My take on the situation is that Heidi is the worst person in it.
Jared is a perverted dumbass (like most men, especially in his situation). Everything about him screams that he thinks only with his dick yet I vehemently refuse to believe the "underaged"stories. Every single person here should know better than to believe anons coming out of the woodwork making excuses for why they can't provide proof piggy backing off of a controversy instead of exposing him years ago. It's the Vic Micnogna situation all over again.
Holly is a despicable slut. Asexual while married? Blatantly cheating on her husband at the drop of a hat? Ross wtf man get some game, you're supposed to filter out this kind of nonsense in the first few weeks of dating. Only reason you should marry a whore with no morals is if she's a 10/10 with millions of dollars. The classic beta bucks red flag is your girl suddenly not being sexual with you as if she doesn't have the same overpowering hormones as everyone else.
Now we're back to Heidi. So let me get this straight:
-heidi was openly dating other people first
-claimed to be perfectly okay with ProJared and Holly fucking (who cares if she's married apparently)
-somehow doesn't notice that Jared specifically avoids her kinky texts about the mystery guy (why is he dancing around saying "yes I want him to watch us fuck"? Answer: because she's into it and he's not. )
-Heidi has refused to talk about how many partners she had or the boyfriend she had because it's "not important."
- Heidi didn't want to breathe a word of polyamory or being open until called out despite it changing the story
Edit: - Heidi claims to have unilaterally shut down the poly/open part of their relationship the second she didn't like it against Jareds wishes. So who was in control here?
- Heidi claims Jared is abusive showing no proof ever but there's tons of proof posted by both herself and Holly of Heidi absolutely flipping out at both of them.
(Is that screenshot of Jared ignoring Heidi while she's talking about the kinky shit she wants to do with the other guy proof that Jared ignores her to the point of abuse? Is Jared not responding for 4 hours because he was on a date she knew about proof?)
-the only evidence ever shown of a "lack of transparency" is Heidi flipping out that jared didn't text her back for a couple of hours while he was on a date
-Heidi is the first to post about the divorce on Facebook but then suddenly goes off on jared for posting about it on twitter?
-Heidi planned to ruin all their lives ahead of time in Hollys screencaps and indirectly admitted to those screencaps being real.
- Heidi boasts about gaining clout and followers
- Heidi fucking talks about stealing from Jared then planning to mock him about the shit she stole from him
-Heidi tweeted that she's entitled to 50% of the earned income... After tweeting about being insecure about what she does because Jared makes all the money and he's way bigger than her.
The Crux of the issue here is that Heidi tried her hardest to ruin a mans life because she felt scorned, then she celebrates her profits and proof comes out that this whole thing is her fault (she was dating other people then encouraged him to do the same) and her own fucking hyprocrisy (it's not okay for him to fuck anyone even with permission apparently)
I ain't gonna condemn a guy for fucking bitches because I understand his motivations. "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone" (lets not pretend that jared is the only guy who thinks with his dick.) but I'm certainly going to condemn someone for publically ruining her husbands life and being thirsty for his money when she started the mess to begin with.
