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[Robert James]

AITA for refusing to buy my pregnant wife alcohol?

r/AmItheAsshole - AITA for refusing to buy my pregnant wife alcohol?

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Top comment and quite a few other replies say YTA

Listen kids with fetal alcohaul syndrome are easier to take care of if she causes the clump of cells enough damage that it may be a cripple she can just vacuum it out and try again. The father is definately the asshole in this situation since the baby isn't even his to begin with so he has no say in it at all.

My question is how much of an autistic fidora tipper do you have to be to wonder if telling your wife no you can't drink when pregnant is in anyway an asshole reaction. I could kind of get it if they were both drinkers and she's abstaining for pregnancy but he isn't but that's not the situation. Point is Jamal's baby is going to be the kid with the single mother that shows up to all his games drunk and trying to pick up a new dady.

 

[Buer]

AITA for refusing to buy my pregnant wife alcohol?

r/AmItheAsshole - AITA for refusing to buy my pregnant wife alcohol?

2,144 votes and 1,282 comments so far on Reddit

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Top comment and quite a few other replies say YTA

Jesus they're trying to correlate not allowing pregnant women to drink alcohol with lack of medical testing of drugs on women. And they linked the fucking guardian too. These wine moms are dumb. Most doctors say it's better safe than sorry when you're pregnant/trying to conceive. But that won't stop reddit from trying to relate everything to misogyny and it gaining a bunch of upvotes and awards for it. Like if you want to drink so much wait until the child is born(or maybe not if you breastfeed but I don't know a lot about that stuff so don't take my word for it) to become an alcoholic.

 

[knightlautrec]

Like if you want to drink so much wait until the child is born(or maybe not if you breastfeed but I don't know a lot about that stuff so don't t

It's genuinely frowned upon to drink or smoke or hell, do most medications during breastfeeding too. If you DO happen to drink, you'll need to express miłk and dump it. Don't give your baby booze miłk. It's like, why risk it? You already spent 9 months growing this kid and they've statistically got 70 plus years left in them from the point you push them out. Don't cripple them mentally before they get out the fucking gate of life.

As some sane commenters have said, they can't run practical tests on the effects of alcohol on different fetus stages because that's fairly unethical. So suck it up buttercup for 9 months and learn to enjoy juice and soft drinks you wine-os.

 

[ObeseScreamingBlackMan]

A better name for that subreddit would be r/judgedbykaren.

 

[Hollywood Hulk Hogan]

AITA for refusing to buy my pregnant wife alcohol?

r/AmItheAsshole - AITA for refusing to buy my pregnant wife alcohol?

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Top comment and quite a few other replies say YTA

"YTA for not wanting to contribute to FAS!"

 

[Donovan the Man]

AITA for telling a trans man "I'm definitely a woman" after they joke…

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Sure enough this post got trannies triggered.

There is a lot of crossover with the JustNo subs, they start in AITA and get redirected to JNMIL.
I just saw a comment saying that someone got banned from JustnoMIL for offering up proof of the opposite of what the OP was claiming. That user got told that the sub isn't a place to 'show off' in.

It's not surprising that there are more and more comments from deadset exceptional individuals, now that so many users are in both subs.

I remember one wedding post on AITA where OP’s pregnant sister wanted their wedding. It then morphed into ungodly shit-that-didn’t-happened when the OP moved the story to r/entitledparents. OP forgot the sister was 5 months pregnant, in the final chapter the sister got tackled so OP had to save face and edit in that the sister was lying about the pregnancy after peopled began questioning the story. r/Entitledparents is absolute cancer with the same stories over and over again. How many stories about some kid wants to play with OP’s switch, eat their food, or steal their dog do you need?

 

[The Splat]

r/Entitledparents is absolute cancer with the same stories over and over again. How many stories about some kid wants to play with OP’s switch, eat their food, or steal their dog do you need?

r/Entitledparents is literally the textbook definition of events-that-didn’t-happened. Do you really want me to believe someone would actually ask a stranger for their expensive toy and if they don't get it, they take it?

 

[spencer reid]

r/AmItheAsshole - AITA for telling my friends that a former friend and classmate of ours has an Onlyfans?

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"AITA for telling my friends that a former friend and classmate of ours has an Onlyfans?" Got mostly YTA

In the edit the OP writes

The most common complaint is that we're all a buncha slut shamming misogynists and I wanted to address it.

Not what happened, we mainly talked about her looks, questioning whether she really makes money off of it cause she isn't the most attractive. And we also called people who'd pay for her idiots, which I suppose is also an attack on her, but not what I'm accused of here.

And we also made jokes about how she misses out boy so much that no one else compares and she had to turn the tables on men entirely. Mark refused that he ever submitted to her, so we assumed that's being a Domme is a new development for her.

I also made various penis envy jokes. That was more or less it. We weren't the classiest, but we did not shame her for selling her body.

Also, to the people wishing for my mother and girlfriend to learn their son/partner is a poof or something, I'm afraid I'll disappoint you lot. I'm into feet. That's my vice. She posted on a foot-related subreddit, that's how I found her. My friends obviously asked how I found the profile and I had to come clean, so I did get my fair share of taunts about liking feet. My girl knows, my mother probably won't give a shit if she ever finds out. Sorry.

I recognize I have some part of the blame here (hard not to after 12833 YTA's), I just wanted to clarify some things that people obviously missed.

Carry on.

r/DeuxRAMA - Foids seething that footcel dare expose one of them

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[Gingervitis]

r/AmItheAsshole - AITA for telling my friends that a former friend and classmate of ours has an Onlyfans?

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"AITA for telling my friends that a former friend and classmate of ours has an Onlyfans?" Got mostly YTA

In the edit the OP writes

r/DeuxRAMA - Foids seething that footcel dare expose one of them

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How is any of this his fault?

Reddit: Not Even Once

 

[Buer]

^Because gossiping is bad even though just about everyone does it to some degree. How that girl thought no one she knew was going to find out about her Onlyfans account is beyond me. Also I bet the posters are seething that nothing's going to happen to OP because of this. His gf doesn't even seem to care that he has a foot fetish lol.

 

[Banditotron]

Don't make a living selling your nudes if you wouldn't want all your friends to know.

 

[Slimy Time]

Thread locked because of anti tranny complaining...

Sure this wasn't Chris chan or David Sherratt doing this?

 

[Nephi]

I'm surprised to see that lesbian Pajeet wasn't banned for "genital preferences" as those are apparently transphobic.

 

[The Splat]

Number of "What's that, you have a job and do majority of the housework and happened to be stressed too? Fuck you, your wife got it worse you asshole!" posts is wow.

Spoiler: My Lady with a side of armchair diagnosing

Poor guy.

 

[Dante Alighieri]

Women really can do no wrong in soy eyes, huh. I'd say the only questionable thing he did was "yell", which isn't that big a deal and is very understandable in this kind of situation. Giving women a free pass on account of "PPD" is so scummy and disgusting, as if women shouldn't be held accountable even when they murder their kids.

I wonder how many of these male feminists are married or have children, or had married parents growing up.

Poor dude.

 

[Section230]

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Number of "What's that, you have a job and do majority of the housework and happened to be stressed too? Fuck you, your wife got it worse you asshole!" posts is wow.

Spoiler: My Lady with a side of armchair diagnosing

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Poor guy.

You get what you pay for when you go to the internet with stupid questions. Like what did this dude think was gonna happen? Reasonable dialogue?

 

[Shield Breaker]

Women really can do no wrong in soy eyes, huh. I'd say the only questionable thing he did was "yell", which isn't that big a deal and is very understandable in this kind of situation. Giving women a free pass on account of "PPD" is so scummy and disgusting, as if women shouldn't be held accountable even when they murder their kids.

I wonder how many of these male feminists are married or have children, or had married parents growing up.

Poor dude.

Walking off without your newborn baby is really unusual, and I think it is quite possible she has PPD. If he's doing the majority of the housework, it is likely a new thing in light of the child. She legit sounds like she is having a breakdown.

 

[Dante Alighieri]

Walking off without your newborn baby is really unusual, and I think it is quite possible she has PPD. If he's doing the majority of the housework, it is likely a new thing in light of the child. She legit sounds like she is having a breakdown.

Okay? She's still responsible for ditching the kid with dad while he's in the middle of working, for not being in contact for 4 hours, for not communicating in any way leading up to said ditching of child. Then she ditches the kid again to hide at her mother's. She's trying to take a break from a lifetime commitment. It would be more sympathetic if she also held a full time job and was juggling work, children, and chores but she just has the child and is failing at even that! Not to mention if she's in such a good relationship with her mother then she could ask her mom to babysit for 4 hours so she can get her much desired break.

Flip the sexes, man dumps baby on woman and he's called a deadbeat, a scumbag, a bastard, every dirty name in the book and she gets all the praise for being a hard-working woman that should divorce him immediately. Men get no scapegoats to pass blame onto, we aren't excused for suffering mental illnesses.

I'm no psychic, but if he's being honest -and it sounds like it due to the yelling admission- then he's being treated very unfairly.

 

[Shield Breaker]

Okay? She's still responsible for ditching the kid with dad while he's in the middle of working, for not being in contact for 4 hours, for not communicating in any way leading up to said ditching of child. Then she ditches the kid again to hide at her mother's. She's trying to take a break from a lifetime commitment. It would be more sympathetic if she also held a full time job and was juggling work, children, and chores but she just has the child and is failing at even that! Not to mention if she's in such a good relationship with her mother then she could ask her mom to babysit for 4 hours so she can get her much desired break.

Flip the sexes, man dumps baby on woman and he's called a deadbeat, a scumbag, a bastard, every dirty name in the book and she gets all the praise for being a hard-working woman that should divorce him immediately. Men get no scapegoats to pass blame onto, we aren't excused for suffering mental illnesses.

I'm no psychic, but if he's being honest -and it sounds like it due to the yelling admission- then he's being treated very unfairly.

PPD fucks with your brain. You're expecting someone who is having a mental health crisis to act rationally.

 

[DumbDude42]

PPD fucks with your brain. You're expecting someone who is having a mental health crisis to act rationally.

weak ass excuses tbh
aint nobody on the whole planet cutting some runaway deadbeat dad any slack because "he might have mental problems so it's not his fault" either, so how the fuck can you unironically expect us to give the benefit of the doubt to this bitch acting all hysteric and shit?