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Nothing that comes from the medieval age should be taken as example. Fuckers thought it was normal to not take showers
 
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https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/81t2tg/what_to_do_if_partners_are_arguing/

Polyamory. Not even once

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https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/81od81/sometimes_people_can_really_hurt_you/

Of course it's never their fault, it always has to be someone elses
 
All the polyamory I've been exposed to personally has been a cover for shitty behavior in a relationship.

Knew some folks, they were engaged. Ended up getting close to a new guy, and the chick went totally nuts for him. Constantly fawning and flirting with him, even confessed to me that she was. It kinda escalated, and the fiancé found out, and was fucking pissed (with good reason). So naturally she suggests a fucking Poly relationship, and they both buy into it.

It was honestly just disgusting, so much virtue signaling and gushing about how great it was to be poly and how much better they were, whatever. They broke up 6 months later, telling me it was because of differences. I ended up finding out it was because the fiancée was constantly focusing entirely on the new toy, leaving her fiancé neglected to the point it was seriously effecting his mental health.

Pretty obvious she simply wanted a new toy without relinquishing her current one.

Anyway I think this reddit exists because discussing this elsewhere would potentially make them face that they're shitty people who only think of themselves over their relationship. Better to post in a poly circlejerk rather than seriously evaluate your behavior.
 
The people I know that do it well are a husband and wife and she has like 3 side boyfriends. The guys are all best friends now and do dumb things together.

They collectively describe it as being like a fraternity where she's the house mom.
 
anondotcom said:
The people I know that do it well are a husband and wife and she has like 3 side boyfriends. The guys are all best friends now and do dumb things together.

They collectively describe it as being like a fraternity where she's the house mom.
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A single mom who brings in a new boyfriend who makes her kids uncomfortable every other month?
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Every time someone comes in this thread and goes "yeah polyamory sucks but this friend of mine does it well, actually" you just gotta impulsively go Sure, Stacy
 
anondotcom said:
The people I know that do it well are a husband and wife and she has like 3 side boyfriends. The guys are all best friends now and do dumb things together.

They collectively describe it as being like a fraternity where she's the house mom.
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how can you value yourself so little to live like that
 
Between that brick wall of a lexicon they use and their habit of referring to their fucktoys with just their initials it feels like I’m reading some absurdly obtuse mathematical problems.
 
Im sure its been discuss before, but how do these people look like?

I always imagine a chubby white person with dye hair and tatoos who talk about these things on the internet.

Are they attractive? Or do they just have really low standards?

Cuz Ive seen people talk about not finding a date, and yet these people can walk out the door and find dozen of girls/guys whose willing to do the deed with them.
 
Fandom Trash said:
Im sure its been discuss before, but how do these people look like?

I always imagine a chubby white person with dye hair and tatoos who talk about these things on the internet.

Are they attractive? Or do they just have really low standards?

Cuz Ive seen people talk about not finding a date, and yet these people can walk out the door and find dozen of girls/guys whose willing to do the deed with them.
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99% of the people I meet who are poly are dumpy, average looking people. The other 1% are attractive, but they're kind of unhinged, dangerhairs.

Both groups need constant, intimate and physical validation from others.
 
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Tfw you get your man stolen by a lesbian and she won't sleep with you either
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Well I know she's not coming here for answers, but she's failing at same-sex relationships because real lesbians tend to avoid getting into situations where they're expected to fuck a girl's husband too. Call me old fashioned, but I think lesbians try to avoid dick in their intimate relationships.

The only "lesbian" and "bisexual" girls you're going to encounter in the poly crowd willing to form a triangle are those that do it for male attention so they can snag yo mans.
 
Ctrl+Alt+Rt said:
Well I know she's not coming here for answers, but she's failing at same-sex relationships because real lesbians tend to avoid getting into situations where they're expected to fuck a girl's husband too. Call me old fashioned, but I think lesbians try to avoid dick in their intimate relationships.

The only "lesbian" and "bisexual" girls you're going to encounter in the poly crowd willing to form a triangle are those that do it for male attention so they can snag yo mans.
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In these cases "bisexual" usually means "making out with other girls because her boyfriend gets turned on by it".
 
Fandom Trash said:
I always imagine a chubby white person with dye hair and tatoos who talk about these things on the internet.
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Minus the dyed hair, this is a perfect description of my friend I mentioned earlier. Her ex-fiance from over a decade ago got her started on it, and he was a chubby, balding, pasty dude. (He's also a pedophile, but I'm not gonna go :offtopic: here.) Her current fiance? Yup, chubby and white.

I love her dearly, but her life is always in shambles and I feel like this is sort of a coping mechanism to avoid facing her problems. I can't help but wonder if that's a common theme with these poly folks.
 
kwyjibo said:
Minus the dyed hair, this is a perfect description of my friend I mentioned earlier. Her ex-fiance from over a decade ago got her started on it, and he was a chubby, balding, pasty dude. (He's also a pedophile, but I'm not gonna go :offtopic: here.) Her current fiance? Yup, chubby and white.

I love her dearly, but her life is always in shambles and I feel like this is sort of a coping mechanism to avoid facing her problems. I can't help but wonder if that's a common theme with these poly folks.
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I didn’t know @A Hot Pizza was a pedofile. So now I know to not only prank order pizza to his house, but also call the fbi or his local pd.
 
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