- Joined
- Jun 19, 2020
I have a sneaking suspicion he won't go down on his wife and he's unforgivably bad at sex. I noticed he did not mention anything about "I asked my wife why she won't fuck me, and this is what she said."
There has go to be something going on that killed the bedroom, which he's avoiding. Maybe he let himself go and is fat now. Maybe his hygiene has gotten awful. Maybe he makes no effort to be sexy and fashionable. Maybe he doesn't take his wife out on dates. Maybe his wife is depressed. Maybe his kinks are disgusting. Whatever it is, he didn't "learn" he's poly. He came to the conclusion poly might be good because the bedroom is dead and he wants sex.
I wonder if they have kids. Taking care of the kids, doing household chores, or having to do not only that but also having a job - all while the guy works the same amount of hours in his job but has his free time all for himself once he gets home. Damn, even if they don't have kids but she's still expected to have a job and do the household chores on her own while he sits on his ass doing nothing to help her. It not only drains a woman's energy, but it breeds resentment. And women in general can't be "in the mood" if something is bothering them like that.
Hopefully she will leave him. Regardless of her reasons for not wanting sex with him, I can't imagine how awful it must be to share 15 years of your life - a big part of your youth - with someone you looked forward to spend your whole life with, just to be discarded because you aren't a warm hole to him anymore.
