

 

[Stilgar of Troon]

Hmmm, I think that I was/am (to a point) consumed by pride, that will/would not let me ask for support or help when I need it. On top of that, I've developed pretty unhealthy mechanisms to cope with bullying and ridicule when I was a kid, due to disability, one of which might have been OCD, which pretty much was going rampant during my teenage years. Thus, I might have lost too much valuable time in ruminating, rather than going out there and try to carve a place in society.

What are you good at, that has a potential social aspect involved? Any talents or actual hobbies? That's a faster path to better socialisation (and hence a greater likelihood of getting laid/finding a gf) than the one you appear to be on.