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Why on earth would she think that that, of all things, is the best solution??

If you've been fucking your boyfriend for years and suddenly stop, and he goes and starts fucking someone else, that's not saving the relationship, just acknowledging it's over.
 

Hmm, no other comments by that user. Nothing else at all. I think I smell a troll.

Interesting that you guys think she's going Christian, by the way. I'm not aware of too many Christian women who would be okay with their men acquiring a throwaway side-piece. But this age is adulterous and deviant-affirming so I guess it's possible she's going to "focus" on some sort of bizarre half-assed Christian-ish episode that accomplishes nothing but terminating her emotional fling with religion...and with her man.
 
I'm not a religious scholar, but I'm pretty sure that you can't have pre-marital sex constantly for at least 5 years and then stop and have it still count as "respecting the religion/institute of marriage" - doubly so if your solution to the problem is polyamory.

There's certainly precedent for the attempt but considering I highly doubt Margery is her inspiration and even old Madge was accused of heresy for her beliefs, OP doesn't have a leg to stand on.
 
The only way this would be slightly reasonable is if she converted and wants to hold out for a coming, soon to be here, get us married RIGHT NOW so we're no longer fornicating marriage. But it's not, so this is a breakup with a religion-flavored sideshow :story:
 
https://old.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/ahisw5/girlfriend_got_a_new_partner/
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Same guy in the comments:

"Polysaturated", ahahaha. If one person can't meet your needs and a harem also can't meet your needs, then maybe the problem is you.

Being poly is unhealthy, you should be monounsaturated instead.
 

The hidden humor in these posts is just how quickly the cucks pick up the language of their abusers. We constantly see people who have just caught their partner cheating talking about NRE, nesting partners, etc.

In this case the poor guy is saying “she likes it better when she’s only dating me”. No, sweetie, that’s the exact opposite of what’s happening, but she’s got your head completely twisted and shoved up your own ass.

God, we need to schedule a fucking intervention for these people. Then again, we are the hate site.... so I’m sure these people are being well taken care of by reddit.
 
"She is monogamous so she doesn't want to turn to other people for sex, but if I'm just having sex with her because she is unfulfilled it's not the same as if I wanted to have sex with her because I enjoy it so much. I still want to have sex with her, because she still meets some sexual needs that go unmet with secondary, but some needs that were originally met by primary are now met by secondary so primary feels like she doesn't get enough sex now."


These people are like a 24/7 camera inside of a 15 year old's brain. It's just sex, sex, sex as much as possible. At least the 15 year olds have the excuse of going through puberty...:heart-empty:
 

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Fat, married, sterile woman cheats on husband w/ KIK, claims she's poly and blames the reason she needs to see other men on how he deals with stress. Says he must go to therapy. They are in the final stages of adoption. "What should I do?"

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/ahbrso/after_12_years_wife_is_claiming_to_be_poly_and_i/ (archive)

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God what a fucking cunt.
"I need the sexting and refuse to give it up." OP, get the fuck out of there. Poly my ass, she's coming up with any excuse in the book to keep cheating on you. And bringing a child into that mess? What a nightmare. Lord.
 
God what a fucking cunt.
"I need the sexting and refuse to give it up." OP, get the fuck out of there. Poly my ass, she's coming up with any excuse in the book to keep cheating on you. And bringing a child into that mess? What a nightmare. Lord.
While I can kinda see that sexting here might be symptoms of depression caused by tress of infertility, it’s still shitty thing to do. Many women do feel like they are failing as women if they can’t get pregnant. Sexting might help with that feeling, that at least I’m sexy and as such valuable as a woman. But like I said it’s still shitty thing to do because it’s bearly above cheating. Just not cool and I advice the guy to get ready to split up. Not because of sexting but because she immediately placed the blame on him. That’s the true red flag. If she had been generally something like embarrassed and remorseful, then there is definitely something to work with. If her explanation was about her and not him like, like that their situation is so stressful that she looked for any outlet and this had been working for her. If I was in the guy’s shoes I would put an ultimatum, eather she goes to therapy or it’s over. I would be willing to see this as cry for help but if she isn’t willing to get help then it’s better to cut losses. You really don’t want raise kids with anyone who isn’t willing to take responsibility for their own bad behavior.
 
I always wonder what the other guy is like. You know, the one who isn't running to Reddit to whine.

Could it be Virgin Redditor vs Chad Other Dude?

I Imagine it goes like this.

Girl starts seeing the redditor >Husband feels like shit
Girl starts seeing the other guy >Redditor feels like shit
Girl starts seeing ANOTHER guy >Other guy feels like shit OR Other guy stops being so serious with girl > Girl feels like shit

In these Poly relationships it seems like there is always (at least) one person being hurt at anytime, it just goes in a cycle.
 
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Fat, married, sterile woman cheats on husband w/ KIK, claims she's poly and blames the reason she needs to see other men on how he deals with stress. Says he must go to therapy. They are in the final stages of adoption. "What should I do?"

https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/ahbrso/after_12_years_wife_is_claiming_to_be_poly_and_i/ (archive)

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Imagine being so selfish that you'd risk your 12 year long marriage and the possibility of being able to adopt your foster child just so you can keep sexting other people.

Even the other redditors think this is awful.
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