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This thread is a fucking trainwreck holy shit. I can never understand why in the hell people try to justify this poly bullshit so damn much. They're even worse than cheaters. Also how many of these end up in homicide cases cause from what I have read & skimmed it doesn't seem like alot which genuinely surprises me since I expected it alot more.
The cuck cope is insane. They always have the same three or four talking points whenever you point out how weird it is.

"At least she loves me." "Well, I'm the one she comes back to at the ene of the night." "Heh. At least I get laid."

It's the same shit every time.
 
It's funny how polyamorous people are the same type to soapbox about relationship abuse on social media all day long, because having to keep two or more people constantly apprised of your whereabouts and other interactions sure sounds like a humiliating control issue that wouldn't be tolerated in most monogamous relationships.
Likewise, because this mentality boils down all other humans to disposable fucktoys, you would end up with the opposite problem that normal couples sometimes have where your SO gets angry that you have an opposite sex friend because they're worried you might be fucking them. Instead, it seems you'd be faced with suspicion and anger for having a friend who you aren't having sex with. This brings me to one of my biggest annoyances with polyshit, which is that it erases the meaning of friendship. That's pretty self evident so I won't expand on it much, but I'll add that people hold onto friendships because we care about the other person, not because they meet their weekly quota of dicksucking.
 
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"You need longer to groom potential mates."
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"I'm fine. I'm totally fine."

I noticed a pattern of speaking and rationalization with these types. That Tikva Wolf comic does the same thing. IDK if the men do it, but the women have a habit of using oddly academic or "scientific" language. EX: "I checked in with him regularly to assess emotion and jealousy..." or they often emphasize and repeatedly mention that polyamory is "communication heavy."

Like... who the fuck talks like this--even on a post? They do!
She could've easily just said: "I call him about one or twice a week. Sometimes we make plans to meet, but sometimes he just wants to talk." Normal speech. But women who push this polyamory stuff always couch it in such strange psychobabble. Like everyone around them are lab rats, or NPCs...
 
Incredible cognitive dissonance from the poly clan. “I’m sad that my loving partner currently getting plowed by another man took a selfie with him naked in bed and blasted it all over social media.” So are you sad because you got outed as a cuck or have you finally recognized that your woman getting deep dicked by someone who isn’t you might be a bad idea? (I went back and reread and realized she was with another girl. So a tranny, got it.)

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Couldn’t get through this whole supportive comment. The cognitive dissocance was breaking my brain.

“It’s okay that you feel cucked...” Yeah, no shit.

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The update is even more dire. “I called my LOVING POLY PARTER WILL NOT LEAVE ME I SWEAR and she told me that she doesn’t even like her bull and that she’s breaking up with him at the end of the week (after getting dicked down publically some more of course.)” My bad, it’s two girls. He’s plain stupid if he thinks (if this is actually a woman and not a troon) that this girl won’t dump him for an emotionally exhausting pseudo lesbian relationship.)
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The near honesty in the comments on this one is a nice touch. These people are legally retarded.

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I first read “Anotherpolyuser” as “Anotherpolyabuser.” Fitting.
>"I was experiencing lots of gushing"
Ewwwwwwww
 
I read the "advice" in the comments and it's amazing how they just completely misunderstand what this prick is really doing. The last edit gives the game away:
she contends that all she asked was how I would feel if she kissed a girl and I took that and ran with it all the way to open Polly with solar relationships on the outside of our relationship"
Translating from fat redditor, we can clearly see this poor wife mentioned a PG scenario and OP's degenerecy-suppressor short circuited. Both are fat, but wife is one of those who used covid to get their shit together.

She is probably in the best mental health state she has been in years. Body image is always a struggle. We quarantined hard for last 16 months. Both a little heavy than normal.

We never actually opened it. This was all 100% talking and discussion. That is also why I'm so blown out of the water. Like yeah you open it. It goes sideways. The thing implodes because one loves poly the other wants to go back to monogamy I get it. But we never even got that far.

He's mad she's not playing by the rules of the game he decided to play by himself.

Yeah I don't know. Maybe this was our Icarus moment. I'd be lying if I said was intrigued by the possibilities of everything we discussed. Read through the free trial chapters of More than Two and the shit makes sense. Also the NRE is intoxicating. I remember from when I was single many moons ago.
Look at the way he talks about the idea of polyamory, like a kid in a candy store. But we're supposed to believe this discussion arise organically and was actually precipitated by the wife??

. I feel kinda hood winked or duped but I know that is just hurt talking. I'm sad and mad and don't commonly feel either of those emotions. Like she at any time could have said, Nah, not for me. I'm uncomfortable. I would have said "ok cool. Let's not do it. Stay vanilla monogamy. Ez pz.

Lmao you feel hoodwinked or duped?

I don't really know what her real boundaries are. Ever indication she was cool with me being with another girl. Hell in the moment she mentioned us three together and me alternating between them so that they could co-mingle bodily fluids. So I'm thoroughly confused to say the least.

How many indications that she was not happy with this do you think the wife actually put out? 100? 200? Certified mail?

God, I love that the date, who has almost certainly just been rejected by their tinder date for being a fatty, ends with the line "well, I'm still hungry" lmao of course you are!
 
This brings me to one of my biggest annoyances with polyshit, which is that it erases the meaning of friendship. That's pretty self evident so I won't expand on it much, but I'll add that people hold onto friendships because we care about the other person, not because they meet their weekly quota of dicksucking.
It's a juvenile and hormone-addled state-of-being that most people grow out of or quit after they've managed to find someone who puts up with their shit enough to settle down with and start building a long-term life with. The typical retort from them would be that these relationships are sexual and romantic and fulfilling and that they're no different than any other monogamous one, but we all know it's about dicking/getting dicked by strange and trying to justify it post-hoc . For every long-term relationship there's another several goddamn random tinder/OKcupid/whatever hook-ups when you were bored on a Saturday.

I'm at the stage now where I'm more curious about the mindset of a person that knowingly gets involved with the poly-types. I can see some young dude who's excited to get his dick wet and might even be turned on at the idea of cucking some schlub, but the mentality of the sidepiece women fascinates me. I have first-hand knowledge from one(!) of the people I know that's had multiple girls he's been fucking on the side try to pull the 'you should break up with your wife and join me' card, which makes sense considering they've got a shelf life and banging some married dude isn't going to result in a lasting relationship with children and a house.
But women who push this polyamory stuff always couch it in such strange psychobabble. Like everyone around them are lab rats, or NPCs...
Autists don't know how to communicate without sounding like a robot or an impulsive, inarticulate child. The clinical degenerate graduate level lingo is a key aspect of the obnoxiousness that is polyamory.
 
It's a juvenile and hormone-addled state-of-being that most people grow out of or quit after they've managed to find someone who puts up with their shit enough to settle down with and start building a long-term life with. The typical retort from them would be that these relationships are sexual and romantic and fulfilling and that they're no different than any other monogamous one, but we all know it's about dicking/getting dicked by strange and trying to justify it post-hoc . For every long-term relationship there's another several goddamn random tinder/OKcupid/whatever hook-ups when you were bored on a Saturday.

I'm at the stage now where I'm more curious about the mindset of a person that knowingly gets involved with the poly-types. I can see some young dude who's excited to get his dick wet and might even be turned on at the idea of cucking some schlub, but the mentality of the sidepiece women fascinates me. I have first-hand knowledge from one(!) of the people I know that's had multiple girls he's been fucking on the side try to pull the 'you should break up with your wife and join me' card, which makes sense considering they've got a shelf life and banging some married dude isn't going to result in a lasting relationship with children and a house.

Autists don't know how to communicate without sounding like a robot or an impulsive, inarticulate child. The clinical degenerate graduate level lingo is a key aspect of the obnoxiousness that is polyamory.
Those women don't seem very poly to me. Odds are they were already into the guy before this and when they found an opening they went for it. Since he's poly they have nothing holding them back from pursuing him but since they want him and not just sex they try to pressure him to break up with his wife. And him being married and "put together" probably makes him more attractive to them. And as long as he isn't giving them false hope then this behavior is all on them. The mistresses/side chicks at least are fooled into thinking he is in love with them and is going to leave his wife for them.
 
Beta cucks and shecucks definitely share an insecure mindset which leads them to believe polyamory will protect them from betrayal. Just like soycucks say "she's still coming home to me, win win, so epic" their female counterparts cope their way into polyamory because "he would have been cheating anyway, at least now I will be aware of it". Of course, that mostly applies to the main/original partners, and I also fail to see any motivations for sidepiece girls beyond security, resources, or possibly that they think it's a less embarassing way to be a ho.
 
absolutely. you can tell from the babyface. probably pre-testosterone or barely started using it.
also this polyamory shit is a big reason that i'm just not interested in dating anymore. people are too obsessed with sex, sex, sex. it's depressing.
Dont worry fam, the ace/queerplatonic poly community has your back! Which is to say, autists who do not understand what "friends" are.
 
I'm at the stage now where I'm more curious about the mindset of a person that knowingly gets involved with the poly-types. I can see some young dude who's excited to get his dick wet and might even be turned on at the idea of cucking some schlub, but the mentality of the sidepiece women fascinates me. I have first-hand knowledge from one(!) of the people I know that's had multiple girls he's been fucking on the side try to pull the 'you should break up with your wife and join me' card, which makes sense considering they've got a shelf life and banging some married dude isn't going to result in a lasting relationship with children and a house.
I can only assume it's the thrill of the hunt, there are some women who get a huge ego boost from luring a man away from his wife. They think it proves how irresistible they are, but it only proves that he was of poor character in the first place and the wife is better off without him.

It doesn't make sense in a planning for the future sort of way, because in that case sense is you lose them how you win them. It makes sense in a "I have low self esteem but if this guy pays attention to me instead of the woman he married I can convince myself I'm better than her" way.
 
That's a "female to male", right?
absolutely. you can tell from the babyface. probably pre-testosterone or barely started using it.
also this polyamory shit is a big reason that i'm just not interested in dating anymore. people are too obsessed with sex, sex, sex. it's depressing.
"Enby" + "Poly" + "site:tiktok.com" =


 
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Does anyone else have flashes of rationality where they think maybe treating abandonment issues with partners who only want to be around when we're fucking is a bad idea?
 
Ah yes poly or I call it cheating just with extra steps. I knew someone that I consider my lolcow that was in poly and her cuck of a husband was ok with it. Like ok fine enjoy your wife dating mainly like underage boys like in their late teens.
 
Genuine friendship is impossible to maintain with those poly tards, they're toxic assholes who reason only in terms of who they can sleep with the most and when they can start fucking. Sooner or later one of them is going to try to poon you, and it will poison your social circle until you cut ties for good.
 
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