UK Primary school uses trans actor as positive example of masculinity - Elliott Page shows that being a man ‘can mean softness and strength, and everything in between’

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Patrick Sawer
Senior News Reporter
19 July 2025 7:30pm BST


A primary school has held up a trans man as a positive example of masculinity in teaching materials for its pupils.

Streatham Wells School, in south-west London, said Elliott Page, the Canadian actor who medically transitioned with cross-sex hormones along with gender surgery and now identifies as a man, showed that masculinity “can mean softness and strength”.

The school used the example of Page, along with the singer Harry Styles, to show children how men can be multi-dimensional. Page, who starred in Juno, Inception and X-Men, publicly came out as gay in 2014 and as transgender in 2020, using the pronouns he/they.

In an article for the online newsletter Teachwire, Sarah Wordlaw, the head teacher, wrote about her school’s efforts to tackle issues such as toxic masculinity and violence against women.

‘We need to encourage empathy’​

She wrote: “It is important to teach pupils about harmful stereotypes about masculinity. However, if the first time we teach and name masculinity is calling it toxic, that could do more damage than good to our boys.

“It is extremely important to teach about positive masculinities. We need to encourage empathy, kindness, showing emotions, listening to alternative points of view and developing emotional literacy.

“Undoing the deeply ingrained gender stereotypes in our society takes time. It’s certainly not a quick fix. We have seen a significant improvement in children’s awareness of key issues surrounding gender equality. They know how to use their voice to advocate for others.”

‘To be a man is not to be simply one thing’​

Ms Wordlaw added: “Moving forward, we are going to continue to work on representation in our curriculum. This is not just representation of the amazing, strong women who have shaped global history, but also representation of positive masculinity.

“We need to show that to be a man is not to be simply one thing. To do so, we highlight well-known figures such as Harry Styles and Elliot Page. They show that masculinity can mean softness and strength, and everything in between.”

However, some educational professionals have suggested that holding up a trans man as a positive example of masculinity might undermine the intended message that biological men can be gentle and caring.

Streatham Wells Primary and the Charter Schools Educational Trust, which runs the school, were approached for comment.
 
We need to show that to be a man is not to be simply one thing
Well it sort of is; an adult male, where male is of the mating type who potentially produce sperm, the smaller mobile gamete in humans.
You can hold up all sorts of men as role models. Explorers, surgeons, firemen, men in caring roles. Fathers, Men who save kittens, if you want softer men? There are loads.
Just not harry styles because he’s done nothing whatsoever of note. Or Ellen page, because she’s a girl.
 
Instead of just allowing real men to have emotions other than anger and allow them to cry, here's a damaged little girl as your example of "what it means to be a man". HOORAY PROGRESS

I want to vomit. If there's any justice in this world, the whole of the UK will burn in holy fire taking out the trannies, mudslime invaders, and progressive enablers on one go
 
I don't know what's with Elliot Page. She's always looking like she's close to having a depressive episode every time I see her. No matter how she's dressed, no matter how she's smiling; everything. She really does look Cillian Murphy if he was a trans man instead. You think if I was one of the kids looking at Elliot Page with how frail and well, downright neutral, she looks, you think I'm gonna take her advice and think "Yeah, she's a perfect example of what it means for masculinity!"?

I'm sorry, Elliot (and Harry Page), but you two are the last bastion of what being masculine is and all you're doing is setting up a terrible example to these kids. Being masculine doesn't just mean being soft, it means being able to control your emotions while still letting them out. Being "soft" shouldn't mean looking like or being a soyboy.

Being "soft" should mean keeping your emotions regulated without letting them bottle up for too long. Being able to cry and be less than a stereotypical macho man while still letting people know you ARE a man. To trust who you want to express your vulnerabilities to. Not... whatever they try to slam in to these kids heads. They deserve better, actual role models that just don't tell them to wear girly skirts in front of strangers or to trauma dump in front of said stranger.

They've hard-coded manipulated empathy, kindness and any basic human function related to showing compassion for the unfortunate or people generally. This godforsaken community is the most toxic, backwards example of what being empathetic and kind is.

To them, being empathetic and kind means accepting anyone and anything without question. You don't want to lose everything you worked hard for, internalized bigot? Right? Then heed our warped views of basic compassion and understanding so you can spend the rest of your life sucking the leftist dogma and being the good little future Democrat voter!
 
The thing is, they are teaching young boys to seek the approval of women, which will not work out well for them. Women don't like simps. They should be seeking the approval of older good men, once they have that, the women will like them too.

No-one is telling firemen that it is ok to not want to run into burning buildings, "just say that you are too scared, have a good cry, and remember that we love you for the coward you are, it is a perfectly acceptabe way to be a man!"
 
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