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I can't say I disagree with the sentiment. With most of the poly weirdos, they don't try to hide that they want it, and some of them even seem to avoid any sort of monogamy because it's "evil" or "oppressive" or whatever, but this thread has numerous examples of people who date someone for over a year, or even get a decade into a marriage with kids, before "coming out" as poly, and it's much harder to run away from someone (even with a huge red flag like that) when you're already invested in a relationship with them. The more of those creeps that stick to their own kind, and don't try to fuck with normal people, the better...
Even if polyamory was that popular, that still wouldnt happen. Poly fucks always need their stable cuck spouses. Just look at r/adultery. It's all part of a strategy. The last thing they want is to keep to their kind because theyd have no one to parasite.
 
I think his logic is something like "someone being into poly is a big red flag for me, so the more of them that are in those stupid little 'polycules', the less likely I'll ever run into that type of person while trying to find a gf. I hope they all keep to their weird little poly circles so that I don't have to put up with them on the normal dating scene."
Except that's not how it works. These people are never satisfied - they're constantly adding new humans like pokemon to the swirling drain that is their narcissism.
 
they're constantly adding new humans like pokemon to the swirling drain that is their narcissism.
I wonder what the cross-over is with polyfags and how it seems so many aspects of Current Year are designed to be digested quickly, easily, and superficially, and then tossed away as quickly as they arrived. Planned obsolescence baked into devices, news, food, vidya - rapid hits of dopamine followed by lows, and then onto the next hit, forgetting about the preceding event. Rinse and repeat. Why wouldn't someone who can't finish a single newspaper story, 23 minute TV show or conversation without checking their phone fifteen times be in a similar position with romantic relationships?

Familiarity breeds contempt but why wait for contempt when boredom sets in long before familiarity can get its pants on?

At the end of the day I still maintain the majority of these people are just losers locked in arrested development who were always on the periphery of normal, stable relationships during formative years and are trying to make up for lost time by whoring around in their adult years long after most people got the sowing of wild oats out of their system and settled down. It's no surprise that a lot of the stories you read are connected to people who lead chaotic, imbalanced lives. Even more horrifying that so many seem to have involved goddamn children into the mix.
 
At the end of the day I still maintain the majority of these people are just losers locked in arrested development who were always on the periphery of normal, stable relationships during formative years and are trying to make up for lost time by whoring around in their adult years long after most people got the sowing of wild oats out of their system and settled down. It's no surprise that a lot of the stories you read are connected to people who lead chaotic, imbalanced lives. Even more horrifying that so many seem to have involved goddamn children into the mix
Children are the ultimate narc fix. The ultimate "cucked spouse" that doesn't leave (usually because they cant until a certain age and many don't when they reach that age either because they have been brainwashed or ended up like many of the cows here). These poly women often love to breed themselves like cows for this reason.
You can literally do anything to them, they cant leave you and in many cases they wont be taken away and no one will give a shit. Unfortunately its just how these things work.
 
The ones I know IRL all seemed to have married quite young, often LDRs with other nerds. Some of them had kids. The relationships weren't built on much beyond infatuation and shared nerd interests and ran their course after a few years, but they don't want to split up and not have the family support structure and convenient childcare. So, polyfuckery occurs. Great for everyone except the children.
 
I saw this artist- she often times does Poly stuff as well as some personal and what not. If you're all interested in more Poly shit og hers i can post but for now where you go
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The ones I know IRL all seemed to have married quite young, often LDRs with other nerds. Some of them had kids. The relationships weren't built on much beyond infatuation and shared nerd interests and ran their course after a few years, but they don't want to split up and not have the family support structure and convenient childcare. So, polyfuckery occurs. Great for everyone except the children.
LDRs?
 
There is nothing wrong with polyamory in theory. It will, however, in practice, fail 9/10. This is not because polyamory itself is wrong or degenerate, but because it requires an INSANE amount of confidence and maturity.

I may be mistaken, so take this with a grain of salt, but a good amount of people don't have the confidence, that is to say that they are not insecure, for monogamy, let alone relationships that involve more than one person.

I may again be mistaken, but I believe that most polyamorous relationships happen with teenagers and very young adults, people who often do not have the self-esteem and maturity to generate long-lasting monogamous relationships, let alone anything else, and then you have all those husbands and wives who are in bad place in their marriage, be it because they have fallen out of love and cannot get themselves to end it all and admit that it was a "waste" of their time or because it should never have gone that far in the first place, people who are most certainly not in the best mental shape when comes to matters of intricate intimate interpersonal relationships.

That is not to say that there aren't huge cunts who just want to get away with cheating, that is certainly true, but then again, those people would likely be giant assholes in any kind of relationship anyway. It is not the polyamory that makes them bad, they are just cunts anyway.
 
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Man that comic makes the main character look delusional. I don't mean because of anything do with poly or kiwi farms' general position on the subject, just the storytelling is so crap that the intended message gets corrupted. Ignoring normal looking people trying to reach you while everything is pink, sparkles, flowers, princess dresses and she is repeating the same sentence. Yeah that makes her look like she trying to ingnore reality rather than just being happy despite others not approving. Ending the comic on a smug thought stopping clishe isn't helping.
 
Man that comic makes the main character look delusional. I don't mean because of anything do with poly or kiwi farms' general position on the subject, just the storytelling is so crap that the intended message gets corrupted. Ignoring normal looking people trying to reach you while everything is pink, sparkles, flowers, princess dresses and she is repeating the same sentence. Yeah that makes her look like she trying to ingnore reality rather than just being happy despite others not approving. Ending the comic on a smug thought stopping clishe isn't helping.
Tbh shw generally has a very preachy tone that does get on my nerves and tbh i can't wait for the inevitable break up soon enough.

I might post more examples if y'all want to.
Edit here's the examples i might double post if any are missing nggg.
 

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What is it with ugly purple/pink color schemes in dumb web comics? Are they color coding stupidity by law?
 
What is it with ugly purple/pink color schemes in dumb web comics? Are they color coding stupidity by law?
Oh god all her comics and art are like that. It makes looking through her art a boring blendy chore.

She also had a comic where she set a couple that had a genuine relantioship issue ( " Maria" had a crush on someone other then her bf "Alejandro") into a latin soap opera ending the comic with the mc saying that she had a crush and acting in a total poly way by supporting in asking for a date.
( here's the link if you don't believe it https://www.instagram.com/p/CDudNOspdM0/?igshid=ukltvdpvo09i )
Maan what a cunt.
Also there gf is nonbinary cuz ofc she is.
 
Oh god all her comics and art are like that. It makes looking through her art a boring blendy chore.

She also had a comic where she set a couple that had a genuine relantioship issue ( " Maria" had a crush on someone other then her bf "Alejandro") into a latin soap opera ending the comic with the mc saying that she had a crush and acting in a total poly way by supporting in asking for a date.
( here's the link if you don't believe it https://www.instagram.com/p/CDudNOspdM0/?igshid=ukltvdpvo09i )
Maan what a cunt.
Also there gf is nonbinary cuz ofc she is.
Kind of ironic of poly fucks to compare a hetero relationship to a latin soap.
 
Oh god all her comics and art are like that.
It's not just her, unless she's also the cartoonist behind that stupid Oh Joy Sex Toy. You know, the one with the condescending comic explaining what a cuck is, as if we didn't think well of it because we didn't know what it meant. Here's a hint, people: We think poorly of it because we do know what it means.
 
What is it with ugly purple/pink color schemes in dumb web comics? Are they color coding stupidity by law?
I think I wrote about this in another thread or this one but it's this juvenile attempt to visually sugar-coat something most people inherently know is deviant. Thus you end up with CalArts-tier stephen universe/scott pilgrim rejects in saccharine colour tones trying to convince mostly themselves that looking inwards and examining what it is about you society is so repulsed by should be ignored in favour of looking at the cartoon characters the schlubby loser your husband is banging permanently etched on her skin.
 
There is nothing wrong with polyamory in theory. It will, however, in practice, fail 9/10. This is not because polyamory itself is wrong or degenerate, but because it requires an INSANE amount of confidence and maturity.

I may be mistaken, so take this with a grain of salt, but a good amount of people don't have the confidence, that is to say that they are not insecure, for monogamy, let alone relationships that involve more than one person.

I may again be mistaken, but I believe that most polyamorous relationships happen with teenagers and very young adults, people who often do not have the self-esteem and maturity to generate long-lasting monogamous relationships, let alone anything else, and then you have all those husbands and wives who are in bad place in their marriage, be it because they have fallen out of love and cannot get themselves to end it all and admit that it was a "waste" of their time or because it should never have gone that far in the first place, people who are most certainly not in the best mental shape when comes to matters of intricate intimate interpersonal relationships.

That is not to say that there aren't huge cunts who just want to get away with cheating, that is certainly true, but then again, those people would likely be giant assholes in any kind of relationship anyway. It is not the polyamory that makes them bad, they are just cunts anyway.
I've seen poly work in my extended social circle, but only in closed systems where essentially everyone has a relationship, or you have a man with two wives.

Like so many other things, the folks who seem to be successful don't make it their entire identity.
 
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