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BigRuler said:
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9w4tpu/my_wifes_boyfriend_and_my_troubles_with_him/
http://archive.is/YojWI

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I'd say the wife is worse than the troon here. I can understand his troonism ruining their relationship and causing her to search for someone else. Hell, if it was just her, the troon and Charles, I wouldn't be as mad. But if she's letting a sociopathic, drug-dealing, parasitic prostitute live in the same house as her kids, and actively choosing him over her husband, then she's scum and the bigger degenerate. A troon is bad, but Charles here sounds like a budding child molester/serial-killer.

For the sake of the children, I hope that both them, and the husband gets the hell out of there.
 
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Tanner Glass said:
Skimming for content on the subreddit I was able to find a full polyamory journey for one man, let's see how it works out for him.

Starting 3 years ago on an Online Affair subreddit (wtf?) https://www.reddit.com/r/OnlineAffa...f_being_ignored_even_today_being_my_birthday/ (http://archive.is/NKr6b)




Rocky marriage, three kids. Already starting off on a high point.

Two years later it looks like then went from kind of swinging to full on poly, although the wife didn't take to it initially.
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/7u4t01/partner_is_having_a_hard_time_with_this_all/ (http://archive.is/9t531)



So, he has a side chick now and he is working out the issues with his wife - a happy ending?

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/8f5cos/anyone_else_run_into_these_feelings/ (http://archive.is/D6XjV) - 6 months later


https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/87uax4/dating/ (http://archive.is/ltwU4) - same time



So it looks like it isn't exactly working out, but at least his wife is mono?

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9hj6wm/brick_wall_after_brick_wall/ (http://archive.is/OYMiQ) - 1 month ago






https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9p2u3t/effort/(http://archive.is/GBIKc) - today


TL;DR - Guy was willing to cheat on his wife, turned it into poly so he could get more needed love and affection. This did not happen as his wife and LDGF ignore him frequently especially as the wife now has two extra boyfriends that she is super happy with.

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Sounds like NTR hentai, protag wants to be happy with his special other only for the other to be more happy than him. This guy truley, fucked up especially when the wife was very much against from the beginning. What a loser.
 
Zaragoza said:
Yup, tell me if the husband truly feels happy with his wife's poly choice.
https://youtube.com/watch?v=g3P3h2AgIMk
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This to me just makes it seem like they are just using a crutch to prop up a failing relationship. Both Jerry and Gretchen seem like they are being strung along while justifying to themselves why this is OK. It seems like only one party is getting to enjoy themselves while the other just gets to watch. Sad really that people can be such doormats to others.
 
BigRuler said:
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>Bay Area

Well, that’s basically the entire explanation for this in only two words
 
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A couple I somewhat know (and avoid as much as possible) found a long-distance poly gf. They're hoping she'll eventually divorce her husband and move here to live as their sisterwife in an Onision-style holy trinity, as her being committed to someone other than them isn't "ideal," but they'll put up with it for the sake of the puss. I am very skeeved out.
 
anondotcom said:
A couple I somewhat know (and avoid as much as possible) found a long-distance poly gf. They're hoping she'll eventually divorce her husband and move here to live as their sisterwife in an Onision-style holy trinity, as her being committed to someone other than them isn't "ideal," but they'll put up with it for the sake of the puss. I am very skeeved out.
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Yeah that sounds like it's going to end well
 
BigRuler said:
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9woy7r/i_keep_getting_sexually_accepted_but_emotionally/
http://archive.is/PWbTm
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Meanwhile, her husband "who is more like a friend than a lover" is probably having the saddest drunken wank and thinking of killing himself. It's just the price you pay for having more progressive, higher-level relationships than the normies next door.
 
A lot of them say 'I live in a rural area' or something along those lines. Well, maybe you need to move. That's what they tell the gays to do!

I think women like her think men are only interested in sex and want a girlfriend as a means to consistently get sex.

Also, I would imagine if they're in the same age range as her (so late 20s-mid 30s), and they live in a rural area, there's at least some expectation to have kids at some point.

Someone in the comments has a good point: stop fucking these guys.

edit: also, this bad quote:
Non-poly men want "ownership" of your relationship. When they say my girlfriend they want sole custody. It's a very common insecurity most people carry.
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It's not insecurity, it's called being monogamous. Guys who don't let their girlfriend have male friends, sure, insecure, guys who don't let their girlfriend have other boyfriends, not insecure.
 
BigRuler said:
https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9xcpn5/lopsided_results_from_newly_opened_marriage_my/
http://archive.is/42uZi
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the classic - guy gets talked into opening his marriage, wife goes on to fuck tons of strangers while he sits at home alone in misery.

there are so many of these stories, and almost all of them could have easily been avoided if these guys had just had the spine to stand up for themselves and say no.
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I like it more when the guy convinces his wife to open the relationship and she gets all the dates.
Owlflaps said:
Is there any story on r/polyamory where people are happy?
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Do happy people use reddit in general?
 
Well, when you define yourself as an intersection of unusual characteristics and won't identify with anything outside of that intersection, this is the usual result. Can this idiot not math?
 
AprilRains said:
Well, when you define yourself as an intersection of unusual characteristics and won't identify with anything outside of that intersection, this is the usual result. Can this idiot not math?
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That’s the thing, when you realize that in group collectivism you have many overlapping individuals, you come up with intersectionality to account for that.

But then, if you were to go all the way down, intersecting every single category that you fall into, you come to the individual.

But being an individual doesn’t fit with being part of a collective, so we’re forced to exist in a state of not being “intersectional” enough while also smothering anything not homogenous.

It doesn’t make any sense and it never ends.
 
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Let's take a look at the top post right now on r/polyamory:

"Queer poly couch cuddles with me (pink mohawk) and 4 of my 5 partners; including my nesting partner & husband (laying down), long-distance boyfriend visiting for the weekend (wearing the hat), and two local boyfriends (including the one with a nose ring, making a face)"

Try to guess the expression OP has on this photo before opening the spoiler

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Sperglord Dante said:
Let's take a look at the top post right now on r/polyamory:

"Queer poly couch cuddles with me (pink mohawk) and 4 of my 5 partners; including my nesting partner & husband (laying down), long-distance boyfriend visiting for the weekend (wearing the hat), and two local boyfriends (including the one with a nose ring, making a face)"

Try to guess the expression OP has on this photo before opening the spoiler

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Reminder - this man is so poly and gay that he made and maintains a map of how poly and gay he is.

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/9f141f/our_current_poly_constellation_38_interconnected/
 
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