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Wow, it's almost as if he's in an emotionally abusive relationship with someone who is a raging hypocrite/narcissist and should drop that chick.
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Tanner Glass
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I wonder if he has a hobby or behavior that perhaps would make her think he's less of a man or perhaps likes being abused on some level?
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Someone alert the science geeks: r/polyamory has the world's largest collection of bipedal invertebrates 
> She's a narcissistic bitch fucking a homeless drug addict in the same house as her family lives
> He's a spineless cissy boy faggot who probably sprung his AGP-fueled crossdressing on his family with no warning
>They both agreed to a poly relationship to try to fix their irreparable dysfunctional coupling
No heroes here, only villians
> She's a narcissistic bitch fucking a homeless drug addict in the same house as her family lives
> He's a spineless cissy boy faggot who probably sprung his AGP-fueled crossdressing on his family with no warning
>They both agreed to a poly relationship to try to fix their irreparable dysfunctional coupling
No heroes here, only villians
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I mean, basically same shit as Stacy coming out as into cucking her male partners once she realized fatter dicks existed, but she also wants his financial aid or a backup plan.
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Ugh, I just sat and read this entire thread and it got me right in the feels; I kept switching from to 
and back again as it went on.
I had a friend in her early 20s who was into poly and kept asking people why they weren't comfortable with the idea, or even discussing the idea. Her attitude was that monogamy = "territorialisation" and that it's natural for people to want to fuck around, poly/open relationships just allow it to happen without cheating.
I told her that I didn't like the idea because I don't want to be lying in bed at home, alone, depressed, while someone I love is banging some random dude. I told her that I didn't want someone else to be getting the sex while I deal with all of the emotional difficult stuff. She said "oh but that's a bad poly relationship, most of them aren't like that."
I gave that a big X to doubt. We ended up agreeing to disagree.
I'm so glad no-one I've dated has ever tried to pull this bs on me. "If you don't allow me to bang other people, it's over." Like, what can you do in response to that? "Okay it's over" is the best response, of course, because by then it really is - but I can understand that if you love someone deeply you might want to try to cling on to whatever part of their life you can still have. And you just know that if the partner says "okay it's over", the poly person will be like "omg he broke up with me because he was too closed-minded to accept who I really am bawwwwwww".
I can't even with these people, as the millennials say.
to and back again as it went on.I had a friend in her early 20s who was into poly and kept asking people why they weren't comfortable with the idea, or even discussing the idea. Her attitude was that monogamy = "territorialisation" and that it's natural for people to want to fuck around, poly/open relationships just allow it to happen without cheating.
I told her that I didn't like the idea because I don't want to be lying in bed at home, alone, depressed, while someone I love is banging some random dude. I told her that I didn't want someone else to be getting the sex while I deal with all of the emotional difficult stuff. She said "oh but that's a bad poly relationship, most of them aren't like that."
I gave that a big X to doubt. We ended up agreeing to disagree.
I'm so glad no-one I've dated has ever tried to pull this bs on me. "If you don't allow me to bang other people, it's over." Like, what can you do in response to that? "Okay it's over" is the best response, of course, because by then it really is - but I can understand that if you love someone deeply you might want to try to cling on to whatever part of their life you can still have. And you just know that if the partner says "okay it's over", the poly person will be like "omg he broke up with me because he was too closed-minded to accept who I really am bawwwwwww".
I can't even with these people, as the millennials say.
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Polyamory is sexual Freemasonry.
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You mean, if I save the life of a slut, then I'll become a slut?
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Tanner Glass
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I'm not a religious scholar, but I'm pretty sure that you can't have pre-marital sex constantly for at least 5 years and then stop and have it still count as "respecting the religion/institute of marriage" - doubly so if your solution to the problem is polyamory.
Guts Gets Some
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Uh.... you've already had sex before marriage. I'm pretty sure it just takes one time. You can't regret it now.
Just get fucked again and enjoy it, I say.
She wasn't too serious about her religion if it took her this long.
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I mean, yeah, she already kinda blew it, but props for trying.
But not committing adultery is literally one of the Ten Commandments. Letting your fiancé sleep around on you is pretty clearly adultery. Why on earth would she think that that, of all things, is the best solution??
But not committing adultery is literally one of the Ten Commandments. Letting your fiancé sleep around on you is pretty clearly adultery. Why on earth would she think that that, of all things, is the best solution??
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You don't have to be religious to read Aristotle... Who by the way says that vices are not ACTS, but HABITS.
Who the fuck would believe Groom Manwhore will control himself based on his word alone?
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she's not terribly serious about it now, given her ideas of what constitutes sexual impropriety
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I had an ex gf who did that. She went from always wanting sex to not wanting it because of jesus. I dumped her ass.
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If you've been fucking your boyfriend for years and suddenly stop, and he goes and starts fucking someone else, that's not saving the relationship, just acknowledging it's over.
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Hmm, no other comments by that user. Nothing else at all. I think I smell a troll.
Interesting that you guys think she's going Christian, by the way. I'm not aware of too many Christian women who would be okay with their men acquiring a throwaway side-piece. But this age is adulterous and deviant-affirming so I guess it's possible she's going to "focus" on some sort of bizarre half-assed Christian-ish episode that accomplishes nothing but terminating her emotional fling with religion...and with her man.
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There's certainly precedent for the attempt but considering I highly doubt Margery is her inspiration and even old Madge was accused of heresy for her beliefs, OP doesn't have a leg to stand on.
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The only way this would be slightly reasonable is if she converted and wants to hold out for a coming, soon to be here, get us married RIGHT NOW so we're no longer fornicating marriage. But it's not, so this is a breakup with a religion-flavored sideshow
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