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- Dec 18, 2019
The fact that adopting the kid out is even being considered enough to ask for advice is horrifying, but I'm interested to know if OP's posted anything else about this relationship.this week in wildly selfish poly drama
Imagine finding out your parents gave you up for adoption so they could keep fucking your dad's wife without any complications like the child they gave birth to.
It's interesting that the only background she gives is that this couple has been married and trying to conceive for five years. Does she mention how long she's been involved with them anywhere? Was this a planned pregnancy? I could see this being an accident and the wife reacting badly to it, but this is r/polyamory so I could also see it as the husband and OP just deciding hey, let's have a kid without thinking it through. The way she says that they mentioned therapy and medication to the wife rubs me the wrong way, as does her saying she wants this woman to be a third parent. You really think, after trying to have her own kid for half a decade, that she's going to be totally fine helping raise the child her husband had with some skank who invaded her marriage?
Anyway, I highly doubt any of the people in this situation would be suitable parents. What's the comment section like?

