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Canine with Fangs said:
Literally 100 percent of your thoughts and emotions are emergent results of your instincts processing your surroundings.
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No, most of our thoughts and how we handle our emotions are the result of having huge brains that contain sectors for strong, long term memory. Humans perform mostly learned actions. Other animals either don't have these parts developed in their brains, or they're much smaller (like the frontal lobe).

"Instinctual" means the action doesn't require previous experiences or learning for the animal to start doing it. You don't know what "instinct" means.
 
BubbleButt said:
The people who convinced my best friend and his wife to consider polyamory are apparently getting a divorce over an argument over their own polyamorous relationshit. Found that hilarious.
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Wow, it lasted a year exactly.

This always happens. I don't understand how they don't see it coming. As somebody said a few pages ago, your partner saying they want to open the relationship means everything's over. The only way I can see poly couples work is if there's no love involved or if they're autistic enough to don't react when they're getting cucked.
 
It’s also that someone who wants to abuse children is more likely to go out with someone who has them, just as they are also more likely to become a teacher or counselor or priest so they can have access.

I feel like gay men are marginally more likely to have successful throuples, but I also think that while gay men are way more likely to have an open relationship they’re overwhelmingly not poly.
 
Bunny Tracks said:
It's natural to be jealous, but it shouldn't lead you to abusing your spouse's children just because they're not yours. Anyone who does that shouldn't be breeding in the first place.
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Uh... You don't have to breed to abuse kids that aren't yours. A lot of these guys are, in fact, not breeding.
 
Also even if there is no abuse, it’s not good for adults to be in and out of children’s lives. It creates insecure attachment. This is why divorced people are recommended to not introduce new partners to the kids for at least a year.
 
Love how they just admit they only agreed to get cheated on because they're fatties who can be placated with free food. Case in point:

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Screenshot_20200831-053710.png From what I get reading this thread, your main sin is molesting children.
Screenshot_20200831-054054.png Why is one really fat and the other so skinny?
Screenshot_20200831-054846.png That's even more pathetic than regular polyamory tbh.
 
Cross posting from the reddit general thread, I think this fits here

tl;dr:, child of polyamory parents has a melt down over his parents saying "you turned out fine" and asking kid to be in a polyamory documentary (lol) The child actually feels like his parents didn't care, and basically fucked up his youth by sleeping around and being giga-sluts.

From the national file: "Redditor Asks Internet Whether It’s Okay to be Mad at Polyamorous Parents for Ruining His Youth" :stress:
A Redditor has asked the internet whether it’s okay to have blown up at his polyamorous parents for “ruining his childhood.”
The post in question came from Reddit’s “Am I The Asshole” (AITA) subreddit, described as the place for “catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us,” where users ask the community whether they were the asshole or not in a given situation.


The Redditor, who didn’t give his age, posted that the polyamorous situation with his parents had started since he was around 6 years old. “One day I was outside playing, got hurt and when I ran inside caught my parents making out with some random guy,” he wrote. “They told me they have other adults that they love and it’s a completely normal thing. Me being a child just accepted that.”


After a while, his parents stopped being secretive and began being far more open with their relationship. “I never saw them doing anything explicit again but they would kiss their partners, hug them make flirty comments, something that would be normal between parents but with many more people,” he added, noting that even though his parents knew he hated it, they simply told him it was a normal adult thing.

READ MORE: Polyamorous Man Celebrated by Media Now Charged With Abusing Infant


Now being an adult, his parents informed him that they were going to take part in a documentary about polyamory, and wanted an interview with him to prove it “doesn’t mess kids up.” He broke down and “yelled that the truth is it did f*ck me up and they shouldn’t have had a child if their number one priority was f*cking the whole world.”


Most Redditors in the comments voted “NTA” (Not The Asshole). “NTA, do not back down and allow them to get you to recant, OP,” one wrote. “Notice that they said ‘we’re sorry you feel this way,’ not ‘we’re sorry for doing xyz.’ They gave you a non-apology. For making your childhood basically a wallflower to an orgy, no less.”

“NTA. Really? They would leave complete strangers in the house without them for you to come home to?” one continued. “They made their sex lives front and center and their priority. Any child would resent that.”

READ MORE: REDDIT: Coronavirus is Making Cuckoldry More Difficult

Others still tried to defend polyamory in the comments, claiming that “having a committed poly partner who is not a stranger and is known to you” wouldn’t have had the same effect.


You can read the post in full below:



And here is the original reddit post
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The poly people in that thread make me mad. I mean if I a monogamous person can say that a shitty person doing monogamy badly is still monogamous why can't they say the same about their polyamory? Every bad polyamory is automatically not polyamory in their eyes because a shitty person does it and they don't do that thing so it's not real polyamory. They're dumb af and I bet they're children will say about the same thing about them when they get older and move out.
 
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Buer said:
The poly people in that thread make me mad. I mean if I a monogamous person can say that a shitty person doing monogamy badly is still monogamous why can't they say the same about their polyamory? Every bad polyamory is automatically not polyamory in their eyes because a shitty person does it and they don't do that thing so it's not real polyamory. They're dumb af and I bet they're children will say about the same thing about them when they get older and move out.
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It's just endless fucking cope.
 
I cant even comprehend bringing a child into a polyamorous relationship. The most easily preventable threat to a child‘s safety is an adult man who is not related to them living in their home. Even if all the other partners are women, those kids will still be at a hugely heightened level of risk for abuse, not to mention how unstable the family dynamic would be. No one who would consider doing that should ever be a partent.
 
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