r/polyamory

[Non-Expert!]

I heard there were Muslims who supported legalizing gay marriage not because they wanted it but because they hoped it would lead to legalized plural marriage. And that's part of the reason why I don't see poly marriage becoming legal. People supported gay marriage because they knew gay people: they were their friends and neighbors and relatives, who otherwise engaged in normative cultural practices. On the other hand, Muslims aren't normies and don't have the same relationships with the rest of society as gay people do. And people will see it as oppressive to women.

In Reynolds v United States, they note that marriage has always been monogamous going back in England from time immemorial. Precedent is a huge deal in the US court system.

Islam is a religion though. Just like Christianity. Globally Muslims are every bit as diverse as Christians, and there is a metric fuckton of them. I know that Muslims get a bad rap on this forum, but most Muslims here in the States are not of the [strap dynamite to yourself, throw on a Niquab and pull the string] variety. In fact, those whom I have encountered want their mosque, but appreciate the secular situation here. Unless you live in a rural community or work for a Megachurch, you probably brush shoulders with Muslims every day, and remain blissfully unaware of it.

Powerlevel here, but trust me, you all would be the first to hear about if I had encountered a real-live (literally?) "ka-boom" Muslim. Although we do seem to encounter our share of "ka-boom" Christians.

Actually one issue folks had with same-sex marriage was not so much with lesbians but with Gay men. As far as normie behavior is concerned, here is a joke ...

What does a lesbian bring on the second date?

Spoiler: Answer

A U-haul.

And gay men? What do they bring?

Spoiler: ?

What second date?

Ok back to the possibility of state-sanctioned orgies ...

 

[Crunchy Leaf]

Islam is a religion though. Just like Christianity. Globally Muslims are every bit as diverse as Christians, and there is a metric fuckton of them. I know that Muslims get a bad rap on this forum, but most Muslims here in the States are not of the [strap dynamite to yourself, throw on a Niquab and pull the string] variety. In fact, those whom I have encountered want their mosque, but appreciate the secular situation here. Unless you live in a rural community or work for a Megachurch, you probably brush shoulders with Muslims every day, and remain blissfully unaware of it.

Powerlevel here, but trust me, you all would be the first to hear about if I had encountered a real-live (literally?) "ka-boom" Muslim. Although we do seem to encounter our share of "ka-boom" Christians.

Actually one issue folks had with same-sex marriage was not so much with lesbians but with Gay men. As far as normie behavior is concerned, here is a joke ...

What does a lesbian bring on the second date?

Spoiler: Answer

A U-haul.

And gay men? What do they bring?

Spoiler: ?

What second date?

Ok back to the possibility of state-sanctioned orgies ...

Normie Muslims aren’t the ones interested in plural marriage, though. I have seen people in my hometown wearing niqabs and lots and lots wearing hijabs, including small children. Also a lot of them aren’t white, which can’t be discounted. I really don’t think the American populace at large would ever warm to plural marriage.

 

[TaimuRadiu]

Normie Muslims aren’t the ones interested in plural marriage, though. I have seen people in my hometown wearing niqabs and lots and lots wearing hijabs, including small children. Also a lot of them aren’t white, which can’t be discounted. I really don’t think the American populace at large would ever warm to plural marriage.

Where I live there just happens to be Abdul and Fatima, and then for some reason two or three of Abdul's "cousins" just happen to come over from their shithole with a lot of kids. And then they have more kids.

It happens, and it's not a good idea. But here in the USA Muslims at least aren't as bad as Mormons.

 

[Non-Expert!]

Where I live there just happens to be Abdul and Fatima, and then for some reason two or three of Abdul's "cousins" just happen to come over from their shithole with a lot of kids. And then they have more kids.

It happens, and it's not a good idea. But here in the USA Muslims at least aren't as bad as Mormons.

Are they all boinking each other and 150 of their best friends? Then we have a polyamory problem.

Statistics show, almost universally, that once removed from pro-natalist, sexist, worm-infested shitholes, the second generation actually enjoys the fact that women can work for a fair wage and love being able to buy their own home and not have to stand in line to use the bathroom,

And having grown up, competing with 8 siblings for 3 kidney beans, a corn tortilla and a microscopic wedge of pie sucks. And spending your own childhood babysitting siblings sucks. It is a shit sandwich, any way you present it.

So generally when Abdul and Fatima become grandparents, their family tree starts to look like a pear and not a pyramid. When they are great-grandparents, it looks more like a diamond.

This is more or less an accepted fact. I mean look at the Duggars. Have any of their kids come out and said that they can't wait to find their own Jimbob to keep them pregnant for the next 30 years?

Anyway like I said, unless these folks are boinking multiple partners, with no accountability in place, seeking advice for what is screamingly obvious, and being general douchebags, they are a different kettle of fish.

Although we do know how family pyramids collapse into diamond shaped things and ultimately into inverse pyramids (look at China..) I can't help but wonder about the fate of these "polyamorous" folks.

Do they make poly-kids, paternity unknown, who become poly themselves?

These folks behave in such odd ways, that comparative studies seem off the table ...

 

[TaimuRadiu]

Are they all boinking each other and 150 of their best friends? Then we have a polyamory problem.

Statistics show, almost universally, that once removed from pro-natalist, sexist, worm-infested shitholes, the second generation actually enjoys the fact that women can work for a fair wage and love being able to buy their own home and not have to stand in line to use the bathroom,

And having grown up, competing with 8 siblings for 3 kidney beans, a corn tortilla and a microscopic wedge of pie sucks. And spending your own childhood babysitting siblings sucks. It is a shit sandwich, any way you present it.

So generally when Abdul and Fatima become grandparents, their family tree starts to look like a pear and not a pyramid. When they are great-grandparents, it looks more like a diamond.

This is more or less an accepted fact. I mean look at the Duggars. Have any of their kids come out and said that they can't wait to find their own Jimbob to keep them pregnant for the next 30 years?

Anyway like I said, unless these folks are boinking multiple partners,

No, but it has to do with polygamy. Abdul, Fatima, and the sister-wives are at least not as cancerous as Soybeard and Fatcunt posting on Reddit about their totally woke polycule. Considering what my LIVED EXPERIENCE is, I seriously doubt that it actually does get better, but maybe the white race deserves it for unleashing the cancer that is Reddit upon the world.

 

[Non-Expert!]

No, but it has to do with polygamy. Abdul, Fatima, and the sister-wives are at least not as cancerous as Soybeard and Fatcunt posting on Reddit about their totally woke polycule. Considering what my LIVED EXPERIENCE is, I seriously doubt that it actually does get better, but maybe the white race deserves it for unleashing the cancer that is Reddit upon the world.

Spoiler: OT

Like ok, do a simple search on Margaret Sanger and the world she faced. She dealt white folks having like 8 kids, cramped in a rat-infested hovel, uneducated, and mom and kids faced daily beatings from Big Biff who would unleash his drunken rage on them. Oh yeah and bring home whatever he picked up from the local whores or degenerate homos in local privy holes. Then either Mom would finally die giving birth to a sick or dead baby, ormfrom having some shit infested finger jambed upmher vagina to get the kid out. Europeans had the same problems. Worse in fact.

Basically the once West finally had the mental awareness to see that this sucked, they took a spray hose with soap, bleach and water and fucking flooded the place. Condom-filled piñatas were hanging on street lamps ... (Actually no, but we are OT.)

Do some geneological research on your own family ... read the history.

Basically almost every white person on the planet (excepting quiverfull fundies) got the memo on this, like a century ago. Nothing has changed. Birthrates are down across All mileau in the states.

Are white folks responsible for Reddit? That seems more like a global conspiracy to me ... Conspiracy is a strong word. But enabling a platform that allows people to gain social support for self-destructive behaviors, reeks of "hmmmm ..." especially since they do have a "awareness raising" disease spreading component.

Honestly, all of this moves toward social collapse ... unraveling the moral and social fabric of the nation.

If the owners of Reddit and Insta and Twitter wanted to do something about this, all they would need to do is narrow the terms of service. That is what makes me deeply cynical too,

 

[TaimuRadiu]

Spoiler: OT

Like ok, do a simple search on Margaret Sanger and the world she faced. She dealt white folks having like 8 kids, cramped in a rat-infested hovel, uneducated, and mom and kids faced daily beatings from Big Biff who would unleash his drunken rage on them. Oh yeah and bring home whatever he picked up from the local whores or degenerate homos in local privy holes. Then either Mom would finally die giving birth to a sick or dead baby, ormfrom having some shit infested finger jambed upmher vagina to get the kid out. Europeans had the same problems. Worse in fact.

Basically the once West finally had the mental awareness to see that this sucked, they took a spray hose with soap, bleach and water and fucking flooded the place. Condom-filled piñatas were hanging on street lamps ... (Actually no, but we are OT.)

Do some geneological research on your own family ... read the history.

Basically almost every white person on the planet (excepting quiverfull fundies) got the memo on this, like a century ago. Nothing has changed. Birthrates are down across All mileau in the states.

Are white folks responsible for Reddit? That seems more like a global conspiracy to me ...

Birthrates being down is absolutely a bad thing in general. Not like I'm going to have any children.

The "poly" scene seems to be overwhelmingly White, and so do the users of Reddit in general. Aaron Swartz, one of the founders, was unquestionably killed in a glowop

 

[Crunchy Leaf]

Birth rates being 1.7 children per woman is bad. Birth rates going back to the pre-modern 7 children per women is also bad. (I say pre-modern because the white American birthrate noticeably went down between 1800 and 1900–illicit birth control was absolutely a thing then.) 2.5 or 3 would be ideal.

Poly is definitely white people bullshit. People of other races sleep around, have multiple partners, etc., but the ‘only people with extremely high iqs are poly’ is whites only.

 

[Non-Expert!]

I know that we all have our prejudices ... so -SNIP-

But what is particularly irritating about this, is that people who look and act "white enough" are "polyamorous" and get unofficial political support for their degeneracy. And we (whites) still set the tone, due to the fact that we are still the majority.

If Negros, colored Puerto Ricans, Asian boat people, or non-white Hispanics/Amerindian types act like this, (and some do) they are simply acting like "niggers." And ... well ... hmmm ....

Chinese and Indians seem to have it together enough to not make a public display of being complete fucktards. At least not in the States.

 

[melty]

As entertaining as this is it's the kind of conversation that makes everyone hate Articles and Happenings. Fatima and Abdul aren't funny and they don't post on Reddit.

Back to the subject. "I'm very hot and lots of random guys want to have sex with me. Is this normal?"

r/polyamory - Navigating jealousy and indignation over ease of finding secondary partners

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[Non-Expert!]

As entertaining as this is it's the kind of conversation that makes everyone hate Articles and Happenings. Fatima and Abdul aren't funny and they don't post on Reddit.

Back to the subject. "I'm very hot and lots of random guys want to have sex with me. Is this normal?"

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r/polyamory - Navigating jealousy and indignation over ease of finding secondary partners

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Answer: doesn't matter because that marriage is doomed. And as for this married "hottie" who enjoys being fucked by multiple men, she is just going to have to learn by trial and error. Her trials, and other people's errors in getting involved with her in the first place.

As for Fatima and Abdul, who knows ... But they have somehow surpassed these idiots in their understanding of life's basic rules.

 

[Sparklepants]

This is more or less an accepted fact. I mean look at the Duggars. Have any of their kids come out and said that they can't wait to find their own Jimbob to keep them pregnant for the next 30 years?

Yes. Kendra and Joe are the ones that spring immediately to mind. They’ve been popping out a baby every year since they got married. Jill Duggar also wanted a ton of kids. Honestly I’m surprised that the quiverfull fundies aren’t into plural marriage. Way more arrows if you have multiple women popping them out.

 

[TaimuRadiu]

I know that we all have our prejudices ... so -SNIP-

But what is particularly irritating about this, is that people who look and act "white enough" are "polyamorous" and get unofficial political support for their degeneracy. And we (whites) still set the tone, due to the fact that we are still the majority.

If Negros, colored Puerto Ricans, Asian boat people, or non-white Hispanics/Amerindian types act like this, (and some do) they are simply acting like "niggers." And ... well ... hmmm ....

Chinese and Indians seem to have it together enough to not make a public display of being complete fucktards. At least not in the States.

The culture of machismo is very real among Hispanics, there is an equivalent among Black people, at least there is a kind of serial monogamy going on that lets you have six gorillon babymommas and not take care of the children. But at this point I'm glad it isn't like "THIS IS OUR LIFESTYLE CHOICE AND YOU'RE NOT WOKE IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT JUAN GOING OUT AT NIGHT TO PLOW BONITA WHILE LEAVING MARIA AT HOME WITH OUR EIGHTY CHILDREN"

 

[Buer]

As entertaining as this is it's the kind of conversation that makes everyone hate Articles and Happenings. Fatima and Abdul aren't funny and they don't post on Reddit.

Back to the subject. "I'm very hot and lots of random guys want to have sex with me. Is this normal?"

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r/polyamory - Navigating jealousy and indignation over ease of finding secondary partners

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This girl might be hot but she's a complete trainwreck. Apparently she's also a sugarbaby:

Wonder if the new guy is her sugar dadddy or if it's some other dude. Feel pretty bad for her husband if that's the case.

 

[AprilRains]

She's wondering if she should charge her john more because he's asking for more time? Is that what this is?

 

[Blake Chortles]

How is this whole sugar daddy thing legal? I assume its because its an allowance and not payment per act?

 

[MediocreMilt]

How is this whole sugar daddy thing legal? I assume its because its an allowance and not payment per act?

I mean, technically it's legal for the same reason it's legal to buy stuff for a legit gf.

Your sugar baby is your gf. They just don't respect you enough to have an official relationship and it allows them better status with their thot friends.

 

[Crunchy Leaf]

As entertaining as this is it's the kind of conversation that makes everyone hate Articles and Happenings. Fatima and Abdul aren't funny and they don't post on Reddit.

Back to the subject. "I'm very hot and lots of random guys want to have sex with me. Is this normal?"

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r/polyamory - Navigating jealousy and indignation over ease of finding secondary partners

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If I saw this post by itself, I would assume troll. But it's not.

Also, her husband is one of those men who doesn't do any work around the house. His mother comes over and he doesn't clean up the house, she does. Subconsciously she's over him but is too much of a coward to get a divorce.

 

[Kaede Did Nothing Wrong]

I know this isn't Reddit but whatever. It's another gem from The Guardian: "There’s zero evidence that it’s worse for children': parenting in a polyamorous relationship". Apparently it's an extract from a book by Lucy Fry. Archive here.

"We won’t know the impact of our choices until our son can articulate it."

there's no evidence (until he can testify)

 

[Boss Bass]

For example - in a normal, healthy, sane relationship - You want to have sex but your partner is feeling really sick. You calm down your boner and take care of your partner (soup, water, blankets, whatever) and maybe sit in bed with them all day watching movies or something

Remember, this is the economy these people desperately want. “Pay” me only for my most valuable minutes and throw me in the fucking ditch otherwise.