So, kiwi like to pretend bob was a cool dude who didn't deserve this but everything we actually know about him would imply he was a nutcase. At the very least we know bob was a chronic enabler, allowing his wife's hoarding to continue till it blocked off entire rooms of his house. He seemed to have his own hoarding tendencies, I think the letter he gave to chris about keeping his fathers razor even after he broke it is really telling. The implication that youd want you loved ones to keep all your things and carry on your hobby in perpetuity really speaks to the levels of empathy bob didnt have.
As for barb, at one point she was like 300+ lbs and still buying new dressers every day. It's obvious a lot of chris's weirder phrasing comes from her and how she speaks. You sort of want to believe chris is retarded so the gibberish he spouts is internal, but reading barbs old letters or listening to her speak you realize she taught chris to speak like that. So if the mangled lexicon was a sign of slow in the mind, barb definitely qualified. And then. Well the hoarding. Hoarding is usually indicative of a cocktail of mental disorder and social issues.
As a couple they were very boomer mindset, they just think whatever they say is right even if the source is that they just made it up. Which certainly influenced chris.
As for your frankly schizo gender pol meme, its retarded and barely worth responding to, but I will anyway. For the most part Karens are recognized as a certain age group for a reason. Women tend to get special treatment especially by men who think they have a shot, which usually last till they are married and have their first kid. Their looks start to fade, and the screaming child isnt very seductive. So regular guys start treating them normal instead of special. Some of them don't take it so well at first and need timr to adjust, which mostly they do. Which is why karens dont really go up to grandma ages, though some do.