It's more or less an axiom at this point that if you see literally anyone online IDing as a lesbian, it's overwhelmingly likely to be a gross troon. In fact, it's a plot twist if they aren't one. Therefore this is a more or less average state of affairs. Lol
Unless its on Tumblr, and even then reddit unwanteds are crawling all over it.
"giving it away" the way twats "give away" a thoroughly broken bulky electronic item to a charity shop so its their problem now, rather than spending the time/ money to take it to the dump.
Right. And to paraphrase Kissin' Company CEO Butters Stotch, whether you're giving her money or having to take her out to dinner and listen to her talk about her mothafuckin' problems, all boys pay for kissin', you know what I'm sayin'?
Or, alternativately, you can stop being a retard, fuck them and completely ignoring them after the fact. Treating them basically as a one-use sex object.
counterpoint- have you seen the fucking state of them? yuck, nein danke.
If you're lucky and they aren't some BPD nightmare who will search and hound you for a greater connection.
I mean, if you're able to bang a polyamorous person without having to hear them sperg about polyamory then you've met a rare one. It's like going out to dinner with a vegan. You'd have to be planning to kidnap and drug them to avoid any annoying conversations.
Oh baby, do we laugh.
The dude seems to be a selfish asshole. It's pretty clear why he didn't want to get married : so he could ditch his partner whenever he felt like so, without owing her anything. And that's what he did, he replaced her by a younger model, while still expecting her to help him pay the bills and do household chores. The woman probably felt modern and empowered not marrying... and we can see where it led her to. Now that men and women have equal rights, it's really foolish not to want to get married as a woman. If a man wants to fuck you without marrying, just tell him to fuck off lol. It's better to become a wine aunt than ending up used and discarded like this right before menopause.
In the same vein, though, because of how modern marriage laws work, there's absolutely no benefit to a modern man marrying a woman at this point, and it would even be stupid to do so. Its the screwed up dichotomy of modern marriage.
What makes it even worse is because polyamory is becoming the new "in" thing, there is increasing pressure from people's own friend groups to open up their relationships, meaning more people will consider going poly just to fit in.
There is, in that it makes division of shared assets easier and protects the lower earning partner, or the partner that took time off to raise kids in the marriage and lost out on their career. If that were men it would apply to them. It's just that that's almost never men and they used to get a lot more out of it when the women were not legally equal and dependent on marriage to survive. The modernity that screwed up marriage is recognizing women as equally human to men - marriage was developed when women as property and now they aren't any more.
Yuck. Do people just not have any boundaries anymore? The idea of opening up your marriage because of friend group pressure implies that you'd be trading around within that friend group, or at the very least that would be a likely possibility.
It's really bad if you're into stuff like tabletop gaming because that entire community is nothing but gross polyamorists trying to recruit more members to their cult. It's harder to find a couple to play games with than a couple to play games with, at least in my slice of the world.
Absolute truth. I miss RoboRally.
It’s so bad I’ve heard people ask if “playing tabletop games” is code for some kind of extreme sexual depravity because every fat poly couple says that’s their main hobby.
That type of shit is why I don't tell anyone I play tabletop games. Poly people are freaks and try to make everything about sex, I don't want that kind of degeneracy in my house. I just want to play a fucking game.
For real. My dream of playing solemnly and conscientiously with respectable adults is always dashed by polyamorous pansexual 1st edition 40k mutants.
TRAGON DIRTLE IS RIGHT
I've only seen online groups filled with singles who aren't.
I propose a third variable - both are attractive to autists.
